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Old Mar 12, 2004 | 08:57 PM
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So I took it a bit overboard...

I'll try to make this long story as short as possible....The other day I'm driving down the road and i see my x and she waves so i wave back. We've had kind of a stormy interaction so i was surprised by the wave, i thought i was gonna get a middle finger or something.

So later on i texted her just to be conversational and asked if she liked my new prokit drop (1.5 in.) Basically she said "no she didnt notice it, if youre gonna lower a car you should slam it so it's noticeable, your drop is worthless, you should have no wheel gaps, etc." At first i said i just wanted a nice little drop and a comfortable ride, just something conservative, but she kept at it.

So basically i took offense and told her how insecure she is and how she has a 105hp del slo with intake so she has no room to talk. But since i was actually partaking in social activities and didnt respond right away i caught heat for that.

So then i pretty much went off on her (all still via text msgs) saying "everytime i try to be nice you turn into a ruthless cunt, good luck keeping a husband for more than a year," then i insulted her intelligence level and said i wasnt trying to get back with her, just trying to hit it (incase it wasnt clear).

This kinda shit has happened before, but never as deep, so i thought it was all overwith until i get a voicemail from her dad saying he'd whoop my ass if he saw me again Then a text message from her saying he called the cops on me for harrassment

I'm 99% sure she's just fuckin with me, but i didnt see the severity of the situation until then. I feel kinda bad actually even though i never wanna see or talk to her again for real this time. I'm not gonna gratify her last text msg with a response although i really want to.

I'm planning on somehow getting her email addy and sending her an apology email sometime next week, hopefully she'll read it. The only real reason is because i want to clear my conscience. Is that a good idea or should i just leave it alone?

I dont really wanna bring this up to my mom or even my sister so y'all are all i got.
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Old Mar 12, 2004 | 09:06 PM
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Alright, 1st of all:

You sound like you're approximately 13 years old. Grow some balls.

2nd'ly:

If you even give a shit at this point in the, ehem, "relationship", then I say fuckin forget her ass. If she's got her father threatening you about some stupid bullshit, then she ain't nothing but a spoiled cunt. Her dad is a dumb motherfucker (FCC crack down on me now!!). Fuck her and her dumb-ass, I wanna feel important, yet I'm a dumb-motherfucking poop-dick, ball-roasting ass-muncher father.









Fuck em'!!!!
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Old Mar 12, 2004 | 09:51 PM
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Good insight, can't say i was really expecting that. We've been broken up since last summer, it's just that she's friends with this other kid that i hang out with and she's always pokin her head around the garage we chill and work on cars at acting like she knows what she's talkin about. I'm going back to school tomorrow so i could give 2 shits at least until summer.
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Old Mar 12, 2004 | 10:14 PM
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Hey Mike, I didn't mean to be insensitive with my post. I feel that any time a girl's parents get involved it simply means that she is way, way, way-mother-fuckin immature. You simply shouldn't worry about it at this point.
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Old Mar 13, 2004 | 12:19 AM
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Yeah she is only 17 and she's immature for a 17yr old at that....Wow what a few hours will do. I started typing up this letter and i saved it with plans to finish later. Now I don't even feel like sending it. We'll see how i feel in a day or two. (Too bad I might never send it cuz it's so long and well-written too )

I just hope i dont get a call from the po-po's (even though the chances of that happening are slim to none)
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Old Mar 13, 2004 | 11:23 AM
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Fuck your ex.....and beat the shit out of her new guy....then wipe the blood on her!
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Old Mar 13, 2004 | 12:17 PM
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Don't send anything anymore in writing to her. She can show it cops and they can say you're a stalker, even if you're not. No more text, no emails, use your head.
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Old Mar 13, 2004 | 01:30 PM
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If she is 17, your over 18 and were over 18 sleeping with her, good luck trying to get out of the rape charges since there is no statute of limitations on it... Not that this would happen, but always a strange thing that could happen. More so if her parents get involved.

The girl is immature and you really shouldn't worry about it. If anything she will race her car and die like so many other young people.
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Old Mar 13, 2004 | 02:37 PM
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Originally posted by anothercls
If she is 17, your over 18 and were over 18 sleeping with her, good luck trying to get out of the rape charges since there is no statute of limitations on it... Not that this would happen, but always a strange thing that could happen. More so if her parents get involved.

The girl is immature and you really shouldn't worry about it. If anything she will race her car and die like so many other young people.
It depends on the state you live in. My state, New York it's 17 for consentual sex. In New Jersey, it's 16. If he's in MD, he probably has nothing to worry about because the age of consent is 16 there.

state ages
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Old Mar 13, 2004 | 11:05 PM
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Yeah, MD law applies here. I talked to my friend who also knows her and he agreed that she's dumb/immature/etc and there's no point in trying to even apologize and to forget it and leave well enough alone.

As each day goes my level of care for this matter decreases cuz I havent heard from the cops yet lol and i have to drive 4hrs back to school tomorrow so it wont really be on my mind. Also, the fact that she tried to scare me with her DAD calling the cops instead of her calling made me lose any last ounce of respect i had for her. She certainly knows how to dial a phone and talk
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Old Mar 14, 2004 | 03:31 PM
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stupid. stupid stupid.



The best revenge is success, now get back to tossing that donkey salad for dinner.
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Old Mar 18, 2004 | 11:47 AM
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OK so i decided to apologize anyway...i just sent her an IM while she was away that basically said: sorry about all that, but it's probably better that we dont speak again because we clash too much, bye.

No response, which im happy about, cuz there doesnt need to be one.
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Old Mar 19, 2004 | 07:31 AM
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IBshekeysyourcar...watch out
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Old Mar 19, 2004 | 07:33 AM
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Kids today...
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Old Mar 19, 2004 | 08:04 AM
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sounds like a bitch.

Never, ever, ever put anything down in writing or on a voicemail.

Be a thinker man.
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Old Mar 19, 2004 | 08:19 AM
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wow...and i thought girls were dramatic.

i agree w/ everyone that says just leave her alone...fuck that shit!

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Old Mar 19, 2004 | 01:39 PM
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why the fuck did you im her??

just leave her alone, dont bother with her anymore
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Old Mar 19, 2004 | 06:15 PM
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Originally posted by Python2121
why the fuck did you im her??

just leave her alone, dont bother with her anymore
for cloOooOOsure
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Old Mar 19, 2004 | 06:52 PM
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yea thats pretty much the only explaination i have
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Old Mar 21, 2004 | 07:13 AM
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Originally posted by Mike97 3.0P
yea thats pretty much the only explaination i have
yeah, well that closure could close your ass behind bars. Don't text message or IM anything anymore!
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Old Mar 21, 2004 | 10:47 AM
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if they filed a complaint big fawkin deal.. you need 3 against you to file charges and get a restraining order.. STAY WAY from her ad you will have no probs! GROW UP!
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Old Mar 21, 2004 | 11:27 AM
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Oh i didnt know about the 3 complaint thing...either way i will be staying away from her you can count on that
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Old Mar 21, 2004 | 03:37 PM
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If she gives you any more problems just take it to the next level

and Ill read it in the paper
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Old Mar 22, 2004 | 10:03 PM
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I agree with Batin not to put anything in writing. Don't do that shit anymore. I assumed you were young too by your response about her father. If that sucka threatened me I'd be at his house asking him if he still wanted to kick my ass....but then again I'm not 16-18.

Be the bigger man and don't ever interact with her or her fam.
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