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Old 04-01-2006, 05:44 PM
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STDs and D&R

Was wondering what the ass licking, ass lickin recieving, escort using, bordello visiting, myspace hittin, one night standin, first date hittin, another dudes junk lookin, 10-20-30+ lifetime partner taste testers stance on STDs is?

Before anyone answer with the condom wrap solution.
a) Straight out of the factory a percentage of condoms leak.
b) With all of the above i seriously doubt you or the other participants always wrap.

I'm not here to judge any ass licking, ass lickin recieving, escort using, bordello visiting, myspace hittin, one night standin, first date hittin, another dudes junk lookin, taste testers but rather sincerely want to know your STD angle.
Old 04-01-2006, 06:04 PM
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wrap most of the time...never had anything to even worry over.

unless you count a pregnancy @ 19
Old 04-01-2006, 06:19 PM
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I always ask the guy to wear a condom. I also get myself tested at least once a year and ask the guy to do the same at the start of a new relationship.
Old 04-01-2006, 06:43 PM
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I use condoms for the most part, get tested for the whole list of STD's at the start of any new relationship, and I've never had an STD. Then again i'm not a man whore like minch and I don't bang guys like youngtl.
Old 04-01-2006, 07:25 PM
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Originally Posted by sasha
I also get myself tested at least once a year and ask the guy to do the same at the start of a new relationship.
I'm a guy that actually does a similar thing. I always get tested before being with a new partner (basically after each relationship if not both) and recommend that they also get tested. Every one of them has been into doing this same thing. It's a good move.
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Originally Posted by NighthawkBlue
Was wondering what ... stance on STDs is?
I am strongly opposed to STDs. I always vote against any politician who is in favor of STDs. You should too. STDs can be transmitted sexually.

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I am strongly opposed to STDs. I always vote against any politician who is in favor of STDs. You should too. STDs can be transmitted sexually.

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Old 04-01-2006, 08:05 PM
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Never had an STD......Before marriage, I would get checked every six months or so, depending on the dating scene over a gievn time frame.
Old 04-02-2006, 01:55 AM
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Originally Posted by sasha
I always ask the guy to wear a condom. I also get myself tested at least once a year and ask the guy to do the same at the start of a new relationship.

do you get tested b4 you start having sex in a relationship or after you have already had sex.. j/w cuz what if they had something then it'd kinda be too late.. j/w tho
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i have never, ever, had a woman insist on using a condom every time. and I have only caught a few diseases over the years; nothing that couldn't be cured with a hot soldering iron.
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
Its the internet, everyone bangs someone new everyday.
of course there is the army of Keyboard Commandos whose true prowess is greatly eggagerated or flat made up 100%.

However for the sincere ones. Wrapping does not protect 100%. Plus a number of you said you usually wrap. Okay, on the times you don't wrap you are with a certified virgin who has never had an infection of any sort?

Also wrappers, you are saying missionary style only? Of course not. So when you oral and do otherwise it's while wearing a condom or celephane?

As gary_william/Gringo+Beaner=GreenBean posted "i have never, ever, had a woman [you could insert man here even moreso] insist on using a condom every time." Seems most unlikely that a barrier is used on each and every encounter, or each different "activity" if one is with a temp partner.

I don't want any of you to get an STD.
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I have been tested a few times in the past and came up clean on those accounts. But what would you do if you really liked a girl/guy and you found out they had an STD?
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Originally Posted by sasha
I always ask the guy to wear a condom. I also get myself tested at least once a year and ask the guy to do the same at the start of a new relationship.
Being picky helps too
Old 04-03-2006, 12:21 PM
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Originally Posted by SakiGT
Being picky helps too
True.
But many STDs give off no odor or outward signs, like chlamydia.

Also for you testers, NO test gives up to the minute results.
Example Hep C and HIV. It can lie dormant for quite a time. Hep C for 10 20 years. Hence the test you got today does not prove the cooties are not there.
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Originally Posted by NighthawkBlue
True.
But many STDs give off no odor or outward signs, like chlamydia.

Also for you testers, NO test gives up to the minute results.
Example Hep C and HIV. It can lie dormant for quite a time. Hep C for 10 20 years. Hence the test you got today does not prove the cooties are not there.
No, but only sleeping with 4 guys as opposed to 10 is safer, or course.
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Originally Posted by SakiGT
No, but only sleeping with 4 guys as opposed to 10 is safer, or course.
bad idea to use statistics/odds for this kinda thing..you could sleep with one guy and get teh crotch cooties.
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Originally Posted by zeroday
bad idea to use statistics/odds for this kinda thing..you could sleep with one guy and get teh crotch cooties.
True, but if you think back to statistics & probability class or sex ed class, you'll remember that when you sleep with someone, you sleep with the rest of their partners too. and since those that practice unsafe/promisuous sex tend to keep company with each other, the odds of catching something are even higher.

What you said is true, but I think more first timer and first partner mistakes lead to babies, not STDs
Old 04-03-2006, 01:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Mike97 3.0P
True, but if you think back to statistics & probability class or sex ed class, you'll remember that when you sleep with someone, you sleep with the rest of their partners too. and since those that practice unsafe/promisuous sex tend to keep company with each other, the odds of catching something are even higher.

