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Old Dec 13, 2011 | 10:07 AM
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The Secret Language

If you've ever seen or read the massive books in the series "The Secret Language of...", this web site basically provides the same info in a nice web-friendly fashion.

I personally have found the analysis to be uncannily spot on. I would be curious to hear others' impressions. Enter your birthday and the birthday of someone you know and see how you match up.

http://www.thesecretlanguage.com/relationships
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Old Dec 17, 2011 | 11:52 PM
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I tried myself and my wife - it wasn't very close. I mostly reject the idea that someone can know anything about your personality based on when you were born. Horoscopes are just entertainment. The only "truth" people find is just coincidence, or they identify with it because there is a trait there they want to have, but don't really have.

I say meh.
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Old Dec 29, 2011 | 11:04 PM
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The involvement between these two personalities is usually quite profound, plumbing to such a deep level that most of their interaction may occur on a subconscious or even psychic plane. Since much of what occurs here is nonverbal, the overall mood is rather comfortable. While both partners tend to spend a lot of time alone, their emotional understanding runs high, and they find it easy to be open with each other. There is a tendency for these two to become mutually dependent, then, in a rather independent way.

In romantic relationships, Week of the Persuader and Week of the Loner people rarely hold back with each other emotionally. Emotional interactions, sexual or otherwise, are prolonged and satisfying. These partners can be quite faithful to each other over the long haul, but an undeniable dependency manifests in this relationship, having both salutary and negative effects. The relationship functions very well when the partners can give their all to each other only when they choose to do so, each having their own space to which they can retreat, whether they live together or not. Although outright sex and love addictions are unusual here, Week of the Persuader and Week of the Loner people may bond to each other so strongly that they are unlikely to become deeply involved with another person even when the relationship is over. In both love affairs and marriage, the relationship should aim to be more open and partners to form meaningful friendships with others.

Week of the Persuader–Week of the Loner friendships can be outstanding. Their tendency to isolate themselves is not so strong here. Week of the Persuader people usually take the lead in bringing their Week of the Loner friends out in the world, encouraging them and furthering their career and social development. Week of the Loner people, meanwhile, furnish the sympathy and understanding that Week of the Persuader friends crave, particularly when their professional duties are put aside.

Parent-child and sibling relationships between Week of the Persuader and Week of the Loner people are usually empathic and accepting. Each values the other’s opinion highly, and the pair share a great trust, which will cause deep pain if abused. Week of the Persuader–Week of the Loner career matchups are often relaxed and financially productive.
It's pretty accurate! Thanks for the post.
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Old Dec 30, 2011 | 12:07 AM
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Actually performed a science experiment (and wrote a paper) on this subject in college.

It's bullshit, there is no correlation or causation related to date of birth and human psychology or behaviors.
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