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01-23-2006, 05:34 PM
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I have visited Portland several times and almost moved there. Nice place, but it rains ALOT. Many people can't take it during the winter is make them depressed.
Good Luck!
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01-23-2006, 05:50 PM
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
no i live northern LA.... the next place i am moving to is Portland.... i love it there
01-23-2006, 05:51 PM
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The 
of a female member (that would be me):
To me intimacy is a pretty big part of any relationship. Without it, I think you can't really enjoy sex in terms of being more adventurous or telling your partner what you need-both sexually and from your relationship. For me, without that "spark," a sex life is boring. Any woman can orgasm by herself (for the most part)-but a sex life shouldn't be measured by the ability to orgasm alone. In fact, I think with the right person, a lot of women can learn to be multi-orgasmic, fwiw. That's the beauty of a a good physical connection.
But I agree with Dr. Evil's post-there is a difference between initial attraction (which fades pretty quickly) and long-standing emotional connection/intimacy.
By the way, welcome!
of a female member (that would be me):To me intimacy is a pretty big part of any relationship. Without it, I think you can't really enjoy sex in terms of being more adventurous or telling your partner what you need-both sexually and from your relationship. For me, without that "spark," a sex life is boring. Any woman can orgasm by herself (for the most part)-but a sex life shouldn't be measured by the ability to orgasm alone. In fact, I think with the right person, a lot of women can learn to be multi-orgasmic, fwiw. That's the beauty of a a good physical connection.
But I agree with Dr. Evil's post-there is a difference between initial attraction (which fades pretty quickly) and long-standing emotional connection/intimacy.
By the way, welcome!
01-23-2006, 05:54 PM
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Originally Posted by ricecake
The of a female member (that would be me):
To me intimacy is a pretty big part of any relationship. Without it, I think you can't really enjoy sex in terms of being more adventurous or telling your partner what you need-both sexually and from your relationship. For me, without that "spark," a sex life is boring. Any woman can orgasm by herself (for the most part)-but a sex life shouldn't be measured by the ability to orgasm alone. In fact, I think with the right person, a lot of women can learn to be multi-orgasmic, fwiw. That's the beauty of a a good physical connection.
But I agree with Dr. Evil's post-there is a difference between initial attraction (which fades pretty quickly) and long-standing emotional connection/intimacy.
By the way, welcome!
of a female member (that would be me):To me intimacy is a pretty big part of any relationship. Without it, I think you can't really enjoy sex in terms of being more adventurous or telling your partner what you need-both sexually and from your relationship. For me, without that "spark," a sex life is boring. Any woman can orgasm by herself (for the most part)-but a sex life shouldn't be measured by the ability to orgasm alone. In fact, I think with the right person, a lot of women can learn to be multi-orgasmic, fwiw. That's the beauty of a a good physical connection.
But I agree with Dr. Evil's post-there is a difference between initial attraction (which fades pretty quickly) and long-standing emotional connection/intimacy.
By the way, welcome!
01-23-2006, 06:28 PM
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Originally Posted by mfkitson
Nothing wrong with picky and I stand by my statement. When the right guy comes along, and he will, all this will be meaningless...
That just about sums up my feelings
01-23-2006, 06:32 PM
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
no i live northern LA.... the next place i am moving to is Portland.... i love it there
When are ya moving? We need more AZ members around here. Welcome.
01-23-2006, 07:20 PM
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I think stevens is really getting to the heart of the matter
You guys are too much! We don't want to scare the girls away.
01-23-2006, 07:22 PM
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You guys are too much! We don't want to scare the girls away.
anymore. At least there are others to pick up the slack.
01-23-2006, 09:40 PM
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
Can you have a good relationship without sex? You have great conversations and a great time hanging out but when it comes to sex there is no chemistry. Its not that Im not sexually attracted to this person i just dont feel the connection during sex. If you cant have a good relationship without sex how do you know when its over?
Have you told this person how you feel, or maybe tell him what he is doing wrong. Maybe is he not doing it right.
01-23-2006, 11:02 PM
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If the sex is no fun, then it's a sign of the relationship going downhill.
Trust me, I know, you should want to shove the guy up against the wall and give him a crazy lustful kiss and grope his ass. If you don't have that strong of feelings then you probably aren't interested in him subconsciously. If things were right, you'd be jumping at every chance to have sex with him that you could.
Trust me, I know, you should want to shove the guy up against the wall and give him a crazy lustful kiss and grope his ass. If you don't have that strong of feelings then you probably aren't interested in him subconsciously. If things were right, you'd be jumping at every chance to have sex with him that you could.
01-23-2006, 11:07 PM
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Originally Posted by youngTL
If the sex is no fun, then it's a sign of the relationship going downhill.
