Anyone ever get stalked by their ex's?

I was looking around here and I found out that my ex is a lurker on a message board I am on and still comes on to read posts every now and then.

 

Interesting, but I am usually the one said to be the stalker, not the person being stalked. It usually arises out of remembering way too much personal info and them not remember telling me.

Maybe they are following you around trying to find ways to get back together...

 

Either that or just checking up on me... she was a controlling biyatch, and I just decided that I wanted nothing to do wit her so I cut her off, no phone, no e-mail... nothing.

 

Maybe she is trying to find out why you did this to her. A simple explanation might resolve some of the questions and she could then go kill herself knowing it is all her fault.

 

yeah what kind of fucked up shit is that. shes following you on forums hoping youll give a reason as to why you just dissapeared.

even a simple, youre a bitch, were over, is better than nothing.

 

Yeah, but she doesn't really deserve anything from me. I was good to her while we were together and I even paid off her debts when we broke up, but then I needed time and space to get on with my life and she wouldn't give me that (she dumped me to "keep her options open")

 

So I cut her off. end of story... I guess this should be in dating and relationships... whoops.

 

oh wait so you guys were already broken up. you didnt specify that. i thought you were in a relationship and then cut it off without ending it.

 

Just be careful that she doesnt cut you off John Wayne Bobbitt-style. Because that'll end your story.

 

My bad. Sorry I didn't make it clear. Yeah, already broken up and she wanted to be friends and I decided to move on. She ended it but gave me the I love you and maybe one day we can get back together again, but in the meantime I wanna screw other people. So I just decided that I wanted nothing to do with her.

 

You still haven't given me a reason yet, Boochie-pie!

 

Is she reading this, then?

 

I got stalked by a past client for a while, till I had two of my NYS Trooper friends pay her a little visit.

 

 

Boochie is my new gf's cat's name. I just made a new username, so for all I know she could be reading this... my guess is she won't know its me

 

 

I had a best friend that stalked me. He thought I was nailing his chick. Still a big instide joke. to ad

 

did you help produce the movie "Cable Guy"?

 

my advice RUN RUN RUN RUN for the hills

 

it was a lot like that. One night she was over and when she left I was walking back to my apartment and saw this person wizz by the hallway. I yelled his name and he came back around the corner and acted all drunk. Funny thing was I had just talked literally 5 sec before to him on my cell and he said that he was at the bar and lost his keys. This went on for weeks.

Dont talk to him anymore but everyone else will randomly open a door or window and go "hey tyson did you hear that"

 

I caught an ex on here...called her out in a PM. Had her ass .

 

At least she is only stalking you on a forum, the shit could be happening in real life Sometimes people go nuts when they are just cut off from people that they care about. I had a friend who broke up with her ex a few years ago and then all of a sudden decided that she wanted to know what was going on in his life. She never really got over him, and then found herself hiding out in front of his house every night. Sometimes she would even bring friends along. It kind of started getting out of hand when we bought binoculars at 3am. She eventually did call him when she was outside though, obviously not telling him that she'd been stalking his ass for the past 2 months, and it turned out fine. Just should have had the balls to call the guy in the first place

 

I have an acquaintance that used to park outside his Ex-GF's house and watch her through her window. What do you tell someone when they're being just way too creepy? I also have a friend that's being stalked. Calls 7-8 times within an hour, 3 sets a day. It's like working out for the creepy guy. She tells me stories and i laugh. Am I a bad person?