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Old Feb 12, 2005 | 07:27 PM
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The one thing....

What is the one thing that will make it impossible for you to be with a girl. Is it that she smokes, has a kid, is dumb as a rock, or believes in witch craft. These are my no no's
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Old Feb 12, 2005 | 07:46 PM
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Me being a girl! Hehehe...
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Old Feb 12, 2005 | 07:48 PM
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Has a kid, dumb, drama queen, does not want a relationship, act elusive in any way about hanging out with other guys, if we are involved., or if she acts immature.

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Old Feb 12, 2005 | 07:55 PM
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unattractive
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Old Feb 12, 2005 | 08:08 PM
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Has a kid or husband, smokes and plays games.
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Old Feb 12, 2005 | 08:19 PM
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Originally Posted by SG81
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I hate to say it but if there was truly one thing first and foremost beyond anything else....that has to be it.

Maybe someday I will have to deal with a kid; excess drama; smoking, drug addiction etc. Who knows But i could never deal with a girl I don't find attractive.
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Old Feb 12, 2005 | 09:03 PM
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Originally Posted by SG81
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im gunna have to agree with that as well.

smoker, drama queen, and liars are my no-nos
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Old Feb 12, 2005 | 09:18 PM
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I thought unattractiveness was a given.
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Old Feb 12, 2005 | 09:48 PM
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Penis or Chest Hair. I can deal with the facial hair, but the chest hair gets to me. And penis, well,
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Old Feb 12, 2005 | 10:38 PM
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as for me (a girl) I won't date a guy that says he wants one type of relationship and then changes his mind every third day...what the hell is that about??
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Old Feb 12, 2005 | 11:07 PM
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Intelligence. I can take just about anything, except someone who is stupid and can't carry on an intelligent conversation.
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Old Feb 12, 2005 | 11:19 PM
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Originally Posted by DarkSithGirl
as for me (a girl) I won't date a guy that says he wants one type of relationship and then changes his mind every third day...what the hell is that about??
Well, that means he wants his girl to alternate between pain-in-ass, submissive, and indifferent. Of course PMS cycles have more than three modes, but they could broadly be classified into those areas.
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Old Feb 12, 2005 | 11:20 PM
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Intelligence. I can take just about anything, except someone who is stupid and can't carry on an intelligent conversation.
Hear hear.
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Old Feb 12, 2005 | 11:58 PM
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dumb as a rock is what ended my last one.

could not take it. she was very attractive too.
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 12:14 AM
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In an initial look-over? Big noses Other than that, plain stupid girls (ditzy), Girls that think they are the greatest thing to happen since sliced bread, etc...I have dated girls that smoked in my past, but it's not really my preference.
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 01:27 AM
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Originally Posted by M TYPE X
Well, that means he wants his girl to alternate between pain-in-ass, submissive, and indifferent. Of course PMS cycles have more than three modes, but they could broadly be classified into those areas.
what the hell??
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 01:27 AM
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not all chics PMS...I don't.
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 01:30 AM
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Originally Posted by DarkSithGirl
what the hell??
don't sweat it. This isnt the first thread we've been like WTF from this dudes comments. Some strange noobs comming around these days.
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 01:33 AM
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I once saw a girl during a 2 week span and I regret not having the balls I have now, back then. This girl would cancel our dates without ever calling me and I'd waste my night having had plans that were broken by her. I'd call her and she'd give me a lame excuse like "I have to babysit tonight". The worst part of it would be that she wouldn't call to tell me ahead of time, but rather wait for my call to diss me. She'd give me an alternate day and say "try Wednesday" and like an idiot, I'd call on Wednesday just to get another cancellation. When we finally went out, I confronted her on her inconsiderate behavior and she said "in my country (Colombia), the girls never call guys" and I told her that wasn't true as I knew many Colombian girls who had no problem calling me or other guys for that matter. I knew right then and there I had to drop her and my only regret was that I didn't do it sooner. I've kept my promise on not dealing with girls who are too proud and snobby to call guys as you may have read my recent threads about Solange. I've stuck to my guns since 1992 and I've never looked back. The girls I've had relationships with since then, however long or brief, have always been responsible enough to call on cancellations and call back when I left messages. To answer the thread question, the one thing would make it impossible for me to be with a girl is if she expects me to do all the calling. Communication is extremely important in a relationship and I won't enter into 1 if the girl thinks she's too good to call me.
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 01:36 AM
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I wouldnt go out with a girl who isnt in Rodney's avatar.
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 02:00 AM
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 06:45 AM
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Smoker, and dumb as a rock are my turn-offs.

