So today my sister tells me she dates girls.....
10-08-2003, 06:33 PM
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So today my sister tells me she dates girls.....
which to me, is totally not cool. I mean, i like a lil lesbo action as much as the next guy, but not when its my freakin sister!! damnit man, shes only 16, what the fuck is goin on with kids today??? i dunno, my jaw is on the freakin floor.
10-08-2003, 06:39 PM
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j/k, in a serious note, maybe she told you that so you can help her or advise her
But I'd do everything to try to change her mind. She is probably not sure especially at that age about her sexuality. Make sure you lecture her lecture her and lecture her.
10-08-2003, 06:41 PM
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Originally posted by zeroday
sucks man. maybe you can get dbox to come over and change her mind. j/k
sucks man. maybe you can get dbox to come over and change her mind. j/k
hey i'm 17, is she bi?
maybe we could work out a three-some....
edit: NOT WITH YOU, i mean with her and another girl, and me-- not you, damnt!
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10-08-2003, 06:44 PM
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be supportive in any way you can. It was probably very hard for her to tell you that...
Plus she's 16 she thinks she has everything figured out, and knows whats going on in life...
you never know what she might decide in the long run...
Plus she's 16 she thinks she has everything figured out, and knows whats going on in life...
you never know what she might decide in the long run...
10-08-2003, 06:44 PM
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Dude, dont sweat it. She is still your sister and you should still love her the same regardless of her personal interests. And of she is 16 then she is young and maybe she is just experimenting. I found out years ago my sister is gay, and who gives a fuck, she is still my sister no matter what.
Its not up to you to decide what your siblings, friends, or children will become. You should just except it, get over it and life will be much better.
Its not up to you to decide what your siblings, friends, or children will become. You should just except it, get over it and life will be much better.
10-08-2003, 06:45 PM
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Originally posted by Katana18
phinthesky, shut the fuck up, do you realize what you just said
phinthesky, shut the fuck up, do you realize what you just said
What a freak........
10-08-2003, 06:46 PM
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Hey......better lesbians.com
than www.mandingoclub.com
than www.mandingoclub.com
10-08-2003, 06:50 PM
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On ramblings I put on 400 on bench and squat 750.
How much can you do?
I bet I can do your sister and her butch dyke friends.
How many other sisters do you have.
If I were you I would bang all of them bitches.
On ramblings I put on 400 on bench and squat 750.
How much can you do?
I bet I can do your sister and her butch dyke friends.
How many other sisters do you have.
If I were you I would bang all of them bitches.
10-08-2003, 06:58 PM
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phin... chill out man. ur goin a little overboard here. grow up.
katana... dont sweat it dude. if u tell her that its unacceptable, at her age, she'll merely rebel and continue what she's doing anyway. girls that age just experiment. they kiss a girl once and they think they're bi. my bet is she'll just outgrow it. maybe thats just an 'in thing' for girls her age now. i mean, is she just saying that cuz no guys talk to her, or does she really know whats goin on?
katana... dont sweat it dude. if u tell her that its unacceptable, at her age, she'll merely rebel and continue what she's doing anyway. girls that age just experiment. they kiss a girl once and they think they're bi. my bet is she'll just outgrow it. maybe thats just an 'in thing' for girls her age now. i mean, is she just saying that cuz no guys talk to her, or does she really know whats goin on?
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Originally posted by sarlacc23
Dude, dont sweat it. She is still your sister and you should still love her the same regardless of her personal interests. And of she is 16 then she is young and maybe she is just experimenting. I found out years ago my sister is gay, and who gives a fuck, she is still my sister no matter what.
Its not up to you to decide what your siblings, friends, or children will become. You should just except it, get over it and life will be much better.
Dude, dont sweat it. She is still your sister and you should still love her the same regardless of her personal interests. And of she is 16 then she is young and maybe she is just experimenting. I found out years ago my sister is gay, and who gives a fuck, she is still my sister no matter what.
Its not up to you to decide what your siblings, friends, or children will become. You should just except it, get over it and life will be much better.
So what if she is gay. IMO, if she's happy and isn't in a dangerous (abusive) relationship, then there should be no big worry. She may just be trying to figure out what she wants in her life. She's your sister, and she needs your support, gay or not.
10-08-2003, 06:59 PM
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Re: So today my sister tells me she dates girls.....
Originally posted by Katana18
which to me, is totally not cool. I mean, i like a lil lesbo action as much as the next guy, but not when its my freakin sister!! damnit man, shes only 16, what the fuck is goin on with kids today??? i dunno, my jaw is on the freakin floor.
which to me, is totally not cool. I mean, i like a lil lesbo action as much as the next guy, but not when its my freakin sister!! damnit man, shes only 16, what the fuck is goin on with kids today??? i dunno, my jaw is on the freakin floor.
you should be supportive of her if thats her decision.
I like how guys like lesbians until its someone they know.
besides. think of how many guys shes making happy right now buy having some girl on girl action!
