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01-23-2006, 03:00 PM
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Originally Posted by wstevens
What part of sex do you like the most? Sucking cawk? Penetration?
Is there one aspect of it that's not working or is it the whole thing?
Is there one aspect of it that's not working or is it the whole thing?
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01-23-2006, 03:02 PM
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
um....i am kind of afraid to answer that question ..... 
01-23-2006, 03:03 PM
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
um....i am kind of afraid to answer that question .....
01-23-2006, 03:04 PM
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
um....i am kind of afraid to answer that question .....
You can be honest and open with us. We're all friends here and no one knows who you are anyway.
01-23-2006, 03:06 PM
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Off of the relationship a bit, I noticed I have better dates when I'm not thinking about boning her the entire time. Conversation is better and I don't reference sex as much during the date.
I would rather have a serious relationship without sex, and a few concubines on the side. This way I can give my SO undivided attention.
Usually I get the "I feel like the only reason you want to be together is for sex." NOrmally followed by the "How could you say something like that? You know how much I care about you blah blah blah. Now spread'em!"
I would rather have a serious relationship without sex, and a few concubines on the side. This way I can give my SO undivided attention.
Usually I get the "I feel like the only reason you want to be together is for sex." NOrmally followed by the "How could you say something like that? You know how much I care about you blah blah blah. Now spread'em!"
01-23-2006, 03:07 PM
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Originally Posted by wstevens
Ok..well, here's the litmus test: when you suck teh cawk, do you get wet at all? like even one drip?
You can be honest and open with us. We're all friends here and no one knows who you are anyway.
You can be honest and open with us. We're all friends here and no one knows who you are anyway.
01-23-2006, 03:10 PM
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Originally Posted by Titand19
Off of the relationship a bit, I noticed I have better dates when I'm not thinking about boning her the entire time. Conversation is better and I don't reference sex as much during the date.
I would rather have a serious relationship without sex, and a few concubines on the side. This way I can give my SO undivided attention.
Usually I get the "I feel like the only reason you want to be together is for sex." NOrmally followed by the "How could you say something like that? You know how much I care about you blah blah blah. Now spread'em!"
I would rather have a serious relationship without sex, and a few concubines on the side. This way I can give my SO undivided attention.
Usually I get the "I feel like the only reason you want to be together is for sex." NOrmally followed by the "How could you say something like that? You know how much I care about you blah blah blah. Now spread'em!"
01-23-2006, 03:16 PM
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
Thank You. I feel like when i am with this person all he is thinking about is sex. It drives me crazy.... all the sexual inuendos and the brushing of his cawk on my ass..... jeez ... i was thinking i was just being a bitch for pointing all of the little things that irritate me out.
01-23-2006, 03:17 PM
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I think stevens is really getting to the heart of the matter 
01-23-2006, 03:30 PM
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Originally Posted by evilstorm
more pics as well please
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm...endID=47516167
01-23-2006, 03:36 PM
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
MYSPACE...... more pics
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm...endID=47516167
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01-23-2006, 03:59 PM
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
Thank You. I feel like when i am with this person all he is thinking about is sex. It drives me crazy.... all the sexual inuendos and the brushing of his cawk on my ass..... jeez ... i was thinking i was just being a bitch for pointing all of the little things that irritate me out.
Many people are kind of squeamish when it comes to discussing sex face to face even when you are in a relationship with the other person.
Your s/o could be acting out his sexual frustrations with the relationship.
If you are not attracted to him, then end it. Maybe, you could be friends afterwards, but probably not.
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01-23-2006, 04:07 PM
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Originally Posted by evilstorm
you just ruined yourself for me 
01-23-2006, 04:08 PM
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
Every girl with a sense of style and who is independent is picky...... it is something that i am trying to work on (not really but it makes me feel better when i say it)
01-23-2006, 04:08 PM
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and i think guys are a lot more picky than girls.... blondes, brunettes, short, tall , fat, skinny, small ass, big ass, big boobs, small boobs.... you guys have a lot more to look at so i completely understand
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01-23-2006, 04:11 PM
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I always look for the women with low self esteem
01-23-2006, 04:12 PM
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you just ruined yourself for me
The really picky girls I have known are the ones who are now 30 something, maybe divorced, or getting out of their 400th relationship asking me "where are all the good guys?". I have to tell them that they are either a) taken, or b) are single but would rather go after the 21 year old version of you.
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
during a fight one night about sex (i didnt want to have sex) an ex boyfriend told me once that he always liked having sex with fat chicks because they appreciate more...
01-23-2006, 04:17 PM
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
during a fight one night about sex (i didnt want to have sex) an ex boyfriend told me once that he always liked having sex with fat chicks because they appreciate more...
