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Old Oct 5, 2011 | 09:16 AM
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False. I have a Biochem Degree. It never got me laid.
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Old Oct 5, 2011 | 09:43 AM
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Why....I went to school to get a Biochem degree because Doctors gets all the hot chicks. Then I realized that I wasn't smart enough to go to Med School. See....they don't tell you that.
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Old Oct 5, 2011 | 09:45 AM
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^but you're brown.
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Old Oct 5, 2011 | 09:46 AM
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^but you're brown.
I'm fake brown. I grew up in Trinidad...not India. And my last name is not Patel. That's my excuse and I am sticking to it.
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Old Oct 5, 2011 | 09:47 AM
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Old Oct 5, 2011 | 09:58 AM
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Surely there are good looking chicks going to college for their Mrs. degree, and they are usually looking for doctors. How does that not pan out?




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Old Oct 5, 2011 | 01:30 PM
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Why....I went to school to get a Biochem degree because Doctors gets all the hot chicks. Then I realized that I wasn't smart enough to go to Med School. See....they don't tell you that.
LMAO Ravi. I call it dropping the "D-Bomb." It was cool the first couple years but by the time I was in residency when chicks asked what I did for living I would tell them I was a DJ. Mostly because I was sick of chicks zipping down their dresses and showing me their moles. Trust me, after 1 AM it's not that cool anymore.
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Old Oct 5, 2011 | 01:34 PM
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"doc, what the hell is this!?!??!?!?"
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Old Oct 5, 2011 | 01:51 PM
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LMAO Ravi. I call it dropping the "D-Bomb." It was cool the first couple years but by the time I was in residency when chicks asked what I did for living I would tell them I was a DJ. Mostly because I was sick of chicks zipping down their dresses and showing me their moles. Trust me, after 1 AM it's not that cool anymore.
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Old Oct 5, 2011 | 01:55 PM
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"doc, what the hell is this!?!??!?!?"
LMAO Justin
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Old Oct 5, 2011 | 02:23 PM
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Originally Posted by surfer rick
LMAO Ravi. I call it dropping the "D-Bomb." It was cool the first couple years but by the time I was in residency when chicks asked what I did for living I would tell them I was a DJ. Mostly because I was sick of chicks zipping down their dresses and showing me their moles. Trust me, after 1 AM it's not that cool anymore.


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Old Oct 5, 2011 | 08:56 PM
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alot of girls i know would rather date the dude whos working already.

Here I am at school trying to get myself a good education and become a dentist and I get blown off. Then my friend who works basically making nothing gets women because hes 'ballin'
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Old Oct 5, 2011 | 09:07 PM
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girls just want to have fun.
true statement.
show one a good time, and she'll tell her friends.



as long as you're thinking like this.....you wont get the girls.
be positive, stay happy, have fun.
when you're having fun and loving life, people will be attracted to you.
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Old Oct 5, 2011 | 10:48 PM
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Dude, there are people who are working and still can't find dates. Don't think like that. If girls are only going out with you because of your money, then they're not worth the time. If you want to get your dick wet, get a hooker, and you don't have to deal with her drama after her hours are up.
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Old Oct 5, 2011 | 10:51 PM
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yeah, im gona worry about this after tuesday. Ill get back to you all then haha
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Old Oct 6, 2011 | 08:52 AM
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Originally Posted by justnspace
girls just want to have fun.
true statement.
show one a good time, and she'll tell her friends.



as long as you're thinking like this.....you wont get the girls.
be positive, stay happy, have fun.
when you're having fun and loving life, people will be attracted to you.
troof
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Old Oct 6, 2011 | 09:04 AM
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i would say stogies advice on talking to everyone you see is great it will help you get comfortable at making conversation and keepin it going .

school is also a great place to pick up chicks i miss school lol
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Old Oct 16, 2011 | 09:44 PM
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So I got a girls number that works at this restaurant I always go to by my house. Shes pretty effin hot too. Today has been a great day haha not just because of that but it helped
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Old Oct 16, 2011 | 10:16 PM
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score!


Nao here are teh rulez:
Pictures of said girl are to be posted in 3 days time.
or you get teh ban.
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Old Oct 16, 2011 | 10:39 PM
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ahah first I either have to go out with her or find her on Facebook and I dont know her last name
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Old Oct 16, 2011 | 10:53 PM
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^kiddings.


oh and dont find her on fb. thats creepy.
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Old Oct 17, 2011 | 08:57 AM
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So how does one go about meeting someone they got their number from? Being a waiter previously, I've got numbers numerous times on receipts, but since I had a GF, I never used them. I could only imagine that this could end up terribly awkward and end up driving the girl away as phone conversations are generally much harder than in person. Actually, come to think of it, I have called a girl I got a number from, and it ended up terribly awkward and nothing came of it.

