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View Poll Results: Would you have sex on a first date?
Yes, I do it all the time
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17.01%
Yes, but only if I was really feeling the person
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24.74%
No, Its against my religion or beliefs
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6.19%
No, I wait to get to know the person better
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18.56%
Not sure, it totally depends on the situation
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Sex on a first date?

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Old 03-20-2006, 12:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Always Dirty
I would sex mad bitches on first dates if I ever went on them.
Well see...kidnapping them is not considered a "date" in most circles, AD. It's all in your approach.










Old 03-20-2006, 12:11 PM
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Your problem is you spent way too much time on the breasts without moving on. Feeling up tits alone for more than 7 minutes is way too long.
Old 03-20-2006, 12:14 PM
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Originally Posted by fdl
Your problem is you spent way too much time on the breasts without moving on. Feeling up tits alone for more than 7 minutes is way too long.
...probably, it was a long movie...


(did I mention that she had a tongue ring? )
Old 03-20-2006, 12:16 PM
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Originally Posted by is300eater
...probably, it was a long movie...


(did I mention that she had a tongue ring? )

If she had a lower back tattoo you should just kill yourself.
Old 03-20-2006, 12:16 PM
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See, now we need some pics, b-day boy. Post 'em.
Old 03-20-2006, 12:27 PM
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Originally Posted by dom
If she had a lower back tattoo you should just kill yourself.
...she did, but it was a really bad tattoo... she admitted that...

... no pics... sorry, would be kinda ackward to ask for a pic. since I just met her... but to be honest? She's probably only about a 6 maybe 7... I'm just horny... and it's been awhile...
Old 03-20-2006, 12:30 PM
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Originally Posted by is300eater
...she did, but it was a really bad tattoo... she admitted that...

You somehow messed up a sure thing.
Old 03-20-2006, 12:32 PM
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Originally Posted by dom
You somehow messed up a sure thing.
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Old 03-20-2006, 12:48 PM
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this thread's a makin' ma pants tight.

But yeah. You waited too long. She was throwing juicy fastballs down the plate but you weren't swinging. The bat never moved. Hopefully you'll get another at-bat, when you'll take the first pitch DEEP, DEEP, DEEP, GONE.
Old 03-22-2006, 07:02 PM
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I had sex with a girl the first time we hung out. yeah...um....that relationship lasted 2 weeks. Nothin to look forward too and it was awkward afterwords.

Relationship type girl=wait a while
Slut=go for it
Old 03-22-2006, 07:54 PM
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Originally Posted by is300eater
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...I also forgot to mention this too... long before I even got to massage her... we were talking about jobs... and she said that she almost did porn at one time!!
yeah, i ALMOST did porn, too. like I can ALMOST make my wife cum.
Old 03-22-2006, 08:38 PM
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I'm a little late on this one, but for is300eater:

When you started massaging her for a few minutes, you should have given told her it would be much better for her if she took her shirt off - then the bra - then the... you get the idea.
Old 03-23-2006, 10:45 AM
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Yeah well i understand the situation but you prolly should have started kissing her neck while you were feeling her up since you were positioned behind her. Play with her ear too that gets many girls going. Well any other plans with her?

No reason to be pissed if nothing happend the first time. I mean if all you wanna do is hump then go with the 3 dates and go plan. If you are willing to date her then just take ur time and go step by step. If you guys spend enough time with eachother it will get there.
Old 03-23-2006, 10:48 AM
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Originally Posted by gary_william
yeah, like I can ALMOST make my wife cum.
thats leaving yourself up for sooo many fixed qoutes..........
Old 03-23-2006, 11:27 AM
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Originally Posted by CKcentral
Yeah well i understand the situation but you prolly should have started kissing her neck while you were feeling her up since you were positioned behind her. Play with her ear too that gets many girls going. Well any other plans with her?

No reason to be pissed if nothing happend the first time. I mean if all you wanna do is hump then go with the 3 dates and go plan. If you are willing to date her then just take ur time and go step by step. If you guys spend enough time with eachother it will get there.
...date her, no.... let's just put it this way... she's not exactly the type you bring home to meet the parents if you know what I mean...

...but, no... I wasn't piss... just disappointed... cause I know she's the type to go all the way on the first date... and I screwed up... I'm not normally "like that"... but it's been "awhile" and I really (REALLY) need to get some...