Oh, gotta be good-lookin' too. It's a lil ignorant yes, but I can't ignore what I like.
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 06:55 AM
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 07:15 AM
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1- Married
2- Smokes or does any drug
3- Dumb
4- Dishonest

I actually wouldn't mind if the girl has a kid as long as she's financially and emotionally stable which applies whether she has a kid or not. In other words, the woman shouldn't need me, she just wants me.
The reason I see it this way is that my mom was divorced and my bro was already a few years old when she met my dad. If my dad would have said "fuck this it's too much baggage" I wouldn't be here.

And Rodney... I actually dated a Wiccan. She was fun. Nothing wrong with Paganism in my opinion.
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 08:33 AM
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Originally Posted by sasha
Me being a girl! Hehehe...
That doesn't disqualify ...
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 08:53 AM
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Drama..I hate drama.
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 09:26 AM
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Originally Posted by Rodney
What is the one thing that will make it impossible for you to be with a girl. Is it that she smokes, has a kid, is dumb as a rock, or believes in witch craft. These are my no no's
hit it right on the head with me also.
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 09:36 AM
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 02:12 PM
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my three requirements for a guy:
1 - intelligent
2 - good-looking
3 - good in bed

i couldn't be with a guy long term w/o those three.
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 02:35 PM
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i hate stupid people so that would be my number one
2 would be any female that admits to cheating
3. self centered
4 a so-ho
5 a fatty
6 hates cars and or crotch rockets
7 sucks in bed
8 kids
9 broke
10 no car or cant drive
11 etc.
12 etc.
the list goes on and on and on.
what can i say im picky
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 02:40 PM
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Originally Posted by 1killercls
Drama..I hate drama.
oh.... the drama!!!

teg, whos dealing with some drama he inadvertantly caused.
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 02:42 PM
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Originally Posted by evilone
i hate stupid people so that would be my number one
2 would be any female that admits to cheating
3. self centered
4 a so-ho
5 a fatty
6 hates cars and or crotch rockets
7 sucks in bed
8 kids
9 broke
10 no car or cant drive
11 etc.
12 etc.
the list goes on and on and on.
what can i say im picky
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 03:52 PM
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Originally Posted by GoDucksCLSPride
sorority ho
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 04:01 PM
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Well, my wife smoked like a chimney and had a kid from her first marriage and was married when we met. I found her stunning - just under 6'-0", great legs, natural blond, smart as a whip and wicked and somewhat bawdy sense of humor, in the bedroom and out. She stopped smoking (finally), her kid turns out to have been a great "surprise package" in my life - great kid, now a great young man. Age is not doing either her appearance or mine any great deal, but her brains and her wit live on.

Wit and brains survive everything, and if you're in it for the long haul..............
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 04:04 PM
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Originally Posted by evilone
sorority ho
lol got it. We just called em whores at my campus
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 04:30 PM
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 08:19 PM
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
my three requirements for a guy:
1 - intelligent
2 - good-looking
3 - good in bed

i couldn't be with a guy long term w/o those three.

Hi, I'm Arthur
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Old Feb 13, 2005 | 08:59 PM
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I dont date guys/waste my time on guys who play games, have another gf, lack personality/sense of humor.
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Old Feb 14, 2005 | 01:48 AM
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Married or liying about a relationship...can get you killed or broke or alittle of both...women are just like or worse than men nowadays...












BTW...I must be telling the truth b/c this is post 2000 for me
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Old Feb 14, 2005 | 02:15 AM
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Originally Posted by DarkSithCL
Married or liying about a relationship...can get you killed or broke or alittle of both...women are just like or worse than men nowadays...












BTW...I must be telling the truth b/c this is post 2000 for me
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is that personal experience?
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