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Old Nov 5, 2004 | 04:38 PM
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partial Update...Alright so I called her

So I just called her and was like hey what's going? What are you up to tonight?

She says she is working from 5-close but not sure afterwards.

I said she should come to this Piano Bar down in Tempe.

And she said yeah that sounds cool, I don't know if they will accept my fake over there, who is all going?

I told her just a few buddies and I can always look at your fake and see if it looks like you, and if not maybe we can go elsewhere.

She said cool, I'll give you a call when I get off work.

I guess that ain't too bad. now the question is, should I clean my place up nice and pretty incase she wants to come back (way way to wishful thinking)
and also should I worry that she wanted to know who was going. or does it not matter.

I really hope I don't find out she has a BF, that would just suck...you would think she would have said something however.
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Old Nov 5, 2004 | 04:42 PM
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who cares.. hes not your boy or an acl member... if she goes out with other guys while she has a bf then that tells you something about her.
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Old Nov 5, 2004 | 04:44 PM
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Originally Posted by kevin79925
who cares.. hes not your boy or an acl member... if she goes out with other guys while she has a bf then that tells you something about her.

no I meant it would suck if she shows up (since apparently she thinks this is just a bunch of people hanging out) with a guy, or mentions it sometime in the night.
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Old Nov 5, 2004 | 04:50 PM
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ya in that case that would suxor some major balls.
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Old Nov 5, 2004 | 04:53 PM
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Originally Posted by kevin79925
ya in that case that would suxor some major balls.
I figure just prepare for the worst, don't expect shit. and just see what happens.
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Old Nov 5, 2004 | 04:53 PM
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Hell yeah, clean up your place. Gotta be prepared. Just because she asked who's going, doesn't mean anything. I ask who's going where all the time. Sounds like she's into you. You will really know if she calls you back no matter if she's meeting up with you or not.
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Old Nov 5, 2004 | 05:10 PM
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Originally Posted by phipark
Hell yeah, clean up your place. Gotta be prepared. Just because she asked who's going, doesn't mean anything. I ask who's going where all the time. Sounds like she's into you. You will really know if she calls you back no matter if she's meeting up with you or not.
Why not be prepared just in case its all good?
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Old Nov 5, 2004 | 05:11 PM
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why do you care about this chick?

wtf
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Old Nov 5, 2004 | 05:17 PM
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Originally Posted by mantis23
why do you care about this chick?

wtf

I don't know...it's strange, I would never care at all under most circumstances.

I think it's just because not only is she so good looking, she plays tennis, and she's hilarious. She is always making jokes and always smiling. It is rare for me to find a girl I actually want to date...I mean there might have been 3 or 4 of them in my life. she just seems like a girl I would want to be with.
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Old Nov 5, 2004 | 05:24 PM
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ehh, I hate it when I run into girls like that.

I start acting stupid and then fuck it all up.
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Old Nov 5, 2004 | 05:25 PM
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Originally Posted by mantis23
ehh, I hate it when I run into girls like that.

I start acting stupid and then fuck it all up.
hahaha... I know, I'm afraid of that.
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Old Nov 5, 2004 | 05:35 PM
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clean up your place and leave strategicaly placed condoms in certain places where you dont have to get up and go looking for one.
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Old Nov 5, 2004 | 07:15 PM
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Originally Posted by phipark
Hell yeah, clean up your place. Gotta be prepared. Just because she asked who's going, doesn't mean anything. I ask who's going where all the time. Sounds like she's into you. You will really know if she calls you back no matter if she's meeting up with you or not.
definitely clean up!! this is one of those situations where you have absolutely no idea what's gonna happen... which of course could be good or bad... but prepare for good
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Old Nov 5, 2004 | 07:51 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
no I meant it would suck if she shows up (since apparently she thinks this is just a bunch of people hanging out) with a guy, or mentions it sometime in the night.
I don't think that she would have given you her number if she had a BF. If she did have a BF she would have already menationed something about him.
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Old Nov 5, 2004 | 07:52 PM
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Originally Posted by kevin79925
who cares.. hes not your boy or an acl member...


i like how you put a-cl member
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Old Nov 5, 2004 | 11:07 PM
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so what happened mang, take her to the place??
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Old Nov 5, 2004 | 11:58 PM
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so what happened mang, take her to the place??
still early out there, but i doubt he hits the skinssssss tonight. Next week.... ill put 20$ up
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Old Nov 6, 2004 | 08:06 AM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
I don't know...it's strange, I would never care at all under most circumstances.

I think it's just because not only is she so good looking, she plays tennis, and she's hilarious. She is always making jokes and always smiling. It is rare for me to find a girl I actually want to date...I mean there might have been 3 or 4 of them in my life. she just seems like a girl I would want to be with.
She plays tennis? I can tell you how to beat her easily, if you want to beat her that is. Did she call yet? Don't call her up and ask her to hang unless she calls you, it's her turn now.
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Old Nov 6, 2004 | 08:22 AM
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update pga please. and i wanna see if beet did his job!!! did he go out with you guys??
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Old Nov 6, 2004 | 10:21 AM
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Originally Posted by evilone
update pga please. and i wanna see if beet did his job!!! did he go out with you guys??

well I suppose not a total bad thing...I spoke to her just after 1am and she said she just got off work and was not going to change and go out for the night (bars close at 2am here)
She said she'll call me sometime today to see what's going on. I mean what can I say to that, I guess I can't be upset. I was just like "Oh yeah I understand, that makes sense, i'll talk to you tomorrow then."

