you need to lay down the law. my ex-bf did this, and i should have said more earlier, but things just escalated and i broke up with someone i loved. i couldn't give him the amount of attention he needed. when we were apart on holidays, summer vacation or something, he'd call too much. i freaked.

i say: make sure she knows you don't like constant contact. tell her you are feeling a bit smothered and ask her to keep the phone calls to a minimum, esp. when you are at work. maybe you should hang out with her more and talk in person, rather than resort to using the phone.

 

whooooops.. i missed the whole 2nd page... if this chick is your EX, tell her to STFU!

and why are you talking with your ex if you have a current gf too? do they know about each other?

 

Yeah, that's kinda wierd. Doesn't your current gf wonder why you are always busy talking with your ex? Shouldn't you spend more time with her?

Wow, she is one tolerant woman!

 

YEH, they do know about each other and im not talking to her, shes talking to me... (that probably didn't make sense, but u get what im trying to say. right?) she is the one that keeps on calling me. as if we're still together. im gonna tell her how i feel about us having long conversations. again. but ill try not to hurt her feelings... she is kinda sensitive.

 

The bish needs to be shot in the face so her jaw will be wired shut, but she would probably call and talk like Helen Keller all day....but when she screams it won't sound like much.

 

i guess u can say that. however she understands where am coming from and fortunately she is also trying to help me.