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Old Aug 28, 2003 | 12:40 PM
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the "one"

I think I found "the one"....

I knew her when we were young... Her cousin was my best friend and we spent summers chillen... Her cousin died in a crash at 15 ( i was 16)... We havent spoken in 6 years... she came up this summer and we went to the hamptons and taht was that.. We are in LOVE and its so easy to foresee my future with her.. we have spent everyday together... slept most night together and its unbelievable.. the saying "you'll know your in love when it happens".. Damn LOVE is BEAUTIFUL!!!!!
after 23 years, an easy 8 years of dating and a whole mess of headaches... I FOUND MY ONE...


thanks I just wanted to share my joy!!!!
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Old Aug 28, 2003 | 01:01 PM
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Awesome!

Best wishes to you and yours!
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Old Aug 28, 2003 | 01:58 PM
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You're lucky man...
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Old Aug 28, 2003 | 02:01 PM
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Good. DON'T FOCK IT UP!
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Old Aug 28, 2003 | 02:27 PM
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nice work..lucky bastard
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Old Aug 28, 2003 | 03:03 PM
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at least your not like 18 sayin this
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Old Aug 28, 2003 | 03:51 PM
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NO NO NO!!!

Marry for MONEY!!!! LISTEN TO ME!!! MONEY MONEY MONEY!


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Old Aug 28, 2003 | 04:37 PM
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Originally posted by MikeS 18
NO NO NO!!!

Marry for MONEY!!!! LISTEN TO ME!!! MONEY MONEY MONEY!


Hahahaha...he'll realize that someday.
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Old Aug 28, 2003 | 07:54 PM
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Re: the "one"

Originally posted by Casper98CL
I think I found "the one"....

I knew her when we were young... Her cousin was my best friend and we spent summers chillen... Her cousin died in a crash at 15 ( i was 16)... We havent spoken in 6 years... she came up this summer and we went to the hamptons and taht was that.. We are in LOVE and its so easy to foresee my future with her.. we have spent everyday together... slept most night together and its unbelievable.. the saying "you'll know your in love when it happens".. Damn LOVE is BEAUTIFUL!!!!!
after 23 years, an easy 8 years of dating and a whole mess of headaches... I FOUND MY ONE...


thanks I just wanted to share my joy!!!!
awe...yay casper...i'm so happy for you boy!!!
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Old Aug 29, 2003 | 12:34 AM
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Good luck. Be prepared and remember that nothing in life last forever. One day you will die and so will she. I hope the best for you and her but just be careful. I gave up everything and got let down in April so be prepared to cope with change. I wish you the best and God Bless.
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Old Aug 29, 2003 | 04:54 AM
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Originally posted by MikeS 18
NO NO NO!!!

Marry for MONEY!!!! LISTEN TO ME!!! MONEY MONEY MONEY!
I'm still looking for my Sugar Mama

First I Look at the Purse
by the J. Geils Band
Some fellas look at the eyes
Some fellas look at the nose
Some fellas look at the size
Some fellas look at the clothes
I don't care if her eyes are red
I don't care if her nose is long
I don't care if she's underfed
I don't care if her clothes are worn
First I look at the purse!
Some fellas like the smiles they wear
Some fellas like the legs that's all
Some fellas like the style of their hair
Want their waist to be small.
I don't care if their legs are thin
I don't care if their teeth are big
I don't care if their hair's a wig
Why waste time lookin' at the waistline?
First I look at the purse!
A woman can be fat as can be,
kisses sweet as honey
But that don't mean a thing to me
If you ain't got no money
If the purse is fat....that's where it's at.
Some fellas like the way they walk
The way they swing and sway
Some fellas like the way they talk
Dig the things they say.
I don't care if they wobble like a...
or talk with a lisp
I still think I'm a good lover
if the dollar bills are crisp
First I look at the purse!
First I look at the purse!
First I look at the purse!
First I look at the purse!
I don't care if you got yourself a wrap
all I want is your pretty green cash
Bought me a suit, bought me a car
Want me to look like a hollywood star
Money, (Money!) I want money (Money!)
Baby, ain't no "why", baby (Money!)
I need money!
First I look at the purse!
First I look at the purse!
First I look at the purse!
First I look at the purse!
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Old Aug 29, 2003 | 05:09 AM
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well thanks guys...


marry for money!? one lesson in life I have already learned that although $$$ is nice... It will NEVER make you happy!!!