Oh and I met up with matt about 1:15am down in Tempe, and we have some pretty funny pictures of one of his friends. I'm guessing once he wakes up and gets on here today he will post them.

Also I got pulled over last night as I was heading from scottsdale abrs to Tempe bars. The cop pulled me over because I was fooling with my CD player and apparently I crossed the dotted lane lines. I knew once I saw him what he probably thought and when he came to the window I was like "I know what I did, I can assure you I haven't been drinking tonight, I was just messing with the CD player" He was actually pretty cool about it, he just went back to his car and ran my ins and license to check it. Then he came and said I can smell that you have been drinking (which is BS) but if you say you haven't then just take this PBT and you can be on your way. I took the PBT test and blew .038 He said "well you lied to me, but obviously you haven't had enough to effect your driving, just be careful out there and don't drink anymore tonight"


EDIT: and to start the night off on the right foot. At the first bar we went to this girl spills a full glass of white wine on me shoulders and left side of my shirt. Then she tries to blame it on me. If that isn't enough about 15 minutes later her genius BF comes to sit next to me like he's going to take care of the situation. the whole time I hear them talking about how I should buy her another drink. I finally turned to him and said "Listen man, your stupid girlfriend got me soaking wet, there are 6 of us here. You are fighting a losing battle. You didn't see it and you don't know what is going on...so just shut your mouth and go back to dancing with your GF."
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Old Nov 6, 2004 | 10:49 AM
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Well, at least she called you to tell you that she wasn't coming. Now if she calls you today, you are in.

I hate f'ing bitches like that. It's never their fault.
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Old Nov 6, 2004 | 11:43 AM
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damm pga u onwed that bitch ahhahaah. did she spill the drink on u befor or after u got pulled over
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Old Nov 6, 2004 | 12:00 PM
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damm pga u onwed that bitch ahhahaah. did she spill the drink on u befor or after u got pulled over

before.
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Old Nov 6, 2004 | 12:02 PM
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before.
no wonder why the cop was like u smell like u been drinking!!! and i told beet to try to steal that chick from u. he was my inside guy.bwhahahahaha
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Old Nov 6, 2004 | 12:06 PM
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no wonder why the cop was like u smell like u been drinking!!! and i told beet to try to steal that chick from u. he was my inside guy.bwhahahahaha

jerkoff.

ahh the cops in AZ always say that...what did he think I took a fucking bath in white wine. I couldn't smell it anymore.
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Old Nov 6, 2004 | 06:42 PM
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whats the legal limit, .08??
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Old Nov 6, 2004 | 07:02 PM
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so did she call you today.
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Old Nov 6, 2004 | 07:08 PM
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.08 and yes (well texted)
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Old Nov 6, 2004 | 08:12 PM
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clean up your place and leave strategicaly placed condoms in certain places where you dont have to get up and go looking for one.

lol good advice!
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Old Nov 7, 2004 | 06:46 AM
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clean your place up! it makes a huge impression.

my fiance's place was horrifically dirty when i met him. I was disgusted. me and his friend went to go get something to eat, and when i came back the place was spotless.

i was impressed he could clean it up so well in a matter of 30 minutes.

hes never done it again
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Old Nov 7, 2004 | 09:15 AM
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Did you call her or did she call you during the 1 AM scenario?
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Old Nov 9, 2004 | 10:33 AM
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Late in the game but... Next time she asks who is going, just say "we are". If you are out in a group that's when you bring home the random snatch, everytime i take a girl out with a group i get blasted as usual and end up taking home her friend, or some other chick or something, trust me go it alone if you like her at all.
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Old Nov 10, 2004 | 11:01 AM
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Who the hell drinks white wine at a college bar?
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Old Nov 10, 2004 | 11:23 AM
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Originally Posted by mc_yanzo
Who the hell drinks white wine at a college bar?
snobby bitches
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Old Nov 10, 2004 | 04:49 PM
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snobby bitches
hey! i like wine...
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Old Nov 10, 2004 | 05:42 PM
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
hey! i like wine...
yes as do I, but to be drinking white wine at a college bar is

then again I drink scotch at a college bar, so I am just as

Oh yeah, I think I struck out with this girl...not calling it yet
I'm giving it the Green: Too close to call.

But it's more towards the no-go side
We are still waiting for some votes from this upcoming weekend.
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Old Nov 10, 2004 | 09:22 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
yes as do I, but to be drinking white wine at a college bar is

then again I drink scotch at a college bar, so I am just as

Oh yeah, I think I struck out with this girl...not calling it yet
I'm giving it the Green: Too close to call.

But it's more towards the no-go side
We are still waiting for some votes from this upcoming weekend.
Who was the one who called at 1 AM? This information is crucial for a fair analysis.
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Old Nov 10, 2004 | 09:26 PM
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Who was the one who called at 1 AM? This information is crucial for a fair analysis.

she called.
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Old Nov 10, 2004 | 09:33 PM
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Originally Posted by pgatour1
she called.
If she called then it's a good sign because some girls are so foul, they'll leave you hanging or cancel on you when you call. Give her another chance and see if she hangs out.
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Old Nov 10, 2004 | 09:43 PM
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well I am not calling her again...so far it's 2 phone calls from me and 1 from her (Texts don't count)

If she wants to see me this weekend she'll have to call.
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