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Old Mar 28, 2007 | 05:27 PM
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should i be nervous?

my girl says she is taking a pregnancy test. she says she hasnt been feelin well lately, she's been tired and her time of the month was only there for 2 days. thats the thing that weirds me out, cause she is never irregular with that.
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Old Mar 28, 2007 | 05:53 PM
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If she had her period, she had her period. She wouldn't have it at all if she was pregnant. Sometimes it will only last for a couple days, the body isn't perfect.
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Old Mar 28, 2007 | 06:35 PM
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Hmm, for those two days was it like a period or just spotting?

That's important. Spotting means the fertilized egg has implanted itself in her womb.
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Old Mar 28, 2007 | 06:50 PM
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That has happened to me atleast 10X!
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Old Mar 28, 2007 | 07:05 PM
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You can still have your period when pregnant. A friend's gf found out recently that shes 5 months pregnant. Had her period all along and expirienced no other symptoms
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Old Mar 28, 2007 | 08:20 PM
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Stress also causes changes and spotting.
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Old Mar 28, 2007 | 08:25 PM
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Originally Posted by doopstr
Spotting means the fertilized egg has implanted itself in her womb.
Originally Posted by phipark
If she had her period, she had her period. She wouldn't have it at all if she was pregnant.
Neither is necessarily true.
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Old Mar 28, 2007 | 10:04 PM
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use protection or compound protection and you won't have this problem
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Old Mar 28, 2007 | 10:34 PM
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Originally Posted by michimonster
You can still have your period when pregnant. A friend's gf found out recently that shes 5 months pregnant. Had her period all along and expirienced no other symptoms

common misconception. pray shes not lol and next time wrap it up
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 01:01 AM
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she is on the pill (forgot to mention that) and plus i use the pull out method also.... im VERY careful... it wasnt a spotty period, it just didnt last long. just got me a bit nervous. havent really had to many close calls.
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 01:34 AM
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Only been nervous twice. Thankfully only false alarms.

Is she on the pill? My g/f has only had one or two light days before - scares the crap out of me but her doctor says that happens sometimes.

Edit: Ok I can't read (post above me).
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 02:14 AM
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ugh i dont think i could ever do the pull out method, id be like, "ohh this feels soo good... crap.. got any wire coathangers?"
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 02:47 AM
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Im not a doctor, but I think you are screwed....

Actually, my money is on not pregnant.
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 05:17 AM
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Originally Posted by Marc S
she is on the pill (forgot to mention that) and plus i use the pull out method also.... im VERY careful... it wasnt a spotty period, it just didnt last long. just got me a bit nervous. havent really had to many close calls.
:knock on wood: the years when I was dating my wife, she was never on the pill (being on the pill cause alot of side effects plus it makes a woman gain weight...) I never used condom either unless I felt like using one. I used the pull-out-method and it worked like a charm .... hell I still use the same method now.

I believe you will be ok, she's just late and probably stressed. If she does get pregnant... hey...... at least you're not shooting blank
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 05:19 AM
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ugh i dont think i could ever do the pull out method, id be like, "ohh this feels soo good... crap.. got any wire coathangers?"
This is where men separates from teens

Shooting the load on her stoma-Ch :borat accent: is awesome but on your _____ (fill in the blank)'s face... that's even better
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 05:41 AM
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Originally Posted by BoostedJack
This is where men separates from teens

Shooting the load on her stoma-Ch :borat accent: is awesome but on your _____ (fill in the blank)'s face... that's even better
Tis is what seperates 20 somethings from 30 somethings....

Shooting the load in the toilet is best because there is no cleaning afterwards.
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 07:28 AM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
Shooting the load in the toilet is best because there is no cleaning afterwards.
How do you have enough time to run to the toilet?
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 07:48 AM
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Originally Posted by doopstr
How do you have enough time to run to the toilet?
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 07:59 AM
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lol at the pull out method.

