so what happens when you feel objectified?

hate it? love it? what do you feel?

 

Elaborate please. Sexually? On the street?

 

What girls will say: "no" or "rarely"

What girls really think: "ATtention?! OMGhi2u!!!1`~!"

standard exceptions apply of course.

 

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If Scott objectified me, I'd be thrilled. If a stranger were to do it, I'd be fucking pissed. If it were a friend, he'd get a punch in the jaw. If it were someone at work, he'd be hearing from my lawyer. Pronto.

 

ditto. except i'd rather it be my own boyfriend than yours

it's probably the worst from stranger b/c it means that they have no intention of getting to know you. and it's exciting from a guy that you've been with for a while and are intimate with on nonsexual levels. it'd be so cool if my [future] husband were to say "my wife has the best ass on the planet" or "god, she's so fucking good in bed" .. lol... but it's kind of arousing b/c i know he would know me so well on intellectual and emotional levels also, so the physical objectification wouldn't bother me.

 

I agree with supermegaglossy....but my smileys aren't working!

 

Elaborate with experiences, or how you feel when certain guys do certain subtle things that have absolutely nothing to do with you as a person.

One thing I want to get out of this is what it feels like for some of you when guys have these preconceived notions of what you're like just based off your looks. If that's not objectification, I don't know what is.

I'm assuming that when a guy has these feelings towards you that when he approaches you, he automatically creates some sort of character, or front, to produce the sort of things or emotions that he wants. It might lead to manipulation, or some other bullshit.

 

so, with strangers on the street

 

x 1,150,000,000,009

 

is this open to guys too?

women aren't the only ones that are objectified

 

^ yea but is it really a problem if guys are objectified?

 

why wouldn't it be?

we have feelings too...society just trains us not to show other people

 

yeah but it's kinda like rape, you just can't do it to us without us liking it.

 

Be careful. They never clarified who's doing the objectifying...

 

suck it up? i mean, being used for sex... what a tragedy...

 

What do you mean objectify?

I honestly could live without comments that some guys say to me and that feeling that they are undressing me with their eyes, but I take it in stride because at least they aren't touching me. As for guys who grab my butt and put their hands down my pants or rub up against me in clubs...I HATE IT and they will either get told to stop or slapped. Also, I don't like it when guys refer to me as "Bitch" or "Ho" or whatever else.