Nora (the one) is just unbelievable... she is not materialistic, 100% supportive of everything and has made me her #1... All her decisions are based oin my feellings and vice-versa... hell she moved from PA to NY to be closer to me!!! I have et her entire family and she has met mine.... we both were welcomed with open arms and seals of approval from those that count!!!

MikeS, BullDog and Mike Swing...
damn guys... I know some of you went through your hard times but why you sound like you have given up?! Not everything needs to have a bad ending.. and NOT everything needs to END.. my grandparents are close to 70 years married... Death is another ballgame... At least I know have the opportunity dying knowing what "true love" is... I think the movie "a city of angels" had the best quote from Nicolas Cage... but I wont say it cause I dont remeber it exactly!!!
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Old Aug 29, 2003 | 07:59 AM
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I haven't given up, I'm just cynical as a motherf*cker! I have a girlfriend right now. Glad you're happy, man!
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Old Aug 29, 2003 | 12:58 PM
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fuck that. i'll be happy with a chick with money. more i save spending shit on her dumb ass...

anyway, congrats dude. hold on to her and dont let her go.
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Old Aug 29, 2003 | 01:32 PM
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I don't think there is a "one" for me!!! OH YEAH....Brittney Spears!!!
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Old Aug 29, 2003 | 02:20 PM
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wait....... Is this Nora from Croton NY?????????????????????????
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Old Aug 29, 2003 | 04:57 PM
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congrats,

i aint never felt like that before...
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Old Aug 30, 2003 | 11:12 AM
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Originally posted by Casper98CL
well thanks guys...


marry for money!? one lesson in life I have already learned that although $$$ is nice... It will NEVER make you happy!!!

Nora (the one) is just unbelievable... she is not materialistic, 100% supportive of everything and has made me her #1... All her decisions are based oin my feellings and vice-versa... hell she moved from PA to NY to be closer to me!!! I have et her entire family and she has met mine.... we both were welcomed with open arms and seals of approval from those that count!!!

awe...damn that is awesome!!!
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Old Aug 30, 2003 | 11:24 AM
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well congratulations and best wishes with her
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Old Aug 30, 2003 | 01:36 PM
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thanks again...

that guy.. nah.. she moved here from PA to be with me.. not a westchester gal.. although she was actually born in white plains!!! where are you from in westchester? havve we met?
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Old Aug 31, 2003 | 02:38 PM
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Congratulations Man you sound like you have found the perfect girl.
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Old Sep 3, 2003 | 03:39 PM
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im from croton/peekskill/cortlandt area, there was this hot girl named nora from croton i knew... thought it may be her
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Old Sep 3, 2003 | 07:37 PM
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hope it works out me and my ex broke up about a month ago we wer together for 13 months first real relationship i haver been in i passed up alot for that girl BUT IM NOT CRYIN ILL FIND SOMEBODY SOMEDAY

MY ADVICE IS FOLLOW UR HEART AND ULL DO JUST FINE
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Old Sep 4, 2003 | 07:14 PM
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If you are 23, then do not even think of marriage yet!!! (been there, done that)
Unless she makes substantially more than you. Otherwise you are owned for life my friend.
If you are ready to have kids, then get married (and just note that she can quit her job at any time and stay home full time, so make sure this is what you want if it happens). Until then just live together. If she is really the one, then she will have no problems waiting for a few years. Just be open and discuss everything with her.
People really change alot between their 20's and 30's. As for your grandparents, they are from a different time where 'forever' meant 'forever' whether you are happy or not.

Otherwise, congratulations!!!!!
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Old Sep 5, 2003 | 12:38 PM
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I hear you fast.. but I disagree too.. I am very old school and think that early 20s are ideal for marriage.. I figure we will be married by 25... I dont believe in age being a factor... and I also sont believe that people change who they truly are... I think taht people only adjust themselves to what makes them satisfied at the time... I am certain that this is what I want.. and as far as "kids"... if it happened tomorrow, accident or not, I would be thrilled.. he/she would be a blessing... I have a great out look on marriage, kids, etc in life.. I fond joy in these things where as many men shy away from it in fear of losing themselves... I already know that it would be a strength for me...

and for the record.. I have felt like this (above stated about life) prior to my gf.. It has always been my outlook.. NOW I just have someone who shares these beliefs and that I love!!!
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Old Sep 5, 2003 | 11:33 PM
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i have to agree with what ur saying i believe there is someone out there for everybody ONE DAY I WILL FIND HER

GOOD LUCK MAN
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Old Sep 8, 2003 | 12:47 PM
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thanks!!!
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