Ok heres the situation. Theres a girl at work. Pros: Shes a babe , im pretty sure shes into me, and we flirt/txt alot. Cons: bosses daughter, shes 23, (6 yrs older than me) , and 2 kids. I dunno if i should hit it n quit it or do nothin. Neither of us are lookin for a relationship; just some fun. I dunno how to go about this.. Friends say go for it but there also immature compared to you guys. . .

 

lol damn 6 years older than you and shes diggn ya? First off, Its never good to hook up with someone you work with, never. Its cool at first thought to hit and quit but that doesnt last too long. Then the bosses daughter *shakeshead* lol...your knocking on the troubles front door...but thats just my two cents, you obviously can make your own decisions.

 

If job security isn't an issue, then go for it. OTW, avoid the boss' daughter like the plague

 

Hmmm thats what i was thinkin, but i was thinkin of keepin it quiet, maybe that will work? Oh well if it doesnt work, nothin lost.

 

On one side I say....Whatever....you're 17. Live a little.

On the other, I say like hell. She is 23 and a mother of 2, and your boss's daughter. Hit it and quit it is a shitty thing to do to a single mom.

 

If it wasn't for the two kids I'd say go for it.

 

+1.

So consider a few things carefully.

- At 23 someone else has "hit it" enough to produce two children. At 23. In a day where you have to really go out of your way to avoid using birth control. Ask yourself why this is.
- I've been 23. Although it was the dark ages, I was never drawn to a 17 year old at that age. Again, ask yourself why.
- You have no idea what she'll tell daddy about you. If some 17 year old kid "hit it and ran" with my daughter, and he worked for me, I'd see that his life was miserable.
- So even if she's looking for some fun, sounds like when she was 17 she wanted to have some fun too and had a kid as a result. Then had another.

IMO, at 17 if you want a one night stand I HAVE to believe you have other choices than this rats nest. Honestly, she sounds like the kind of mistake a young 17 year old can make that you'll look back on and wish desperately you passed on.

 

23 hitting on a 17 year old ? there must be something wrong with her, or shes trying to get you fired.

 

^^

But then again, if things do work out... you could always show up to dinner with her dad (your boss) and let him know you are the boss.

He may control your wages/employment, but you'll have his daughter as major leverage... along with his grandchildren!

 

are you serious? its like humping a bear trap.

good luck man. you're obviously thinking with the wrong head.

 

stat rape. haha

 

you seriously think she wants a serious relationship with a 17 YO???

 

lol ^^

extremely good point.

 

6 yrs older isnt a big deal but 2 kids?! must be a loooooose poon and only at 23?

 

I dunno, in h.s. I had a friend who, at 16, lost his V-card to a 24 yr old and for years it seemed like it was the greatest thing that ever happened to him. The 2 kids part is kind of sketchy, but from the sounds of things, it sounds like you work in a fast-food joint so if her dad makes life bad for you then just go to another place.

 

Don't hit it and say you did. Time to move on........plenty of fish in the sea.

 

do you want booty or a relationship?
booty: no because it will fuck up your job. it will get back to her dad(or your boss) you won't come back around blah blah blah drama eventally result in you either getting all the shitty jobs and/or shifts. even with the possiiblity of termination.
relationship: it could work out. a lot depends on how much you dig her.

 

Relationship is a NO man, at 17 you dont wanna be dad to someone elses kid, thats just messed up IMHO. Hitting it? YES, who cares if she goes to her dad. Just deny everything. He can fire you and you can find a new job but you can still say this to his face "I am 17 and I fucked your 23 year old daughter, so IN YO FACE" hahahaha

 

She has two kids and you're only 17 you moron. Stay away. Don't do a damn thing with this girl. Date/Bang 15 year olds while you still can!

 

You have to be the first and only member on here from Montana.



Edit: And yeah, don't be a retart

 

Oh, the irony.

 

Let me rephrase:



"And yeah, don't be irretarted."

 

Run. There are other pussies out there in Montana that have not yet seen a baby and will not affect your job.

 

 

You seriously think her judgement is good. She is 23, single with 2 kids and hitting on a 17 year old at her dad's company. Hell, she doesn't strike me as being the brightest bulb on the Christmas tree.

 

I love it when you talk dirty :BonerSmiley:

 

Nothing good can come from that.

 

Doesn't sound like this job is his career path, he's 17. He already said she's not looking for something serious.

Do it, the worse thing that can happen is you lose your job, which at 17 you probably won't be at for long regardless.

If you do plan to stay at this job and/or need it then stay away.

And like Ocho Cinco said, I think you're the first person from Montana we've seen on these boards. I've been out to Boseman/Big Sky 4 or 5 times. Beautiful state.

 

K here is some edits... Her MOM owns the company (Taco John's... hahaha laugh it up) with her grandma. and her dad isnt really in the picture. (She was married, kids have same dad.) shes had a rough couple of years (by that i mean kids). She is clean, no drugs or anythin. Shes not stupid.

I was gonna but the 15 y/o i was messin round with ran off with some other guy SO i was thinkin of the bosses daughter. The kids thing is the main downfall. .... Well i got till may for the younger ones lol

 

TO: dom. lol really? wow yea montana is a nice state. Just a lot of rusted out cars tho.. thats probly y you never see anyone from here; nobody cares about their cars.

 

lol its a big deal when your that young..17-23 compared to 35-41

 

Wasn't this guy from Montana?

 

If you do decide to mess around with this chick, be sure to use your own protection. If it were me, I would pass on this one. Too much baggage and too much potential for problems.

 

lol

 

Pass.

 

Or you could be totally awesome and knock her up. If the job is good, it could result in some good job security.

 

Girls always want to get the young guy and "corrupt him" as I was told. I was 16 and she was 21. Found out later in life that another girl who was friends with the 21 YO wanted to corrupt me first and laughed that the other girl got to me first

As weird as it sounds I would say this is normal but the kids thing is scary. Chances are, being 17, you will do it if you get the chance so go for it

 

beware of baby mama drama:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vt2i0ts-uck

 

They never keep it quite so after it goes bad good luck looking for a job in our excellent economy keep it friendly. Honeys where your make your money never a good idea.

 

Well i dont think ill be doin anythin with her. (sexual that is) hehe that'll be the extent. Safe, and fun. Best of both worlds. and her mom thnks im too much of a good employee anyway.. She wont fire me.. You dont have to bang to have fun