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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 12:43 AM
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sooo...what should I do here

Here is my small dilema
This girl I met in the Bahamas 2003...then went to stay at her house in Bucks County, PA that summer ('03) I was there for 2 days, we hung out, had dinner with her family and all...and I had sex with her.
Ok so the past year we have been tlaking all the time and she sends me pictures and shit, and how she can't wait to see me again.
So now she wants me to come pick her up down in North Philly and bring her up to one of my buddys NYE parties. She also wants to hook up.

Our IM conversation went like this. posted below.

So should I drive down to Philly and get her, then have to bring her back.

She won't drive up becuase she hates driving on highways and won't drive in NY...so we are talking round trip 2x will be around 450 miles. Is it worth all this hassle and driving for a girl you already have slept with. She would also have to stay at my house here in NY that night, which I'm not too much a fan of (since my parents will be here)
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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 12:48 AM
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G1O2L3F (11:41:10 PM): could you make the drive back here...fun?
G1O2L3F (11:41:12 PM): :-)
B******e20 (11:42:57 PM): YEA BABY!!!!
G1O2L3F (11:42:58 PM): could you make the drive back...with me driving, fun
G1O2L3F (11:43:00 PM): oh really
Bl******e20 (11:43:01 PM): of course!
G1O2L3F (11:43:05 PM): just how would you do that
Blon*****20 (11:43:10 PM): wellllll
Bl*******20 (11:43:19 PM): where do i begin?
G1O2L3F (11:43:26 PM): anywhere?
B********20 (11:43:31 PM): oh yea
G1O2L3F (11:43:31 PM): this could help out the cause
G1O2L3F (11:43:33 PM): haha
Bl*******20 (11:43:38 PM): u
Bl*******20 (11:43:40 PM): need
Bl*******20 (11:43:42 PM): to
Bl*******20 (11:43:44 PM): come
Bl*******20 (11:43:45 PM): get
Bl*******20 (11:43:47 PM): me
Bl*******20 (11:43:48 PM): than
Bl*******20 (11:43:50 PM): u
Bl*******20 (11:43:51 PM): will
Bl*******20 (11:43:55 PM): out!
Bl*******20 (11:43:58 PM): hehe
G1O2L3F (11:44:01 PM): you need to give me a hint now
G1O2L3F (11:44:05 PM): then I will come get you
G1O2L3F (11:44:07 PM): then I will find out
Bl*******20 (11:44:23 PM): umm start with some road head!
Bl*******20 (11:44:33 PM): than go on from there
Bl*******20 (11:44:38 PM): at the rest stop!
G1O2L3F (11:44:43 PM): alright i'm liking this
Bl*******20 (11:44:46 PM): when u pull over!
G1O2L3F (11:45:13 PM): got me excited about it, are you serious
Bl*******20 (11:45:19 PM): haha!! good!
Bl*******20 (11:45:23 PM): yea i m
Bl*******20 (11:45:26 PM): serious
Bl*******20 (11:45:33 PM): if u r
G1O2L3F (11:45:38 PM): yeah
G1O2L3F (11:45:48 PM): you like thinking about it don't you
Bl*******20(11:45:59 PM): y yes i do


EDIT : This continued on in a phone "sex" conversation.
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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 01:11 AM
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if you go through with that then you have too much free time


is she hot?
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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 01:15 AM
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Originally Posted by Python2121
if you go through with that then you have too much free time


is she hot?
I'd give her body a 8.5
Her face an 8
not as hot as allie, but good looking
Blowjob skill= 9.5 though
Kinky= 10

well what the hell else do I have to do...I'm on vacation till the 18th of Jan.

It's tough to turn down a guarantee fuck and road head. I could see if she was like in Bergen County...but Bucks County/N. Philly is borderline far. Gotta figure 4 hours of driving Friday and 4 hours of driving Sunday.
450 miles/ 16 MPG highway on Jeep= ~ 30 gallons of gas @ ~$2.10 = ~ $63 in gas
$12 GW Tolls
~$20 other tolls
Then dinner Friday night, day in NYC saturday and dinner there = another ~$200-250
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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 01:19 AM
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garunteed sex is garunteed sex.....blow skills at 9.5 is a deal closer.

fucking milk her til she cant walk.
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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 02:54 AM
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Originally Posted by sarlacc23
garunteed sex is garunteed sex.....blow skills at 9.5 is a deal closer.

fucking milk her til she cant walk.
agreed
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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 08:04 AM
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Originally Posted by sarlacc23
garunteed sex is garunteed sex.....blow skills at 9.5 is a deal closer.

fucking milk her til she cant walk.
Agreed X 2

You had me at blow job skill...
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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 08:38 AM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
I'd give her body a 8.5
Her face an 8
not as hot as allie, but good looking
Blowjob skill= 9.5 though
Kinky= 10

well what the hell else do I have to do...I'm on vacation till the 18th of Jan.

