I dont know what it is, but lately, i've been having some serious women issues / situations. Today im sitting with Brandon at the Ale House, eating dinner. In walks this girl Amanda. This girl was the absolute love of my life in h/s. We were always on really good terms, everything. Back in the day when i left for the army, i left her behind. I always thought that she would still be there when i got back. I heard from some friends that she started seeing some other guy, and kinda let her go. I still kept all our pictures, letters, everything. The last time i saw her was back in 2000. Well, she walked in, picking up food. I dont know what it is, but i was a deer in headlights. I couldnt believe it was her. It was one of those moments when you cant believe that something is really happening. To make a long story short, i didnt talk to her. For some reason, i couldnt gather the courage. Maybe her having a wedding ring had something to do with it :'( I watched her pick up her food, and go. I watched her get into her car and then leave. Right when her car was leaving, i got that sinking feeling, like i shoulda talked to her. Now i wish i did. I'm a fuckin idiot, i'm gonna be beating myself up over this for a while, i know it.

 

Should have got her license plate number so you can go see her....

 

damn man, that sucks you should find her number and give her a call?

 

Why bother? Shes married now, let it be. You are just asking to get hurt if you talked to her. IMO

 

i feel you katana... my best friend in hs was this girl i was really into since i was like 13. she was the kinda conservative asian girl type who avoided dating because she wanted to be serious with her studies, etc (im sure you know of those korean girls like that). we were really close for a long time, but i kinda got tired of waiting for her so i dated around with other girls. now flash forward, she's 20 and im 21, and she goes to school halfway across the country... and now i hear that she's rollin with a guy in med school and they're supposedly the perfect couple.

guess i waited a little too long

 

Even if a girl is taken, you always talk to her and be friendly.
If anything happens between her and her man, and she's looking for someone to get back at him, you want her to think of you.
That way, you're the rebound guy, get some great pussy and she ends it when she gets over the other guy. Since you don't stay attached because you know you're the rebound guy, it's a win-win.
Unless she says she broke up with him but she really didn't - then that's not cool cuz then you're just fucking another man's woman

 

the best advice that you can take man

 

I thought from the thread title that this was going to be a post re: oral sex...

 

Agreed.

 

Jesal is correct.

 

Yeah if she is already married not much you can do. Still might have been nice just to talk and see how everything is doing. I'm sure you'll run into her again.

 

me too

just grow some nuts next time! :P

 

 

what car does she drive?

 

Sadly.

 

i'm with teh jeasl, if shes married y waste your breath

 

i'm w/ this guy

 

I actually did this once... i went after a girl who was married. We went out and had our fun fr about 2 months. Guess married women get bored easily and look for change.

Either way they always go back home to their husband at the end. So why bother, unless you just want a fling.

 

He's so right..just think how many flings get peolpe killed or near ruined for life...the cost is just way, way too high....IMO....Do not beat yourself up...God puts some people in our lives for only a season...be days, weeks, or years...almost all of us have left someone we cared about behind....

 

^^^^^

 

Gixxster, you obviously haven't been stalked by one of your "flings" yet...I have.

 

if there was a wedding ring why bother? i mean, wouldnt that only hurt more to talk to her and then possibly develop feelings for her again and then realize that u cant go anywhere with those feelings because she is married? did she see u? if so and she didnt initiate any convo well then u did the right thing by not talking to her!