I broke up with my ex almost a year ago and I have been dating and shit but damn it sucks out here. I don't like anyone and its killing me because I met someone new, cute, blah blah blah but I just can't feel her man. My ex was lazy, selfish, blah blah blah but damn it I love that chick and I dont know why. Yo this shit is crazy. All my other ex's I bounce, met someone I liked, happy. This time around shit is going slow. I find them, they are cool, but theres always something wrong with them.

Supposed to be going on a date at 6 and I dont want to go.

 

Stop dating white women....They are noting but trouble...

 

The title is misleading

 

That's part of the game when one dates, JJ...

I mean, this is basically like a job interview...look at how many candidates a hiring manager has to go through before settling on the one? And even then, that one may not work out...C'est la vie.

 

the dating game is kinda like the lottery...gotta be in it to win it!


...from the title, i thought this thread would be a lot more interesting

 

You want to suck balls...?!?!?










OMG. You SO deserve an avatar change now.

 

I said no such thing


And you wouldn't dare

 

I feel you man. Took me about a year to finally like a girl, that i actually liked. And what a let down, the girl never called me back, she never even picked up her phone.
You may just have to chill with the chick a little more, the girl im talking to now i wasnt fully feeling at first but talkin to her the last couple days has totally pushed me into really really liking this girl

 

I've been out of a relationship for 4-5 months and have yet to meet anyone worth dating in the traditional sense lol.

Are you not getting laid? Are you looking for intimacy/affection?

 

I am getting the oral treatment but I tend to want to have sex with a chick I really like so it can be intimate and fun. I am not partial to screwing chicks I dont like.

 

It sucks being single when you keep wanting to be in a relationship. But maybe you need to be single for a while to figure what you want. And if you have any hope of being content in a relationship, you need to stop comparing other chicks to your ex.

 

been out of a relationship for 12 months...no real desire to date still...no girl has piqued my interest either...

 

i don't think that works, best example. Me.

 

^^^

It worked for me.

 

So how did it go? Did she suck them?

 

Nice.

 

hang in there

 

You're getting head from a girl you really like? I don't see a problem with that.

Or are you getting head from a so-so chick and want to find a girl(s?) that you like for more than that?

 

No I cancelled and went out with a "given" chick. The one I can just be talking to then jump on and pull her pants down and she won't care. Only problem is we can't have sex, so that sucks but brain is there.

 

JJ, why the hell would you pull her pants down if you can't have sex with her? Are you a doctor? Wow. PITTB?

 

PIITB. Yes

No asshat its for some oral healing. I don't like it but its hard to find chicks who want to fuck around and dont want a relationship who aren't whores or crazy.

 

Chill man, it just sounded weird, you pulling down her pants, and then not having sex.

 

LOL Asshat was meant in a buddy way, not angry way. you are a fine person.

trust me I know how sad it sounds

 

(looks at thread title)

Pun intended?

 

Haha :gheyfight:

I am sick, so my sarcasm meter is broken right now.

Ever used a used fleshlight?

 

in my opinion you only dont like anyone you meet since you recently got out of a relationship with a girl that at least to me seems to have a lot of negative qualities. she probably wore your patience and your general interest in dealing with women (for the time being... hopefully it didnt make you gay ) and any little flaw just turns you off of the new girls you meet. my advice calm down with the dating for a little bit... go out with your buddies... then get back at it once you've had some time to relax and do your own thing.

 

um... he said....

 

The problem is you keep putting all of these hoes in the same category of: potential mates.

You can't have the same mentality when you approach a skeezer for relief, as you do a woman suitable for mating. That's why the emotions, dissatisfaction, and shit come into play because your focus is wack!

Smash the women for fun and think FUN...

Smash the women for longevity and think LONGEVITY...

But don't think about "I can't smash this chick because I don't like her for the long haul" if you don't plan to be with her for the long haul, because that shit is sabotage to sex! Negative shit that comes into our minds fucks up the fun when we are trying to fuck! So think fun and the sub-par broads will remain sub-par during the fun and that shit will go smooth like it should. Not you sitting over there weighing options and shit!

If you can't mentally separate the two at the moment of sexual pleasure...then only fuck women you might stay with...that way if the pussy is good, and she sucks a mean dick...problem solved my brother!

 

That's some real shit.
Never knew how to man whore and not have feelings. That's whats fucking it all up because I have experienced the good stuff which is sex with someone who cares about ou and I have done hump buddies sex and I gotta say the ones that care go that extra mile when it comes to grinding it out.

But I might just stick with fucking potentials. I have a friend with a kid from a chick he met once at a club and banged her. Actually have known a few people who got skeezas preggers cause the condom slipped or broke...not for me. So I tend to try to think about the long haul "If I get this bitch pregnant will I regret it" Plus nothing better then raw dogging it so that might be again why because in relationships we don't use condoms. Random smashings I always have to.

 

You're playing with fire man, trust me. It's been my experience that even when in a long term relationship raw dogging it is not the way to unless you want a kid.

 

Even if she's on the pill? The odds of her getting pregnant on the pill are very low.

 

What are the odds if she 'accidentally' forgets to take the pills or she takes some antibiotics along with the pills that negate the protection offered by the pill

 

Worst thread ever. JJ, take some Midol for your aching pussy, tuck in the string, and stop crying.

 

But But Stevens I need a hug!

Trust I know the pussification of Michael (me) that has been occurring but I come here to whine so I don't have to do it in real life.

 

It's simple. You're still in love with your EX!

 

Yeah I figured that out the other night when we talked for 5 hours.
She is seeing someone, not serious
I am seeing someone, not serious (well as of today I told the girl I was dating it ain't working cause we just don't click that well, basically she calls me and asks me what I am doing I tell her reading a book and she is dumbfounded...you lose, next. That on top of the fact she curses like a sailor...major turn off)
I don't necessarily want my ex its just that there are slim pickings for the type of girl I want. My ex and I had a lot in common and a lot to talk about, not many southern black chicks have the same interests as me
Only one other person I have found that I want but she is my friend since the 8th grade and she is single and has been for 2 years for the same reason as me, slim pickings, but I am in friend zone with her...ugh.

 

Time to into the non-friend zone...

Just wait it out... go have fun... go to clubs etc... and don't try to find your love... she'll find you...

But meanwhile... have your fun...

 

Maybe it's not so much that you are STILL in love with her. Maybe you're just frustrated that you can't find someone like HER! Like you said, there's not a lot of options in your area. Maybe you need to move or maybe start dating people outside of your race. At least you'll have more selections and options if you consider the alternatives!

Oh and I know what you mean! Most of the guys I want I can't have and the ones that I don't want are just there....buggin' the h*ll outta me! haha It sucks to be in the friend zone and I totally understand where you're coming from. But I also understand the other side of that spectrum. You just can't force your feelings on people. I have a few guy friends that I've been friends with for years and ideally I would want to get with them because we already have a friendship as a foundation, but I just can't seem to see them past the platonic stage! I don't know why...it's weird!

Either way, good luck!

 

Your name is Michael? Now I understand the JJ reference!

You talked to your ex for 5 hours?! Damn.

 

Hahaha...Good Times...