I've seen her a couple times @ Starbucks and we had the usual chat... but since we both agreed to not let everybody else @ Starbucks know that we've hung out... nothing has been brought up
Old 03-23-2006, 01:00 PM
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Originally Posted by is300eater
...date her, no.... let's just put it this way... she's not exactly the type you bring home to meet the parents if you know what I mean...

...but, no... I wasn't piss... just disappointed... cause I know she's the type to go all the way on the first date... and I screwed up... I'm not normally "like that"... but it's been "awhile" and I really (REALLY) need to get some...

I've seen her a couple times @ Starbucks and we had the usual chat... but since we both agreed to not let everybody else @ Starbucks know that we've hung out... nothing has been brought up
AHHHHH alright well if she is the type you KNOW will sleep with you on the first date maybe you dont want to, or maybe your information was wrong. I dont really see anything you did wrong. You make it sounds like this girl is a slut and sluts are usually aggressive and hence have sex on the first date.
Old 03-25-2006, 04:35 PM
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done once, but i really feel like it

i could have done with other girls, but never got the feeling going, so didnt bother to invite her up to my home
Old 03-26-2006, 04:27 AM
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Sex on the first date is great, No need for a second.
Old 04-24-2006, 03:21 PM
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Swing and a miss!!! You took like a big ass Barry Bonds in his steroid prime swing too champ.

I think she was begging for the D, you took too long to give it to her, so she figured you were puss. She texted her regular D source on the way home, then fucked his brains out since she still had all that built up tension.

The moral of the story is: Timing is everything.

If she's a smut like you say though, you might get other chances. Then again, maybe not. Damn.
Old 04-24-2006, 05:03 PM
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Originally Posted by is300eater
...so, today's my b-day, and last night... I had this chick over that I met at Starbucks... (she works there), we were going to go catch a movie.... but missed all the 7ish/8ish showing... and didn't feel like waiting... so I suggested to just go rent a movie and watch it over at my pad.. Anyway, I'm kinda shy (at start), so durning the first... half hour of the movie or so... we were sitting in different couches... then she started whinning about how her lower back is sooooooo sore... and asked me if I think if it's because of her boobs...

...so I asked her... how big they were? -34DD, I told her... "...sure possibly" and asked her if she wanted me to give her a massage/rub down (her back and neck, that is...)... she didn't hesitate and took my offer... anyway, long story short... I'm thinking... "...I'm so... 'in'..." I kept bringing up the size of her tits... and finally just asked her if I can see'em... and she let me, I saw'em, felt them, and pretty much just played with them for the rest of the movie... well, after the movie ended... I asked if I can see them with her shirt/bra completely off.... and she said "NO"... I was like... ...she started whinning about her tired she was... in kinda implied that she wanted to go...

I was soooooooo hoping for.... at least a birthday b.j.... but once again... I fvcked up somewhere...

my approach sucked... I think I was going the right direction... but somehow.... somewhere... she backed off...

Old 04-24-2006, 05:59 PM
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Originally Posted by AkuraCLS

I never got anywhere with that girl... (plus, that night was like over a month ago, I'm over it)
Old 04-24-2006, 07:12 PM
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i think you need another option

"Yes, if given the opportunity"
seriously
Old 05-17-2006, 11:21 PM
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This poll needs a 6 option:

I would have sex on a first date but its been too long since my last date and i can't remember
Old 05-19-2006, 10:09 PM
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Are we talking about free dates or the ones you have to pay? If it's the latter, then you know the answer!
Old 05-20-2006, 07:27 AM
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Originally Posted by FARNIZZLE
No, if a girl is willing to fuck you on the first date, shes a pig and cant be trusted. Unless if you guys are just goin to be friends with privelages.
x2.

I would enjoy doing her and pass to another girl.
Old 05-29-2006, 09:28 AM
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EnDz up happeneing most of the time......
Old 05-30-2006, 04:20 PM
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Old 06-01-2006, 05:40 PM
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Originally Posted by phat_whan
Dude, you've crossed over to the darkside. Go back and forget you'd ever clicked on dating and relationship.
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Guilty of this yesterday. I guess since we had dinner out you could call this a "date"
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