Similar to an earlier thread.

Have you ever turned down a girl that was in a relationship with someone else, but wanna get some from you? Would you let them cheat on their bf/gf with you?

Two similar incident has happpened to me and they're both named Michelle

 

I don't know what I would do. If I was single I would probably just say her relationship was doomed if she was thinking about sleeping with me and that I would just be doing him a favor.

But, I would be torn because I know that if my girl was doing that I would want to know so that I could dump her as soon as possible.

Again, if I was single. So, it depends on what relationship I have with her and her boyfriend(s). If I was good friends with the guy or respected him I wouldn't do it. I don't think it's cool. But if she was a girl I just met and he was someone I wouldn't ever know then I wouldn't care and she's just a slut anyway.

I'm torn, but every situation is different.

 

If I was single I'd remember men are the gas woman are the brakes. If I was in a relationship and had no reason to look elsewhere(I wouldn't be in a relationship if I did) then I wouldn't even think about it. This is all assuming I don't know the BF, if he was a friend then hell no, but I'd give him a heads up that she's looking.

Seriously if she is looking then the current BF isn't doing something right, happy woman don't wander.

 

No it sucks. What comes around goes around.

and in my case both had girlfriends, both named david

 

There's something with people of the same names huh?

From my view, I think the person that seems to be cheating is not dating material. So I wouldn't bother having feelings for the person, but sometimes it's hard. There's this thought of mine that seems to be true, "Easy come, easy go" If they were easy to get, they're just as easily to leave and find someone else.

 

I'm going to have to disagree with this part.

 

I've been used by an ex to cheat on his then-current gf, although i didn't know it at the time. It sucked.

 

I don't cheat or participate in cheating.

 

no way, not worth it. There's a lot of drama that could ensue after sleeping with someone whose already taken.

 

:ibsasha:

 

Details...

 

Just ensure that you can beat down the other person before you decide to his girl. And I would never consider getting into a relationship with the person. It would just be sex and that's it. How I long for my Six Flags days.

 

How much alcohol is involved in this situation?

Seriously though, I have no idea. I would like to say that I would not, but if I were single and the relationship was doomed, maybe I would.

 

If I didn't know the guy she was with; knew him but didn't like him; or could care less either way about him, I would. She's prime for being a NSA f#@k buddy.


Oh, and no I wouldn't if I knew and respected the guy. I'd let him know his girl was being scandalous though.

 

Im a sucker for a cute face. I have been cheeted on and have been the cheeter. Being the cheeter hurts a lot less.

 

Just make sure to wrap it up....

It depends on their relationship. obviously i wouldn't do that to a friend, but since i thought their "relationship" was worthless i didn't have an issue (they "broke up" a week later w/o him even knowing about me). OTOH, even if i did think they had a good relationship, i'd probably still do it anyway because if you turn her down, she'll just find someone else, so get yours nga!!!!

But never backstab your boy!!

 

You mean someone actually cheated on someone else with you?

 

Yes and yes. I had a girl cheat on her bf with me and I loved every moment. Also, my ex cheated on her bf with me after we broke up. I just figure it sucks to be her bf.

 

remember the golden rule.... and what comes around, goes around.....



ahhhh, and lastly "whatever happens, happens..."

 

I've been approached by a friend of mine who's MARRIED! I turned him down because I knew his wife and would never do anything to compromise their marriage.

Few months later he approached me again and asked if I changed my mind


Never done it, still won't do it - with him or any man who's in a relationship. Go ask someone else.

 

I cheated on my BF with his Best friend. Not such a nice thing to do but, he was the better of the two so I stayed with him. He also had a babys leg hanging between his legs. HUGE

 

Wow...you're an inspiration.

 

Why am I not surprised?

 

 

Nothing should surprise you, Lord Helmet.




Cuz, you're Lord Helmet.

 

 

I'm one of those people that would actually turn a girl down if given that proposal. I'm not going to be a homewrecker. I'm very against this. Just think if you were that guy having your GF/wife/whatever cheating on you and the guy knew he was in that situation. How wrecked would you feel?

 

Oh yeah, lets consider the source too. TLuscious.

 

But, she's big and black. And some like 'em big and black. So, don't be quick to judge.

 

nah

 

But she creeps me out! And you know it's bad when someone creeps out a lord!

 

I wouldn't do it. I refuse to be a homewrecker. However I have found out after the fact that this one guy I was seeing had a wife and 2 kids! Another time, this other guy I was seeing failed to mention that he had a girlfriend that was pregnant

After both incidents I cut all ties with the guys. No more mexicans or latinos for me! I am now totally tramatized.

 

Very true. Off with her head...?

 

What a fucking slore....

 

If a girl wanders...its cuz you aint doing your job...its easy to blame someone else...but unless your girl was already a slut...like TLucious....then you have no one to blame but yourself.


Granted, you can be the best thing to ever happen to a girl...but if you dont click...then something might happen. That's life. Live with it and move on. It's not like your Minch or Miz and cant get no play.

 

 

Never. It's disrespectful of the relationship and even if it's already doomed to end, it's just plain wrong. He can get his pussy from someone else.

 

Not everyone can end a relationship even when its already over...sometimes they need a little help....

 

something to think about:
who would actually have a relationship with this other person you've just slept with but is cheating on her/his bf/gf?

 

Exactly.