It's tough to turn down a guarantee fuck and road head. I could see if she was like in Bergen County...but Bucks County/N. Philly is borderline far. Gotta figure 4 hours of driving Friday and 4 hours of driving Sunday.
450 miles/ 16 MPG highway on Jeep= ~ 30 gallons of gas @ ~$2.10 = ~ $63 in gas
$12 GW Tolls
~$20 other tolls
Then dinner Friday night, day in NYC saturday and dinner there = another ~$200-250
Oh just get a loan from daddy and hit dat' pooty...
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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 08:44 AM
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Do it. Sounds like you will get a whole week of good guaranteed sex, not just one night.
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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 09:32 AM
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and you would say no to guaranteed sex because??
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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 09:37 AM
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Tell her spoiled ass to get on the train.


Or you can hang around in Philly

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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 09:55 AM
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and you would say no to guaranteed sex because??
he is tryin to play hard to get for ONCE. fool you know your gunna go pick her up no matter what we say.
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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 10:06 AM
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Originally Posted by 98CLChick
and you would say no to guaranteed sex because??

because of what I described above.

All that driving and crap...I gotta take her out then, it just seems like a big hassle.

But the reward seems nice...I don't care about the sex...I could have sex here. But the road head on the way home from Philly sounds awesome. Not too many girls are willing to do that...and I like the ones that are.
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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 10:10 AM
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you like any of them who will touch your dik dont lie
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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 10:13 AM
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Originally Posted by evilone
you like any of them who will touch your dik dont lie

I don't know...I have always proved to bring in the good looking ones...what can I say.


I actually can't stand a girl that is not good looking...here is my theory.
I can Jerk off if I really need to, so to be with a girl she has to be "eye-candy" I want other people to look, becuase that's the type of person I am. I want people to be like, what the hell is that girl doing with him...

I know, I'm an ass.
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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 10:38 AM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
I don't know...I have always proved to bring in the good looking ones...what can I say.


I actually can't stand a girl that is not good looking...here is my theory.
I can Jerk off if I really need to, so to be with a girl she has to be "eye-candy" I want other people to look, becuase that's the type of person I am. I want people to be like, what the hell is that girl doing with him...

I know, I'm an ass.

You're not an ass. I'm the same way.

You just simply want what you want. It's not a crime.
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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 10:43 AM
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You just simply want what you want. It's not a crime.
Only when he wants the pre-teens...

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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 11:17 AM
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or stalks them. how did that chick from class go tony?? did it ever pan out?
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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 11:25 AM
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Originally Posted by evilone
or stalks them. how did that chick from class go tony?? did it ever pan out?

hahhaah I don't stalk...ok maybe once. but it was justified following, I forgot to get her number...damnit


Oh anyhow yeah that went bad. We hung out, and it was annoying as all hell. She was like a High Schooler, flirty tease and all. I can't believe I missed it from the way she acted in class. I heard later on from other people that she has been called that before. Would of helped if they told me this beforehand. What a shame too, she probably had one of the best bodies out of any girl at ASU. But one day she came in without makeup and that was a little scary. She looked so average. But her body still looked amazing, I still can't get over like the small of her back, or the waistline to the pussy area...and her Legs. She was definitely hot. Too bad she was a child.
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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 11:27 AM
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Go pick her up and get all the sex and road head that she is willing to give. Nothing better then a girl w/ 9.5 blow job skills and being a kinky 10. :hitit:
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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 11:33 AM
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Just make her throw down some money for gas or tolls or whatever. Just think of it as a convenience charge for her getting a free ride to NY and back and getting sex. Obviously you dont need the $$$$, its the principle, you gotta make her put forth some effort or she might think she can start pushin you around.
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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 12:02 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
I still can't get over like the small of her back, or the waistline to the pussy area
To this day, one of my favorite areas of the female persuasion, aside form the breastesses. A girl can be hot...but, if that area of the back is shaped right = instant hardwood.
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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 02:57 PM
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blow skills at 9.5 is a deal closer.

Abso-fuckin'-lutely
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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 03:53 PM
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don't forget to conveniently place hidden cameras in said jeep.
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Old Dec 30, 2004 | 10:15 PM
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If you don't do this...when you are married 10 years, and 35, you'll be kicking yourself.
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Old Dec 31, 2004 | 05:09 PM
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I'd do it.

