I had a dream last night that i was with my ex from over a year ago, i was in love with her, we went ou for 1 1/2 years, and all of a sudden i have strong feelings for her again, whys my mind playing tricks on me?

 

ummmm......
1) is she really hot?
2) do ya miss her
3) r u hungry for more this soon?

 

shes very cute
i guess i do miss her
wellive been out of a relationship for over a year now, and still cant see myself with anyone but her, ahhh fucking hoe,

 

SOunds like your horny

 

welcome to morning wood.

 

nah its not that you fools

 

I had a dream that I had a 360 spider in silver w/ the f1 transmission. I was throwing that bitch sideways around every turn. And man the sound of that v8



A) I'm in Love
B) I just wanted her for the night
C) i'm hopefull

 

well were you thinking about her before you went to sleep?

 

nah i wasnt, i never really think of her

 

With some of the recent events in your life you could be feeling like you need someone who you loved in your life.

You could give it another shot, why did you two seperate?

 

it was a trust issue, i was i college and i dont think she trusted me for shit, shit i wouldnt either, but she has a boy friend now that shes been with for at least 6 months, and i guess is happy

i guess your right, with all the shit thats been ahppening lately to me i just want someone that i loved, getting her back is not really an option, kinda been wanting to get into a relationship agian, but cant seem to find any girl i can see myself with

 

Tough situation you got going on. My only suggestion is to not force yourself to be in a relationship. You don't want to be stuck with someone that you aren't fully into.

 

been there.....time is the only thing that heals....

 

yea, how much time, geezz...i was over her, til this morning, thats why its wierd

 

trust me, ive been in the _exact_ same position...dreams are a mofo.. new pussy and time is all i can say...or at least i hope...

 

oh the pussy aint a problem, but its not the same, you know what i mean

 

i'm guessing anyone with "b1!/\/d3d" purposefully placed by themselves in their avatar has trouble obtaining "pussy"

 

no.

 

As soon as you find another girl that sweeps you off your feet, you will totally forget her

 

thnks man

 

I'm in the same boat as you. I've been kind of wanting a relationship too, but can't find anyone that I want to be with. Oddly enough, I'm looking for a personality attraction rather than physical attraction. There's alot of hot girls, just none with personalities I like. Just don't settle for someone because you feel lonely though.

 

oh i wont, thats the worst thing one could do, personality is a big thing, but the girl gotta be somewhat attractive, i mean cmon, lol

 

they're all ex's for a reason, don't think about her, just keep lookin for the next good one

 

I was kidding....

I hope it works out for you!

 

Don't worry, it's normal.... Why did you break up??

I have the same problem with my first love every once in a while. I'm in a perfectly good relationship right now, but every once in a while, something triggers a memory.... It's easy to remember all the good stuff, but I have to consciously remind myself of the bad stuff that went on.

Do this.....
Think of 3 good things about your relationship together, then think of 3 bad things.... If it takes you under 15 seconds to think of 3 bad things, then you have no business entertaining thoughts of a relationship with her. It's in our nature to remember the good things easily. It's nice to remember the good things, but it's not smart to remember only the good things.

 

yea your right, i can come up with 3 good things pretty quickly, but i can also come up with 3 bad things pretty quickly, but still our memories love the fuck with us

 

you should get her back easily if you try...now that you've lived the thug life.

 

oh shut up

 

ok, serious question...let me ask you this, how traumatic or "life-changing," if at all, has the recent events affected you? it may be that on some sub-conscious level, you began to miss certain things/people because you felt that your time could have easily ended.

 

It's normal. I found myself doing the same thing recently.

 

the only thing you can do is wack off over and over and over and over while thinking of her and then you will be tired of her!!! do it till it hurts!!!













hahah. j/k.. man, really, all it is, is time. i wish i could follow my own advice. since i still talk to my ex on a daily basis. But cant seem to let go..

 

i dunno either, i have had dreams of real old g/f's why

 

maybe its that time of the year?

 

It can happen and if enough time has passed and you are a forgiving person and the other person is making an effort to change the behavior that caused the problems to begin with. Sometimes, time is exactly what you need. God has a way of guiding us through the same lessons until we have learned them, and then presenting us with opportunities to use what we have learned. Those opportunities can be with people of our past. No healing can take place without God extending his grace to you to give to the other person. Good luck to you.

 

wow thank you for such a thought out post i really get what your saying, its just that i think she moved on, and doesnt care about the past, she has a new bf n whatever, so if she isnt willing to look at the past i am not going to either, guess its life

 

Don't pine too much over the past. Don't forget there was a reason for the breakup in the first place. What makes you think those problems would have been resolved. Besides it looks like she moved on. The best thing to do is go out on some real dates.

 

oh i know the dates and everything is cool, but its something in the back of my head went away tho, lately ive been feeling like a million bucks shes no where even near my level anymore, and i think we both know that tell you the truth if she came to me and was like im sorry for everything i ever did and :blah: i would give her a cuckle and walk the other way

 

That's how you should feel. I'm guessin she missed out on a great guy. There are other girls that would be lucky to have you.

 

thanks man i always keep my head up

 

You're welcome. Always remember....never say never. There may be people in between, but if it is meant to be, it will.