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Old 10-05-2011, 09:16 AM
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False. I have a Biochem Degree. It never got me laid.
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Why....I went to school to get a Biochem degree because Doctors gets all the hot chicks. Then I realized that I wasn't smart enough to go to Med School. See....they don't tell you that.
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^but you're brown.
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^but you're brown.
I'm fake brown. I grew up in Trinidad...not India. And my last name is not Patel. That's my excuse and I am sticking to it.
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Surely there are good looking chicks going to college for their Mrs. degree, and they are usually looking for doctors. How does that not pan out?




EDIT: Oops, missed page 2.

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Why....I went to school to get a Biochem degree because Doctors gets all the hot chicks. Then I realized that I wasn't smart enough to go to Med School. See....they don't tell you that.
LMAO Ravi. I call it dropping the "D-Bomb." It was cool the first couple years but by the time I was in residency when chicks asked what I did for living I would tell them I was a DJ. Mostly because I was sick of chicks zipping down their dresses and showing me their moles. Trust me, after 1 AM it's not that cool anymore.
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"doc, what the hell is this!?!??!?!?"
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Originally Posted by surfer rick
LMAO Ravi. I call it dropping the "D-Bomb." It was cool the first couple years but by the time I was in residency when chicks asked what I did for living I would tell them I was a DJ. Mostly because I was sick of chicks zipping down their dresses and showing me their moles. Trust me, after 1 AM it's not that cool anymore.
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Originally Posted by justnspace



"doc, what the hell is this!?!??!?!?"
LMAO Justin
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Originally Posted by surfer rick
LMAO Ravi. I call it dropping the "D-Bomb." It was cool the first couple years but by the time I was in residency when chicks asked what I did for living I would tell them I was a DJ. Mostly because I was sick of chicks zipping down their dresses and showing me their moles. Trust me, after 1 AM it's not that cool anymore.


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alot of girls i know would rather date the dude whos working already.

Here I am at school trying to get myself a good education and become a dentist and I get blown off. Then my friend who works basically making nothing gets women because hes 'ballin'
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girls just want to have fun.
true statement.
show one a good time, and she'll tell her friends.



as long as you're thinking like this.....you wont get the girls.
be positive, stay happy, have fun.
when you're having fun and loving life, people will be attracted to you.
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Dude, there are people who are working and still can't find dates. Don't think like that. If girls are only going out with you because of your money, then they're not worth the time. If you want to get your dick wet, get a hooker, and you don't have to deal with her drama after her hours are up.
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yeah, im gona worry about this after tuesday. Ill get back to you all then haha
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Originally Posted by justnspace
girls just want to have fun.
true statement.
show one a good time, and she'll tell her friends.



as long as you're thinking like this.....you wont get the girls.
be positive, stay happy, have fun.
when you're having fun and loving life, people will be attracted to you.
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i would say stogies advice on talking to everyone you see is great it will help you get comfortable at making conversation and keepin it going .

school is also a great place to pick up chicks i miss school lol
Old 10-16-2011, 09:44 PM
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So I got a girls number that works at this restaurant I always go to by my house. Shes pretty effin hot too. Today has been a great day haha not just because of that but it helped
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score!


Nao here are teh rulez:
Pictures of said girl are to be posted in 3 days time.
or you get teh ban.
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ahah first I either have to go out with her or find her on Facebook and I dont know her last name
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^kiddings.


oh and dont find her on fb. thats creepy.
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So how does one go about meeting someone they got their number from? Being a waiter previously, I've got numbers numerous times on receipts, but since I had a GF, I never used them. I could only imagine that this could end up terribly awkward and end up driving the girl away as phone conversations are generally much harder than in person. Actually, come to think of it, I have called a girl I got a number from, and it ended up terribly awkward and nothing came of it.

What would be good advice for the man in a rut?
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^calling is the absolute best way to go about it.
dont be a pussy and text.

Call. Keep it light and funny. establish rapport.
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3 days!?

I dunno, I think text is a fine way to start, because there's less pressure than there is in a phone conversation. Prolonged text conversations aren't good though, IMO.
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Originally Posted by Aman
3 days!?

I dunno, I think text is a fine way to start, because there's less pressure than there is in a phone conversation. Prolonged text conversations aren't good though, IMO.
she gets a million text a day.
grab your bawls and give her a cawl.

agreed on the prolonged text tho!
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she gets a million text a day.
grab your bawls and give her a cawl.

agreed on the prolonged text tho!
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Originally Posted by invisiblewar
alot of girls i know would rather date the dude whos working already.

Here I am at school trying to get myself a good education and become a dentist and I get blown off. Then my friend who works basically making nothing gets women because hes 'ballin'
I hope that you're not thinking that having a date and a shitty job is better than working towards having a better future.

In 5 years all these dudes will be working dead end jobs while you are a dentist. Point is....sacrifice now for future gains.
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Originally Posted by justnspace



"doc, what the hell is this!?!??!?!?"
Yep, what thread did I open???
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Originally Posted by oo7spy
So how does one go about meeting someone they got their number from? Being a waiter previously, I've got numbers numerous times on receipts, but since I had a GF, I never used them. I could only imagine that this could end up terribly awkward and end up driving the girl away as phone conversations are generally much harder than in person. Actually, come to think of it, I have called a girl I got a number from, and it ended up terribly awkward and nothing came of it.

What would be good advice for the man in a rut?
It's kinda like cold-calling in sales. It's hit or miss. I've gotten a few numbers over the years and maybe 30% of them materialized into at least a date. 1 turned into a relationship.
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Why is it that the girl you really want to date doesn't know you're alive, but that other short, freaky-lookin' girl with the big tits, that your buddy slept with, wants to go home with you?
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Originally Posted by Mr Marco
Why is it that the girl you really want to date doesn't know you're alive, but that other short, freaky-lookin' girl with the big tits, that your buddy slept with, wants to go home with you?
Because short freaky-lookin girls with big tits need lovin too.
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In 5 years all these dudes will be working dead end jobs while you are a dentist. Point is....sacrifice now for future gains.
This. Dental hygienists are all hot and freaky, from what I've heard.
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Originally Posted by svtmike
This. Dental hygienists are all hot and freaky, from what I've heard.
The hot part is correct. Not sure about the freaky part.
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^ I guess you haven't seen Horrible Bosses.
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So I would of called her yesterday but she was at work so I texted her, told her to let me know when she got off. Nothing happened. I called her today and she didnt pick up so I left a voicemail. 20 minutes later I get a private number calling me,
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wait nevermind she called me...
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
In 5 years all these dudes will be working dead end jobs while you are a dentist. Point is....sacrifice now for future gains.
Those dead end jobs don't lead to suicide as frequently as dentistry does.
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I know its kinda early, but update?

I have to say good job man. You gotta keep your head up and try. "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take"
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Those dead end jobs don't lead to suicide as frequently as dentistry does.
you do realize that this fact is so old it doesnt hold weight anymore...
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Originally Posted by oo7spy
Those dead end jobs don't lead to suicide as frequently as dentistry does.
Some people just can't deal with stress. It happens in every job. I'd rather be a dentist than have a dead end job. For that matter I'd rather do anything than have a dead end job.


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