But I'm a sex crazed lunatic...and so are you...so do it.
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Old Dec 31, 2004 | 05:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Gilgamesh
I'd do it.

But I'm a sex crazed lunatic...and so are you...so do it.

Or just jerk off and then ask yourself do i really need to go lol


Been a pilot i always tell the girls i'm on "stand by" Get them to come here, i will make the exception every once in a while .....or for someone who i think is worth the effort .........
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Old Jan 1, 2005 | 11:53 PM
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i dunno, thats a big hassle
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Old Jan 5, 2005 | 01:56 AM
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i dunno, thats a big hassle
dude my soon to be wife during the school year lives 75 miles away one way.
if i'm not busy with school, chores, and life .same with her.
I'll visit her Friday, Saturday ,Sunday.
Drive home each night
which adds up to 450 miles total

i've been doing that for about 1.5 now. now you know why my "ghetto glider" has 270,000 miles on it.

put on some good music or get some good CDs you'll be good shape.
it kind of sucks right now to do it because it isn't summer. but last summer about July when it's 70 at night you drop the windows and open the sunroof crank up the stereo and your cruising on interstate at 70 or 75 it's awesome.

Plus I've found a long drive home gives me time to reflect not only on the relationship but also on my life. where I'm going,where I wanna be and how i plan on getting there. It's about the only time during the week i get to spend alone, because i'm either in a classroom, working, racing or running errands.

Try it at least once if you don't like it then you can express to her. but it's only a 1/2 days drive there and 1/2 day's drive home.
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Old Jan 5, 2005 | 11:44 AM
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So what happened???

Did you do it?
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Old Jan 5, 2005 | 11:51 AM
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Shes him as we speak. Looks like this was the last time
we will hear from Tony. "He's locked up...she won't let him out".

Kinky = 10
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Old Jan 5, 2005 | 12:04 PM
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i mean if shes sucking your dick you dont have to talk to her, but then again, theres that refractory period....i mean you could always bring some viagra to keep the trip nice and quiet.....
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Old Jan 5, 2005 | 03:00 PM
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Originally Posted by ccannizz11
So what happened???

Did you do it?
I didn't feel like fucking driving down there and back and then back down and back here...too much of a hassle. I might head to some party her friend is having in East Brunswick this weekend.

I ended up just having a nice dinner with Sarah on NYE and then going to her parents party and a friends party.
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Old Jan 5, 2005 | 04:39 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
I didn't feel like fucking driving down there and back and then back down and back here...too much of a hassle. I might head to some party her friend is having in East Brunswick this weekend.

I ended up just having a nice dinner with Sarah on NYE and then going to her parents party and a friends party.
meh.... sounds like my new years
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Old Jan 5, 2005 | 04:45 PM
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i'm sorry dude, but ur a dork


u sound like a lil orphan boy begging for candy.... dude, fawk that driving 450 to get some pussy.... tht is WEAK
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Old Jan 5, 2005 | 04:59 PM
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Originally Posted by CLean B
i'm sorry dude, but ur a dork


u sound like a lil orphan boy begging for candy.... dude, fawk that driving 450 to get some pussy.... tht is WEAK
you didn't makme much sense there but i'll answer it anyhow

I got laid anyhow...and drove 4.2 miles.

sounds intelligent to me...I now only have to drive 100 miles (round trip) to East Brunswick, NJ to see her this weekend. And I don't have to spend the day with her mom and dady.
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Old Jan 5, 2005 | 05:06 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
you didn't makme much sense there but i'll answer it anyhow

I got laid anyhow...and drove 4.2 miles.

sounds intelligent to me...I now only have to drive 100 miles (round trip) to East Brunswick, NJ to see her this weekend. And I don't have to spend the day with her mom and dady.
k thats better.....

but ur IM conversation is what i was clownin... how old is this girl, she seems like shes friggin 15... i dono bro.. u can prob do better for yourself

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Old Jan 5, 2005 | 09:14 PM
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Old Jan 6, 2005 | 01:07 AM
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Originally Posted by CLean B
k thats better.....

but ur IM conversation is what i was clownin... how old is this girl, she seems like shes friggin 15... i dono bro.. u can prob do better for yourself

oh yeah she is 19.

I am the king of starting awkward AIM conversations that lead to phone sex or if the person is nearby...sex

I bring out the worst in people, what can I say.

as far as looks, I am currently doing better, or else I would have made the drive down.
As far as kinkyness, and this girls BJ abilities...few that I have met have topped her.
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Old Jan 6, 2005 | 01:31 AM
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Seems like an expensive investment and a big hassle. Especially if she wants to have a conversation. COuld be a pain.

God invented escorts for a reason.
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