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Old Nov 8, 2006 | 08:37 AM
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saying sorry

are flowers the best way for saying im sorry to a girl?? i feel its kinda... i dunno... any other good suggestions.. shes not my girl. but one of my closest friends for years now...
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Old Nov 8, 2006 | 08:43 AM
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Flowers are alright, but sometimes its just too routine. Be original, if you are her friend than you will know what would truly make her happy.
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Old Nov 8, 2006 | 08:43 AM
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Sounds like you need to piitb.

Also, :ibtm:
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Old Nov 8, 2006 | 09:13 AM
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he said NOT his gf

don't encourage piitb

Last edited by Oh Anna Oh; Nov 8, 2006 at 09:17 AM.
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Old Nov 8, 2006 | 09:47 AM
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Originally Posted by Oh Anna Oh
he said NOT his gf

don't encourage piitb
Yeah, but she probably needs a good poke.
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Old Nov 8, 2006 | 09:57 AM
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why need to over do? just say "I am sorry". If she does not get it, then just let it go.
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Old Nov 8, 2006 | 10:17 AM
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go over with the flowers and personally apologize. Then follow up with dinner and grovel. Women just love/want the attention.
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Old Nov 8, 2006 | 10:38 AM
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I've never received anything but an 'I'm sorry'. If you messed up bad then flowers are cute. If it's a whatever thing then I don't think you need to go all out.
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Old Nov 8, 2006 | 11:03 AM
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Yeah, but she probably needs a good poke.
He's not dating her....he's just scared of her.
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Old Nov 8, 2006 | 11:09 AM
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Actions speak louder than words
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Old Nov 8, 2006 | 11:31 AM
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alright... dinner it shall be... getting my girl to cook dinner
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Old Nov 8, 2006 | 12:09 PM
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Repeat after me:

"You are right. I am wrong. I'm sorry."



That phrase is like the WD40 of any relationship.
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Old Nov 8, 2006 | 12:38 PM
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What did you do?

If you're sorry for stepping on her cat, it's requires a much different token of apology than maybe sleeping with her sister.

I think dinner and/or flowers would be a nice jesture.
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Old Nov 8, 2006 | 02:18 PM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
What did you do?

If you're sorry for stepping on her cat, it's requires a much different token of apology than maybe sleeping with her sister.

I think dinner and/or flowers would be a nice jesture.
Both of these scenarios involve violating a pussy and that's a serious offense...
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Old Nov 8, 2006 | 02:33 PM
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Originally Posted by whynot
Both of these scenarios involve violating a pussy and that's a serious offense...
Kinda the point of using those examples.
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Old Nov 8, 2006 | 02:36 PM
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Flowers are a nice gesture, but try give them to her in a really creative way.

My last boyfriend only gave me flowers three times, but I will NEVER forget the ways he did it.

1) It was really early in the morning on July 4th. He told me to meet me at his friend's house so we could go cruise together. When I got there, he was like, "We can't leave yet." I asked him why, and he pulled a bunch of handpicked sunflowers out of his hatch.

2) And then that evening, we were hotboxing my car before going to see the fireworks and he just pulled over, ran out and picked some wildflowers. THAT, my friends, is a DANK apology.

3) After he wrecked his sweet little black Teggy, I was taking it easy on work for a little while because I was kind of fucked up from the accident. After I got out of class a few days after his accident, he called me and started being sketchy and I was really wondering if he was out cheating on me because he was like, "I don't have any gas so just go home." Well, I get in my car to go home and I see a dozen roses and a pack of my favorite candy in the world. (He had the keys to my car.)

The world definitely needs more guys who can pull off stealthy shit like that.
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Old Nov 10, 2006 | 09:57 AM
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Just say "I'm sorry" or even "Hey I'm really sorry about that, it won't happen again."
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Old Nov 10, 2006 | 12:38 PM
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Just try "I'm sorry" and maybe why youre sorry
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