All that safe sex literature and preaching was such a waste of time when the sure proof pull out method was right there in front of us all this time.
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 08:00 AM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
Tis is what seperates 20 somethings from 30 somethings....

Shooting the load in the toilet is best because there is no cleaning afterwards.
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 08:00 AM
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Originally Posted by phipark
If she had her period, she had her period. She wouldn't have it at all if she was pregnant. Sometimes it will only last for a couple days, the body isn't perfect.
NOT TRUE.

My wife had her period after she conceived.
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 08:01 AM
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Originally Posted by BoostedJack
That's great.
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 08:05 AM
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Originally Posted by dom
lol at the pull out method.

All that safe sex literature and preaching was such a waste of time when the sure proof pull out method was right there in front of us all this time.
Safe sex to me only make sense when I am dating someone initially.... say when I don't know much about the girl and not sure about her sexual past. If I already know the girl and all about her s.p. (meaning no STDs, no HIV) then I begin my P.O.M.

Yes, it's a high risk for pregnancy, but I am also prepare to marry the woman or accept the responsibilities of being a father should she ever get pregnant. So by knowing all that, the P.O.M. > condoms / or her being on the pill.

By the way, for young adults out there that aren't ready to accept the responsibilities of being a father or just isn't ready at all.... I'd suggest you use some type of protection and ignore my post(s).

Last edited by BoostedJack; Mar 29, 2007 at 08:08 AM.
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 08:11 AM
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Well, shit, good thing I only put on it. Now, I'm nervous.
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 08:11 AM
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Originally Posted by BoostedJack
ignore my post(s).

I'd suggest they just ^.
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 08:23 AM
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^ oh yeah?

USA > Canada















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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 08:27 AM
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lol..
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 08:43 AM
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POM worked for me
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 08:47 AM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
NOT TRUE.

My wife had her period after she conceived.
bleeding doesn't always mean period
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 08:48 AM
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^ it could mean your too big for her hence


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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 08:50 AM
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Originally Posted by BoostedJack
^ it could mean your too big for her hence


LOL By the way POM AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!! even though every once and a while I feel like leaving it in...but then I get my senses back.
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 08:51 AM
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Originally Posted by Papa_Sean
common misconception.
Actually, you really don't have a full period if you're pregnant, as your period is shedding the lining. If you're pregnant, you don't shed that. So the "period" most women think they're experiencing is usually different in some way than their regular one...usually lighter and shorter (aka: spotting).
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 08:54 AM
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Congrats daddy
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 08:56 AM
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Originally Posted by Mizouse
ugh i dont think i could ever do the pull out method, id be like, "ohh this feels soo good... crap.. got any wire coathangers?"
First worry about getting some, then worry about which method you're going to use!




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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 09:03 AM
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Congrats daddy
that's fucked up

how's Jen, is she pregnito?
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 09:37 AM
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First worry about getting some, then worry about which method you're going to use!





^99999

I think he's still using the "I hope my Mom doesn't notice all her hand cream is missing" method.
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 09:43 AM
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Originally Posted by doopstr
How do you have enough time to run to the toilet?
We have sex in the bathroom....

What do you mean. squeeze the tip of the penis, go to toilet..
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 09:44 AM
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I somehow just don't trust the pullout method, I've been with my gf for 1.5 years and although I may marry her someday, I am not ready to be a father. She's on the pill and I wrap it up. Little room for something happening.
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 10:08 AM
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Originally Posted by JJ4Short
bleeding doesn't always mean period
I felt the same way. Her doctor said it's sometimes possible.
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Old Mar 29, 2007 | 10:10 AM
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Originally Posted by cTLgo
I somehow just don't trust the pullout method, I've been with my gf for 1.5 years and although I may marry her someday, I am not ready to be a father. She's on the pill and I wrap it up. Little room for something happening.
Smart move if you're not ready for kids yet. There's a name for someone that uses the pullout method of birth control, it's......PARENT.
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