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Old 01-23-2006, 12:02 PM
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Can you have a good relationship without sex? You have great conversations and a great time hanging out but when it comes to sex there is no chemistry. Its not that Im not sexually attracted to this person i just dont feel the connection during sex. If you cant have a good relationship without sex how do you know when its over?
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Is he a "little" inadequate?
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
Can you have a good relationship without sex? You have great conversations and a great time hanging out but when it comes to sex there is no chemistry. Its not that Im not sexually attracted to this person i just dont feel the connection during sex. If you cant have a good relationship without sex how do you know when its over?
no, and when you havent had in orgasm in over a week, you know its over
Old 01-23-2006, 12:12 PM
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Originally Posted by evilstorm
no, and when you havent had in orgasm in over a week, you know its over


The problem is i dont need someone else around to have an orgasm.... so no sex is not a big deal to me ... is it a big deal for guys?
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
The problem is i dont need someone else around to have an orgasm.... so no sex is not a big deal to me ... is it a big deal for guys?
I believe you haven't had sex with the right guy yet....


sex is sex and I enjoy it whatever, but the right person makes all the difference


by the way, the orgasm is just the finishing touch, getting there is at least half the fun!
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Why are there so many first time posters in this section

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Originally Posted by JimmyCarter
Why are there so many first time posters in this section

:ib the :

They are regulars who create separate usernames to post these.
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They are regulars who create separate usernames to post these.
<--- Thinks CivicGirl is whiskers
Old 01-23-2006, 12:34 PM
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Originally Posted by JimmyCarter
<--- Thinks CivicGirl is whiskers
or the wife.
Old 01-23-2006, 12:37 PM
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or the wife.
ahahaaha ,i bet you are right!
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Originally Posted by Rock2534
or the wife.
Old 01-23-2006, 12:38 PM
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
The problem is i dont need someone else around to have an orgasm.... so no sex is not a big deal to me ... is it a big deal for guys?
yes, as long as you dont mind giving head and letting the guy do as he pleases, you can get off by yourself and live happily ever after
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IMO You can have a relationship without sex, but if you can find someone that you do have that chemistry with and have great sex. You will more than likely have a much more succesful relationship. Great sex is healthy for the relationship. Moreso than being in a great relationship with less than great sex.
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
Can you have a good relationship without sex? You have great conversations and a great time hanging out but when it comes to sex there is no chemistry. Its not that Im not sexually attracted to this person i just dont feel the connection during sex. If you cant have a good relationship without sex how do you know when its over?
Relationship with no sexual chemistry = friends
Old 01-23-2006, 01:18 PM
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so you're saying you don't need an extra hand?
Old 01-23-2006, 01:28 PM
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so is that you in teh avatar?

Old 01-23-2006, 01:32 PM
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I read in playboy that these types of relationships do not work. It may work for a while, but he's going to know you're not being satisfied in bed, he'll feel like he is inadequate, get bothered by it, turn angry, and leave at some point.
Old 01-23-2006, 01:40 PM
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Damn!!!! Too late....

1) I wanted to be the first leghumper!!
2) Not me or wife.
3) Is that you in AV?
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Originally Posted by JimmyCarter
<--- Thinks CivicGirl is whiskers

Nope, I met CivicGirl last Saturday night at the Acurazine meet. Really nice person.
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Originally Posted by s_jack
Relationship with no sexual chemistry = friends
Old 01-23-2006, 01:46 PM
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Originally Posted by mantis23
Nope, I met CivicGirl last Saturday night at the Acurazine meet. Really nice person.
Way to ruin the magic :shakehead
Old 01-23-2006, 01:50 PM
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Women=more romance then sex and what not

Men=Sex,sex,sex. Im sorry but its the truth all guys want is sex.
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Originally Posted by JimmyCarter
Way to ruin the magic :shakehead
Thats what I'm here for!
Old 01-23-2006, 01:51 PM
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Originally Posted by mantis23
Nope, I met CivicGirl last Saturday night at the Acurazine meet. Really nice person.
Do you have any pics from the meet? Im really interested in the, err, cars.....
Old 01-23-2006, 01:54 PM
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Originally Posted by SRK85
Women=more romance then sex and what not

Men=Sex,sex,sex. Im sorry but its the truth all guys want is sex.
speak for yourself...
Old 01-23-2006, 01:56 PM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
Do you have any pics from the meet? Im really interested in the, err, cars.....
im very interested in the cars there as well
Old 01-23-2006, 01:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
Do you have any pics from the meet? Im really interested in the, err, cars.....

Didn't have my camera, and all the pics posted so far don't have any with her in them.

:backontopic: Sex and Relationships.

You can have relationships without sex. Those usually consist of a gay man and woman who needs someone to talk to.
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Well that solves that mystery ... civicgirl = mantis
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Well that solves that mystery ... civicgirl = mantis
My pants just got a lot bigger....
Old 01-23-2006, 02:15 PM
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My pants just got a lot bigger....
time for:
Old 01-23-2006, 02:37 PM
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Originally Posted by s_jack
Relationship with no sexual chemistry = friends
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Originally Posted by evilstorm
speak for yourself...
Lol im speaking for most men. For me its romance then sex.
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Originally Posted by Rock2534
or the wife.
Nope I am new. I went with a friend to the meet in Dallas over the weekend and i enjoyed it very much. Unfortunatly all of the honda forums are bullshit and everyone on acurazine is pretty cool. I am nobody's wife or girlfriend and yes that was my first post and it wont be the last.
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
Nope I am new. I went with a friend to the meet in Dallas over the weekend and i enjoyed it very much. Unfortunatly all of the honda forums are bullshit and everyone on acurazine is pretty cool. I am nobody's wife or girlfriend and yes that was my first post and it wont be the last.
and your avatar is you?
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Originally Posted by CivicGirl
everyone on acurazine is pretty cool.
You will see....

Originally Posted by CivicGirl
I am nobody's wife or girlfriend


Originally Posted by CivicGirl
yes that was my first post and it wont be the last.
Sounds like a bet.
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Originally Posted by Teh Jatt
so is that you in teh avatar?

Yes that is me, i wanted to put a pic of my car but i dont have a pic with my new wheels on and my car is kinda dirty from all the rain right now.... so it will be changed soon I will put some pics from Dallas on here as well.
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Nope, I met CivicGirl last Saturday night at the Acurazine meet. Really nice person.
^^^
I met her at the meet too. The avatar does not do her justice, but I do think that is her in the avatar.
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What part of sex do you like the most? Sucking cawk? Penetration?

Is there one aspect of it that's not working or is it the whole thing?
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The single men (and one married man) is getting very excited here.....
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Originally Posted by wstevens
What part of sex do you like the most? Sucking cawk? Penetration?

Is there one aspect of it that's not working or is it the whole thing?
um....i am kind of afraid to answer that question .....



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