What you said is true, but I think more first timer and first partner mistakes lead to babies, not STDs
True. HPV, for example, can be passed on without you knowing until the girl develops some symptoms (there's no test for guys). It can be dormant for months or years so you'll never know who gave it to you if you had more than one sexual partner. Likewise, one has to be tested for HIV 3x every 6 months before you can be cleared.

So I guess let's just all practice abstinence!
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Sex can wait...masturbate!
What are we, freshmen in high school again?
Old 04-03-2006, 06:45 PM
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Originally Posted by sasha
True. HPV, for example, can be passed on without you knowing until the girl develops some symptoms (there's no test for guys).
That is correct. It's also true that a girl can have it for 20 yrs and not ever know it. They say something like 1 out of every 3 or 4 females has it and it's by far, the most common STD. Look on the bright side guys, according to the physicians at my work, it's really hard for a male to actually get it.

Then there is that question... What do you do if a girl (ok, ok, or guy...) has it? Do you keep seeing her? If so, do you always wear protection? I would think that would suck but I guess it's a small price to pay.
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Simple. I don't have intercourse. Of course, there's always the possibility of catching herpes and other nasty things by skin contact, so I only do sexual things with my boyfriend, and him likewise. It minimizes the risk, but doesn't eliminate it. I have to be especially careful because men tend to have more sex partners.
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Originally Posted by sasha
True. HPV, for example, can be passed on without you knowing until the girl develops some symptoms (there's no test for guys). It can be dormant for months or years so you'll never know who gave it to you if you had more than one sexual partner. Likewise, one has to be tested for HIV 3x every 6 months before you can be cleared.

So I guess let's just all practice abstinence!
HPV is genital warts right? (human papilloma virus?)

It's a nasty one. I've seen pictures during our grade 12 biology class on slideshows. It looked like a cauliflour patch on the girl, and the guy looked horribly deformed.

They also had pictures of chlamydia eating someone's face off (or was it syphilis?)
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That is correct. It's also true that a girl can have it for 20 yrs and not ever know it. They say something like 1 out of every 3 or 4 females has it and it's by far, the most common STD. Look on the bright side guys, according to the physicians at my work, it's really hard for a male to actually get it.

Then there is that question... What do you do if a girl (ok, ok, or guy...) has it? Do you keep seeing her? If so, do you always wear protection? I would think that would suck but I guess it's a small price to pay.

Did they get their degrees out of cereal boxes? No seriously, if all these girls are getting it, who's giving it to them? Are you sure they didn't say something like guys don't show symptoms?
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Come on Mike97 3.0P you know as well as the rest of us that women are all over each other whenever we're not looking.
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sasha, why are you so difficult?

Isn't there such a thing as a 'female condom'?
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Haha true. I guess i need to be less gullible when they tell me they don't "swing that way."
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Originally Posted by Mike97 3.0P
Did they get their degrees out of cereal boxes? No seriously, if all these girls are getting it, who's giving it to them? Are you sure they didn't say something like guys don't show symptoms?
Yeah, there is no way to tell is a guy has it unless he has sores or something visible. They also said women can pick it up from other places besides having it sexually transmitted.
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i get tested every year, and i get anyone i'm with tested too.
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Originally Posted by NighthawkBlue
Was wondering what the ass licking, ass lickin recieving, escort using, bordello visiting, myspace hittin, one night standin, first date hittin, another dudes junk lookin, 10-20-30+ lifetime partner taste testers stance on STDs is?

Before anyone answer with the condom wrap solution.
a) Straight out of the factory a percentage of condoms leak.
b) With all of the above i seriously doubt you or the other participants always wrap.

I'm not here to judge any ass licking, ass lickin recieving, escort using, bordello visiting, myspace hittin, one night standin, first date hittin, another dudes junk lookin, taste testers but rather sincerely want to know your STD angle.
Condoms offer 95% protection from HIV, but only 70% protection from other STIs. Don't let that girl's juice hit your pee hole even after you used the condom because bacteria can live outside the body for a short while. Keep that condom on all the way until you reach that shower, wash your hands first, hold one washed hand over your johnson, wash your pubes of her juice, then wash that johnson off. You can't be too careful these days.
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Originally Posted by TLD
Condoms offer 95% protection from HIV, but only 70% protection from other STIs. Don't let that girl's juice hit your pee hole even after you used the condom because bacteria can live outside the body for a short while. Keep that condom on all the way until you reach that shower, wash your hands first, hold one washed hand over your johnson, wash your pubes of her juice, then wash that johnson off. You can't be too careful these days.

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^^ LOL, I was lost for a bit, then went and re-read the post.
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^^ LOL, I was lost for a bit, then went and re-read the post.
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Sex can wait...masturbate!
u will go blind lol
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.... Then again i'm not a man whore like minch and I don't bang guys like youngtl.
Perhaps a guy like Vlad would be more to your liking?
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just had blood drawn to get tested for everything under the sun. I routinely make poor decisions.

Fuck! I'm nervous.


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