gr8ness97

iTrader: (5)

So I dont have plans for thanksgiving and my ex and her family invites me up there for T-Day. I dont know how awkward it would be given the fact that she has a boyfriend (who btw, wont be there the whole weekend if I decide to come.) We broke up in August because of the distance and she still comes back and tells me how she cares still and we both know had it not been for distance it prob would be different. I kinda want to go just for the fireworks, but I'm a lil skeptical. It doesnt help that the tix cost a nice chunk of change.

Basically if I dont do this, sounds like its back to TX for me . My sister bailed out on me and decided to go with her bf for the holiday, so it kinda left me out of any plans with anyone.


Help me out AZ...

miner

Enjoy Tgiving alone - easier to make yourself happy vs making someone else happy.

Whiskers

She wan't you to stuff her turkey...

EuRTSX

Wow Whiskers :P

gr8ness97

iTrader: (5)

at the whiskers option

Whiskers

It would have been funnier if I could spell in the morning...

SG81

iTrader: (1)

Go!

RaviNJCLs

iTrader: (4)

You're nuts if you go. She has a bf. I would say just enjoy it on your own. I have a couple times. It's not that bad.

JediMindTricks

don't go.

1. you have to pay for a ticket?
2. her new boyfriend will be there.
3. she has a new boyfriend already even though you just broke up in august and she says that things would be different had you stayed?
4. i'm with miner. it's easier to make yourself happy.
5. stay home, watch some football, go to boston market if you want thanksgiving food.

SG81

iTrader: (1)

he said the bf won't be there

JediMindTricks

he said the bf won't be there the whole weekend if he comes.

i think the ex-gf wants a 3 way.

SG81

iTrader: (1)

and if you do go, would she tell him?

sasha

What's the point?.. Not only does she have a new bf, you'll have to shell out some dough just to spend the Thanksgiving with her and her family. Use the money on something else.

gr8ness97

iTrader: (5)

He wouldnt be there at all if I came...



Looks like im steering towards not going..



btw, she still has her v-card so thats out of the question...

SG81

iTrader: (1)

just go and maintain your friendship

JediMindTricks

even if he's not coming, you still have to pay for a ticket and deal with the thanksgiving airport traffic.

i'd at least consider going if you only had to drive across town.

Mike 350Z

Don't you have parents to hang out with? or is that not a possibility?

Just chill at home and watch football all day, that's what I would do.

SG81

iTrader: (1)

actually, that's what i'd do...watch football

JediMindTricks

myron

iTrader: (4)

yea man not worth it at all. Spending money, V-card, BF, airport insanity. Fuck it man, drink some beer and chill

darksom1

...Let me get this right...

You want to spend MONEY on an airline ticket so that you can go spend Thanksgiving with an EX, that has a new man, and HE won't even be there because he has other plans - because you are afraid of being lonely?????

Doesn't sound like T-day is your only day of loneliness...and thus not your main problem...get a life of your own...don't be a "stunt double"...they call them "ex" for a reason...

gr8ness97

iTrader: (5)

^the reasoning has come out... for me

JerZDevil

iTrader: (1)

Hell no. It might be too awkward. I'd rather stay home and chill.

FastAcura

Whiskers, why on earth haven't they made you a mod in D&R yet???

incredulous1

you should arrive at her house half naked and wasted.

CiViCKiDD

don't go. watch turkey pr0n instead.

blakura

I agree with Darksom, get a "friend" to hang out with not just for holidays, but also for anyday. If you're not ready for another relationship, a "friend" would be perfect (no committment, but someone to spend time with), until she or you develop feelings, which might be okay too if you both end up wanting a relationship...JMO

gr8ness97

iTrader: (5)

All the "friends" I meet tend to want to rush into a relationship, while I dont (especially with the travel demands that I have right now with my job)

I laughed today when she mentioned that I was thinking about coming for dinner to her bf. She claimed he was ok with it just for dinner, but the moment she told him I would be staying with her overnight if I came, he hit the roof.

I cant believe she thought that he wouldnt care if an ex came to spend the night...

JS + XES

iTrader: (1)

dude your ex is weird

darksom1

If her ass was local, you should go over there, play caught up in the moment, fuck her, make with the tupperware, and bounce!! Leave her bewildered looking slutty ass right there! When you have a slut, treat her like a slut! Don't treat her ass like a queen...she'll get confused...

RMATIC09

if i had a GF who invited her EX over for the weekend while i was out of town, shed be dumped.

Whiskers

Only if you knew about it

gr8ness97

iTrader: (5)

Once I looked at tix back to home and round trip on light travel days, i decided to go since the cost was negligable considering I'll get reimbursed for alternate travel anyways.

Thats how I felt. However, I feel like some fireworks this weekend.

darksom1

I'm not flying anywhere to go get some pussy! That's out!

But hey, if that is the only way for you to get laid...Then go get you some...gobble gobble my dude!

JS + XES

iTrader: (1)

what if he flies there but doesn't get laid at all...

that'll suck.



well, happy thanksgiving anyway?

darksom1

Which is exactly what I think will happen...hahahahaha! I hope not, but I think the chick will get a guilt trip sometime before dinner and not go thru with it all. She already sounds like the type because she told her bf...

JediMindTricks

wait, so you are going?

:shakehead

JS + XES

iTrader: (1)

seriously..

DUDE, DON'T GO!

Tomy

iTrader: (2)

stay at home and chill

GrandeInter10

fuckin dark.