10-08-2003, 07:00 PM
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Originally posted by ABreece
Dude, she's your sister. It's not your job to get mad at her, it's your job to support her.
Dude, she's your sister. It's not your job to get mad at her, it's your job to support her.
lol @ phin
, you gotta love him...
10-08-2003, 07:01 PM
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Originally posted by fbazakos
katana, don't worry about phin, he's an old timer ... just playin' around.
katana, don't worry about phin, he's an old timer ... just playin' around.
this thread really is gay tho.
10-08-2003, 07:03 PM
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you guys kill me 
if that is her new direction then there isn't much you can do about it, except make it worse - for you....i suspect it's just a phase though or she's trying to f##$k with you
if that is her new direction then there isn't much you can do about it, except make it worse - for you....i suspect it's just a phase though or she's trying to f##$k with you
10-08-2003, 07:04 PM
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hey don't get too riled up with phin ... he's the resident "rapier wit" which sounds worse than it really is. we enjoy his sarcasm and his insights here. if you egg him on, that only motivates him more.
but honestly ...
maybe with your sister, can it be a cry for help? chicks are weird that age. maybe she's getting no attention from you or the folks ... maybe she's trying hard to send a message: "i'm an angst-ridden, confused, hormonely-whacked teenager! pay attention to me!" if so, just COMMUNICATE. don't be too quick to judge or bash ... give her time to think things through. try to play all-understanding, objective therapist and talk to her openly!
remember, the worst thing you can do to a chick is ignore her. same probably applies to your sis. if she feels she can't reach to anyone without pulling stunts (not that i'm saying that lesbianism is bad or anything), she'll resort to different ways to attract attention. and maybe, just maybe, she's gonna be gay. there's nothing wrong with that. it's debatable whether being gay is a preference, a genetic outcome, a social conditioning, or a combo of all three. c'mon, she's still your sis ... she'll just be licking the sweet pea rather than swallowing the kielbasa.
but honestly ...
maybe with your sister, can it be a cry for help? chicks are weird that age. maybe she's getting no attention from you or the folks ... maybe she's trying hard to send a message: "i'm an angst-ridden, confused, hormonely-whacked teenager! pay attention to me!" if so, just COMMUNICATE. don't be too quick to judge or bash ... give her time to think things through. try to play all-understanding, objective therapist and talk to her openly!
remember, the worst thing you can do to a chick is ignore her. same probably applies to your sis. if she feels she can't reach to anyone without pulling stunts (not that i'm saying that lesbianism is bad or anything), she'll resort to different ways to attract attention. and maybe, just maybe, she's gonna be gay. there's nothing wrong with that. it's debatable whether being gay is a preference, a genetic outcome, a social conditioning, or a combo of all three. c'mon, she's still your sis ... she'll just be licking the sweet pea rather than swallowing the kielbasa.
10-08-2003, 07:08 PM
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Originally posted by PillsburyChoboy
hey don't get too riled up with phin ... he's the resident "rapier wit" which sounds worse than it really is. we enjoy his sarcasm and his insights here. if you egg him on, that only motivates him more.
hey don't get too riled up with phin ... he's the resident "rapier wit" which sounds worse than it really is. we enjoy his sarcasm and his insights here. if you egg him on, that only motivates him more.
yup.
10-08-2003, 07:18 PM
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Originally posted by phinthesky
Hey Katana,
If you would have been taken care of business at home, maybe she wouldn't have had to go lookin' for dinner.
Hey Katana,
If you would have been taken care of business at home, maybe she wouldn't have had to go lookin' for dinner.
wrong on so many levels
10-08-2003, 07:18 PM
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Originally posted by phinthesky
You guys are all fucking racists.
You guys are all fucking racists.
anyways... best deal would be to support her, because like many said before, if you are like WHAT A DUMBASS and say negative things towards her behaviour, she is going to lash out. and plus, since you are her big bro, she told you because she seeks to confide in you. she thinks that maybe you will understand. but i dunno man... imma dummy
10-08-2003, 07:19 PM
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it's hip for girls to be bi these days.
10-08-2003, 07:21 PM
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phin has a style that i call "awkward silences" ... as when phin says the stuff he says, awkward silence ensues ... either in mute and respectful reaction to his blunt, often brutal, honesty or the fact that people can't believe they heard what they just heard.
10-08-2003, 07:25 PM
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Originally posted by PillsburyChoboy
phin has a style that i call "awkward silences" ... as when phin says the stuff he says, awkward silence ensues ... either in mute and respectful reaction to his blunt, often brutal, honesty or the fact that people can't believe they heard what they just heard.
phin has a style that i call "awkward silences" ... as when phin says the stuff he says, awkward silence ensues ... either in mute and respectful reaction to his blunt, often brutal, honesty or the fact that people can't believe they heard what they just heard.
You fucking chink bastard.
BTW, NYU is a second tier b-school. YOu should have gone to SFU.
