Originally Posted by F900

Originally Posted by Brandi

You better be sharing that!

Originally Posted by F900

Come on Brandi, you know I will share anything with you

Originally Posted by F900

Come on Brandi, you know I will share anything with you

Originally Posted by youngTL

I'll contribute some of my chest hair. I hear it makes good wigs.

Originally Posted by whynot

BTW, God called me yesterday and he asked me to tell you to stop referring to him in all of your posts, he's quite bothered by this. He also said you should peel that sticker "What would Jesus do?" off your bumper at your earliest convenience.

Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs

And what the hell is going on in the previous 6 posts?

Originally Posted by whynot

No problem
BTW, God called me yesterday and he asked me to tell you to stop referring to him in all of your posts, he's quite bothered by this. He also said you should peel that sticker "What would Jesus do?" off your bumper at your earliest convenience.

Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs

And what the hell is going on in the previous 6 posts?

Originally Posted by SakiGT

Orange text = Drunken rambling

Originally Posted by moeronn

Did you mean to put your post in red?

Originally Posted by SakiGT

Orange text = Drunken rambling

Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs

Not what I meant. I was referring to the between Brandi and F900, with an invitation of chest hair donation by youngTL.

Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs

Not what I meant. I was referring to the between Brandi and F900, with an invitation of chest hair donation by youngTL.

Originally Posted by treyster

that is a little strange

Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs

A little strange? 5 Circus midgets walking down the street is a LITTLE strange. Someone donating chest hair for any reason is fucking weird.

Although it was funny....

Originally Posted by Brandi

That is correct! LOL!
What the hell would Robert do with chest hair anyway??

Originally Posted by youngTL

I meant it for you. You can put it on your face as a disguise so you don't get leghumped.

By the way, I was only kidding. Learn how to laugh people.

Originally Posted by youngTL

I meant it for you. You can put it on your face as a disguise so you don't get leghumped.

By the way, I was only kidding. Learn how to laugh people.

Originally Posted by whynot

I'm in exactly the same situation as you and feel the same way. I cannot force myself to settle for someone or lower my standards...
It's been a long time since me and her went our seperate ways but to this day I haven't met anyone who would even come close to making me feel the way she did....

Originally Posted by NewAgePirate

I think its better to have loved. And I know how bad that shit can hurt too. The only girl I've loved and who supposedly loved me and talked about how she wanted to marry me and who I shared everything with dumped me last year right after she got back in town from her summer job, before she even made it home mind you, and then was dating a guy she had worked with two days later (umm....so yeah). This girl, who I had thought was the sweetest person in the world then went on to purposefully try to tear me apart as one day not long after the breakup she called me to tell me that she thought I had no personality, no sense of humor, that nobody liked me ect. The hardest part wasn't losing someone I loved more than anything, it was the total mindfuck of suddenly finding out the person you were in love with was a lot different than you thought and the shock that they would intentionally try to knife you as deep as they could. The point of saying all that is that although I was completely fucked up for a long time I have since dated other girls and I'm doing alright really. Single and looking forward to the future fully able to love again. And hey, I learned a lot.

This is one of my favorite quotes and I think its appropriate:

It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.

Originally Posted by GBockers

When I was 23 I fell head over heels in love (how do I know?, because more than 20 years later I still love her). We had a great time while it lasted, but because of a myriad of things (immaturity, race, too many differences, nosy friends...) she dumped me (a girlfriend actually did the dumping). We met again about 5 years after her friend told me to stop calling; she apologized for a lot of things and asked if I'd be willing to try again. As painful as it was to say, no thank you, it would've probably killed me to go through "losing" her again.

Present day, I'm married to a great woman and have two glorious little angels. And my feelings for my wife admittedly are different than they were/are for "Girl1"; but I love my wife nonetheless. Strangely enough I think of "Girl1" frequently, I hope she's happy and healthy. But I go home to someone who loves me probably like I did/do "Girl1". I appreciate my wife, but love her differently. How whacked is that?

Suffice it to say, "Girl1" and I would've probably gotten divorced because of our differences and all of the outside influences gumming the works. But love truly is blind because, I was so hurt by our breakup that I cried for 3 weeks and ended up losing my job. But I still love her. And the point is that I learned from the pain, one thing I learned is that I can be happy in different ways, and love differently. To explain "love differently", I used to think of "Girl1" 24X7, it was obsessive/crazy love. I worry about my wife, hug her, kiss her, but I don't obsess over her.

Originally Posted by whynot

Interesting...
But, if you're now married to girl#2 and have 2 kids with her yet you say you still love girl#1 - the way I see it, if you actually fell in love with your wife when you met her, wouldn't that make you forget all about girl#1? I may be wrong here but it seems like you settled for your wife only because she seemed to be "the next best thing" compared to girl#1??