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Old Jan 19, 2005 | 09:46 AM
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Should I go for it?

I've known this girl for a few years. Really haven't gotten to know her untill the last few months. She's 19. I'm 28. However, she's really mature, she's got every quailty I like in someone. She's got direction & is doing nursing in college. For now we are just friends. Now there's a problem with distance though. She's in NYC I'm in FL. I'm in NYC at least once every 2 months. If a relationship happend I can be there more often. One of her best friends moved to my area of FL which is good. She has been down here 2 times in the last 6 months & likes it. We hang out, talk etc. I'm sure she know's I'm intrested. Every girl knows even if they never say it. I've known all of her friends for a long time. They all say great things about me which is a She's a very religious person. She's doesn't date much, or play around(ie virgin) I'd like to take this somewhere. I feel a connection. Just not sure if she does.

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Old Jan 19, 2005 | 09:48 AM
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If you're not a religious person like she is, and want to have sex, leave her alone.


However, if you are religious, and can handle not sticking your dick in her , say, forever, unless you get married, go for it.
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Old Jan 19, 2005 | 09:50 AM
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katana pretty musch covered it...also take into account very few long distance relationships can stand the test of time and distance.
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Old Jan 19, 2005 | 11:12 AM
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If you want t....uh nevermind, yeah, Katana and Killer pretty much covered it
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Old Jan 19, 2005 | 11:22 AM
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It's not a big deal with sex. I can respect her feeling on that. I could live with it. I just never felt such a connection with someone.
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Old Jan 19, 2005 | 11:24 AM
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sure why not? i wouldn't be BF/GF tho. Def keep your [dating] options open.
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Old Jan 19, 2005 | 01:50 PM
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long distance relationships are very tough...I'd say use your discretion. If she is as religious as you say then she won't be so inclined to cheat on you if you do start something with her. Then again can she trust you?!?!?! If you mutually have a connection then go for it. What do have to lose!
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Old Jan 20, 2005 | 03:46 PM
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sometimes those religious girls are more freakier than regular girls..go for it!
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Old Jan 20, 2005 | 04:35 PM
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Originally Posted by terse
sometimes those religious girls are more freakier than regular girls..go for it!


I've had experience. But the break up becomes a mess... they feel guilty and start to blame everything on you...

Weigh your options carefully.

Junkster, who thinks religious girls like to let it all out once in a while
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Old Jan 20, 2005 | 05:12 PM
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Originally Posted by terse
sometimes those religious girls are more freakier than regular girls..go for it!
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Old Jan 21, 2005 | 09:55 AM
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Originally Posted by fuzzy02CLS
Really haven't gotten to know her untill the last few months. She's 19. I'm 28. She's in NYC I'm in FL. I'm in NYC at least once every 2 months.
Yeah, this is really going to work. Try to find someone closer for now and just stay in contact w/ this other girl, in case maybe she moves ot FL or something. I mean, 1000+ miles apart and see her 1 every 2 months, c'mon.
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