Trust me, I know, you should want to shove the guy up against the wall and give him a crazy lustful kiss and grope his ass. If you don't have that strong of feelings then you probably aren't interested in him subconsciously. If things were right, you'd be jumping at every chance to have sex with him that you could.
Trust me, I know, you should want to shove the guy up against the wall and give him a crazy lustful kiss and grope his ass. If you don't have that strong of feelings then you probably aren't interested in him subconsciously. If things were right, you'd be jumping at every chance to have sex with him that you could.
01-24-2006, 12:04 AM
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no sex chemistry=no relationship. IMHO, if you cant have great sex, but you have a great friendship, you are friends. Sex is pretty important to me, along with other things. If the sex sucks, i say bail out. I cant be with someone if the sex sucks, too young for that.
01-24-2006, 01:19 AM
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
If you do prefer toys to guys, why not share a fun toy session with your partner? I mean, like have him use them on you or something. I dunno, it's an idea.
01-24-2006, 01:23 AM
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I was with my guy for 3 years before I said yes to sex.
SO... yes there is a possibility. You can't keep digging around looking for pennies in the fountain. You gotta find the quaters. haha
SO... yes there is a possibility. You can't keep digging around looking for pennies in the fountain. You gotta find the quaters. haha
01-24-2006, 01:37 AM
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Originally Posted by youngTL
I didn't see that other thread. Sorry.
If you do prefer toys to guys, why not share a fun toy session with your partner? I mean, like have him use them on you or something. I dunno, it's an idea.
If you do prefer toys to guys, why not share a fun toy session with your partner? I mean, like have him use them on you or something. I dunno, it's an idea.
01-24-2006, 01:38 AM
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
girls are way too bitchy for me and every now and then i do need a guy to fawk me the way that i need to be fawked.
01-24-2006, 10:11 AM
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Big News for Micropenis
Micropenis is defined as a penis that is 2” or less when erect, and it affects approximately 0.6% of the male population. Now, urologists have a new surgical procedure, called 'phalloplasty', to treat it.
Skin from the forearm is shaped into a 4 – 5 inch tube and the original glans is transplanted to the tip in order to preserve erogenous sensation. An artificial urethra is embedded down the centre. In order to achieve an erection for intercourse, an inflatable penile prosthesis is also implanted.
Micropenis is defined as a penis that is 2” or less when erect, and it affects approximately 0.6% of the male population. Now, urologists have a new surgical procedure, called 'phalloplasty', to treat it.
Skin from the forearm is shaped into a 4 – 5 inch tube and the original glans is transplanted to the tip in order to preserve erogenous sensation. An artificial urethra is embedded down the centre. In order to achieve an erection for intercourse, an inflatable penile prosthesis is also implanted.
01-24-2006, 10:21 AM
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
Big News for Micropenis
Micropenis is defined as a penis that is 2” or less when erect, and it affects approximately 0.6% of the male population. Now, urologists have a new surgical procedure, called 'phalloplasty', to treat it.
Skin from the forearm is shaped into a 4 – 5 inch tube and the original glans is transplanted to the tip in order to preserve erogenous sensation. An artificial urethra is embedded down the centre. In order to achieve an erection for intercourse, an inflatable penile prosthesis is also implanted.
Micropenis is defined as a penis that is 2” or less when erect, and it affects approximately 0.6% of the male population. Now, urologists have a new surgical procedure, called 'phalloplasty', to treat it.
Skin from the forearm is shaped into a 4 – 5 inch tube and the original glans is transplanted to the tip in order to preserve erogenous sensation. An artificial urethra is embedded down the centre. In order to achieve an erection for intercourse, an inflatable penile prosthesis is also implanted.
Great news for mizouse.
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01-24-2006, 10:36 AM
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just thought that some of you guys with a micropenis might be interested to know there is help out there...... for some reason all guys think they have a big penis and proceed to talk about how big it is when in fact they have nothing to talk about......
01-24-2006, 10:38 AM
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
just thought that some of you guys with a micropenis might be interested to know there is help out there...... for some reason all guys think they have a big penis and proceed to talk about how big it is when in fact they have nothing to talk about......
If I've said it once, I've said it at least 7 times: my penis is small. It's about 5.5" erect and doesn't have enough girth to wow you.
01-24-2006, 10:41 AM
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
just thought that some of you guys with a micropenis might be interested to know there is help out there...... for some reason all guys think they have a big penis and proceed to talk about how big it is when in fact they have nothing to talk about......
:ibyoungTL:
01-24-2006, 10:41 AM
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
for some reason all guys think they have a big penis and proceed to talk about how big it is when in fact they have nothing to talk about......
You have PM.