Kind of an odd request for advice. I lurk here a lot but barely post. Finally have a question and you guys seem to be pretty experienced.

This happened last night. While in the act, my partner and I got into the doggy-style position, which is a position she seems to be able to come in more easily than others. Getting her to orgasim (in any position) doesn't happen every time and is sort of an accomplishment, which is why I like to do it.

Problem is, in order to get her there she likes it a little fast and rough. Last night I almost had her to the point, but she couldn't ignore the pain anymore before we had to stop. Turns out I was actually bottoming out and nailing her cervix. Ouch.

So I guess my question is, is there an effective method to keep my strokes shorter, while maintaining a fast and hard rhythm? Is there some way to modify the doggy-style position, or is there another position all together where I can effectively angle my wang up on her G-spot and go pretty fast without worrying about bottoming out like that?

 

Is this your way of telling the world you have a large cock?

 

 

Or hes dating a 3 year old, lets hope its the former.

Mike

 

A bump stop

 

 

wrap a large towel right under your balls

 

If you are behind her - your hips have to be ABOVE (higher) than hers. You might try a squatting position, with your feet on the surface. Not kneeling with your knees on the surface. This is tough on your thighs if your legs are not up to it though.
If you are on top of her - your hips have to be BELOW hers. You can try pillows under her hips or extend your legs so they are next to her torso. this puts you into a sitting position, instead of a kneeling position. These positions should give you good angles.

have fun experimenting and be patient with each other, you'll get it right.

 

Here is an idea ... Have her lay on her stomach then enter from behind. You can either lay on her back or basically sit on the back of her thighs. I love this position and if she has ANY sort of rear end there is an automatic cushion so your entire member wont be able to go in! Usually feels the same/better than doggy.

Good luck!

 

they're right, angel down a bit during penetration from behind, it makes your entry shorter, and concentrates the strokes on the front of her opening where a lot of the feeling comes from...for her...

 

awesome postion...makes her ass feel so nice too!

 

Just don't let your balls get squished.

 

if you stick your thumb in her ass while hitting it doggy, your hand will kind of keep you from bottoming out.

 

Yeah, this sounds like exactly what I was looking for. I'll have to give it a shot sometime soon, thanks!

Seems like quite the angle though. Would you recommend a pillow under her hips or something?

 

Yep. Definitely one of my favorites. The angle makes the pussy feel really tight.


perfect situation to use that old cliche "different strokes for different folks". :wink:

 

 

that's funny i just got done a few minutes ago and i jump on the site and there is this. that position with the butt as a cushion works wonders, i just did it and it ended in her saying...getontopofmerightnow...haha. just remember to kiss on her neck/shoulders/back first...

 

nibbles are nice too
a slight pulling/wraping of the hair OMG!

 

Use pillows to change the positioning as needed to hit the spot. More foreward (between breasts and bellybutton) to angle it down, more back (bellybutton to vagina) to angle it up. If she has short legs or big thighs, you can also put one leg outside hers.

 

I tried to get into that position a few weeks ago and it was a no go. She didn't nix it altogether but was for some reason not in the mood for it. Something tells me she's tried that position before and wasn't thrilled.

Good news is I took the "angle down" advice and that's working pretty well. Different pieces of furniture producing different (good) results. When I bottomed out she was on her bed, but it works better on my bed (even though I think mine is higher) for some reason. She kneels on the bed while I stand on the floor, FYI.

 

I think the average vagina is only like 4" long at "normal resting" times. It stretches to accomodate the penis.

We have this problem a lot, too. He bottoms out on my cervix a lot and it fucking hurts. It's a weird feeling, too... it's not really a pain, as much as it is an ache. A slow, spreading ache that gets worse with every bump.

So we've tried the position where I lay down flat, which does feel awesome, but you don't get the opportunity to go very fast that way, which I think you said she *needs* to get off.

I've found that the real *trick* to being able to do doggy style comfortably is to start off in another position. It's boring, but missionary is the best position to start off in because it's the most comfortable initially and it gives the girl-parts a chance to warm up and stretch out. Once you both get into it, you can flip her over and go to town.

Also, make sure she arches her back so that her butt is pointing upward but her lower spine/stomach is pointing downward (like a stripper). In this position, you can hold onto her hips/ass as you go in, thereby giving you more control over how deeply you go.

 

Can you post a picture?

Of her not you..

 

Yeah, porno, ehem, pics would be nice..

 

come on guys, lets be a lil more mature