01-23-2006, 04:29 PM
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Originally Posted by evilstorm
and that would have been priceless to see/hear your reaction to that...
01-23-2006, 05:08 PM
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MYSPACE...... more pics
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm...endID=47516167
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01-23-2006, 05:17 PM
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Sex and Relationships
Ok Civivgirl here is the low down,
Steps onto soap box:
1. You are pretty young and being picky is not your problem, your age is. Both men and women at your age are changing their personalities and tastes all the time. Once you get into your mid to late twenties you will start to "find yourself" and become a lot more sure of who you are and what you want. Of course this is not true for everyone but for most people it is.
2. Yes poor sex in relationships does not bode well for long term relationship be it marriage or whatever. However that said, many relationships start off hot and heavy but cool down quickly. This is just human nature. You have to find ways to keep it spicy and fun. It is work and communication. You need a man who knows how to talk to you about this kind of stuff and in doing so will find a good man.
3. To men, sex is a bodily function. For women, sex almost always an emotional connection they want to feel. If both sides understand this you can often meet half way. Have quickies now and again and then longer romantic evenings as well.
4. Most men are stupid when it comes to relationships and sex with women. They just don't understand the whole emotional connection thing. However that said, men are much simpler creatures. Women over think and over analyze. Knowing this goes a long way to a successful long term relationship.
Steps off the soap box
Good luck
Steps onto soap box:
1. You are pretty young and being picky is not your problem, your age is. Both men and women at your age are changing their personalities and tastes all the time. Once you get into your mid to late twenties you will start to "find yourself" and become a lot more sure of who you are and what you want. Of course this is not true for everyone but for most people it is.
2. Yes poor sex in relationships does not bode well for long term relationship be it marriage or whatever. However that said, many relationships start off hot and heavy but cool down quickly. This is just human nature. You have to find ways to keep it spicy and fun. It is work and communication. You need a man who knows how to talk to you about this kind of stuff and in doing so will find a good man.
3. To men, sex is a bodily function. For women, sex almost always an emotional connection they want to feel. If both sides understand this you can often meet half way. Have quickies now and again and then longer romantic evenings as well.
4. Most men are stupid when it comes to relationships and sex with women. They just don't understand the whole emotional connection thing. However that said, men are much simpler creatures. Women over think and over analyze. Knowing this goes a long way to a successful long term relationship.
Steps off the soap box
Good luck
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01-23-2006, 05:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Dr. Evil
Ok Civivgirl here is the low down,
Steps onto soap box:
1. You are pretty young and being picky is not your problem, your age is. Both men and women at your age are changing their personalities and tastes all the time. Once you get into your mid to late twenties you will start to "find yourself" and become a lot more sure of who you are and what you want. Of course this is not true for everyone but for most people it is.
2. Yes poor sex relationship does not bode well for long term relationship be it marriage of whatever. However that said, many relationships start off hot and heavy but cool down quickly. This is just human nature. You have to find ways to keep it spicy and fun. It is work and communication. You need a man who knows how to talk to you about this kind of stuff and in doing so will find a good man.
3. To men, sex is a bodily function. For women, sex almost always an emotional connection they want to feel. If both sides understand this you can often meet half way. Have quickies now and again and then longer romantic evenings as well.
4. Most men are stupid when it comes to relationships and sex with women. They just don't understand the whole emotional connection thing. However that said, men are much simpler creatures. Women over think and over analyze. Knowing this goes a long way to a successful long term relationship.
Steps off the soap box
Good luck
Steps onto soap box:
1. You are pretty young and being picky is not your problem, your age is. Both men and women at your age are changing their personalities and tastes all the time. Once you get into your mid to late twenties you will start to "find yourself" and become a lot more sure of who you are and what you want. Of course this is not true for everyone but for most people it is.
2. Yes poor sex relationship does not bode well for long term relationship be it marriage of whatever. However that said, many relationships start off hot and heavy but cool down quickly. This is just human nature. You have to find ways to keep it spicy and fun. It is work and communication. You need a man who knows how to talk to you about this kind of stuff and in doing so will find a good man.
3. To men, sex is a bodily function. For women, sex almost always an emotional connection they want to feel. If both sides understand this you can often meet half way. Have quickies now and again and then longer romantic evenings as well.
4. Most men are stupid when it comes to relationships and sex with women. They just don't understand the whole emotional connection thing. However that said, men are much simpler creatures. Women over think and over analyze. Knowing this goes a long way to a successful long term relationship.
Steps off the soap box
Good luck
01-23-2006, 05:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Dr. Evil
Ya, not from Boise originally (Seattle actually) but it is nice here. Did you get hit with the Hurricane where you live?