What would be good advice for the man in a rut?
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Old Oct 17, 2011 | 08:59 AM
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^calling is the absolute best way to go about it.
dont be a pussy and text.

Call. Keep it light and funny. establish rapport.
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Old Oct 17, 2011 | 09:43 AM
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3 days!?

I dunno, I think text is a fine way to start, because there's less pressure than there is in a phone conversation. Prolonged text conversations aren't good though, IMO.
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Old Oct 17, 2011 | 09:52 AM
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Originally Posted by Aman
3 days!?

I dunno, I think text is a fine way to start, because there's less pressure than there is in a phone conversation. Prolonged text conversations aren't good though, IMO.
she gets a million text a day.
grab your bawls and give her a cawl.

agreed on the prolonged text tho!
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Old Oct 17, 2011 | 02:29 PM
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she gets a million text a day.
grab your bawls and give her a cawl.

agreed on the prolonged text tho!
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Old Oct 17, 2011 | 02:34 PM
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Originally Posted by invisiblewar
alot of girls i know would rather date the dude whos working already.

Here I am at school trying to get myself a good education and become a dentist and I get blown off. Then my friend who works basically making nothing gets women because hes 'ballin'
I hope that you're not thinking that having a date and a shitty job is better than working towards having a better future.

In 5 years all these dudes will be working dead end jobs while you are a dentist. Point is....sacrifice now for future gains.
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Old Oct 17, 2011 | 02:34 PM
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Originally Posted by justnspace



"doc, what the hell is this!?!??!?!?"
Yep, what thread did I open???
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Old Oct 17, 2011 | 02:38 PM
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Originally Posted by oo7spy
So how does one go about meeting someone they got their number from? Being a waiter previously, I've got numbers numerous times on receipts, but since I had a GF, I never used them. I could only imagine that this could end up terribly awkward and end up driving the girl away as phone conversations are generally much harder than in person. Actually, come to think of it, I have called a girl I got a number from, and it ended up terribly awkward and nothing came of it.

What would be good advice for the man in a rut?
It's kinda like cold-calling in sales. It's hit or miss. I've gotten a few numbers over the years and maybe 30% of them materialized into at least a date. 1 turned into a relationship.
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Old Oct 17, 2011 | 02:41 PM
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Why is it that the girl you really want to date doesn't know you're alive, but that other short, freaky-lookin' girl with the big tits, that your buddy slept with, wants to go home with you?
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Old Oct 17, 2011 | 02:46 PM
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Why is it that the girl you really want to date doesn't know you're alive, but that other short, freaky-lookin' girl with the big tits, that your buddy slept with, wants to go home with you?
Because short freaky-lookin girls with big tits need lovin too.
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Old Oct 17, 2011 | 02:48 PM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
In 5 years all these dudes will be working dead end jobs while you are a dentist. Point is....sacrifice now for future gains.
This. Dental hygienists are all hot and freaky, from what I've heard.
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Old Oct 17, 2011 | 02:54 PM
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This. Dental hygienists are all hot and freaky, from what I've heard.
The hot part is correct. Not sure about the freaky part.
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Old Oct 17, 2011 | 03:17 PM
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^ I guess you haven't seen Horrible Bosses.
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Old Oct 17, 2011 | 09:40 PM
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So I would of called her yesterday but she was at work so I texted her, told her to let me know when she got off. Nothing happened. I called her today and she didnt pick up so I left a voicemail. 20 minutes later I get a private number calling me,
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Old Oct 17, 2011 | 10:10 PM
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wait nevermind she called me...
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Old Oct 17, 2011 | 10:44 PM
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In 5 years all these dudes will be working dead end jobs while you are a dentist. Point is....sacrifice now for future gains.
Those dead end jobs don't lead to suicide as frequently as dentistry does.
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Old Oct 18, 2011 | 03:50 AM
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I know its kinda early, but update?

I have to say good job man. You gotta keep your head up and try. "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take"
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Old Oct 18, 2011 | 06:29 AM
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Those dead end jobs don't lead to suicide as frequently as dentistry does.
you do realize that this fact is so old it doesnt hold weight anymore...
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Old Oct 18, 2011 | 09:12 AM
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Originally Posted by oo7spy
Those dead end jobs don't lead to suicide as frequently as dentistry does.
Some people just can't deal with stress. It happens in every job. I'd rather be a dentist than have a dead end job. For that matter I'd rather do anything than have a dead end job.
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