Pure Adrenaline

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So I met this girl while I was in Chicago this past summer, and I really liked her. So I've gone back to hung out with her (East Lansing, MI, about a 4-hour drive each way) and whatnot.

Then one day, she told me about her boyfriend. I was crushed, but whatever. I guess I didn't move fast enough. But she was happy, so I was happy for her. It just sucked that I couldn't be the one with her, but whatever.


Well, I was talking to her tonight, and I've known for a while that she was going to move to California for graduate school. Well, she decided last week to move this coming Friday. And just like that, she told me to skip classes and come down to visit her one last time, at least for a while.

I told her that I got this event in Iowa in May, and if she is still in California by then, I would drive out there to see her. But she just kept making me feel bad about how I wouldn't come down to see a friend leave and whatnot. She said she was joking, but I felt bad.

First off, my brother has my car, and my brother's car is going in the shop, most likely tomorrow or the following day because he crashed it. I wouldn't drive it 4 hours each way on the highway. And to pick up my car, I would have to drive an hour and a half each way the exact opposite way of Chicago.

Well, she said she was just joking. Then as she was going to bed, she said once again to come down tomorrow.


Ah, what the fuck!!!! I don't know what to do. On one hand, I would love to see her and hang out with her, but I would have to skip classes, probably go get my car (complicated situation in itself and I'm not talking about the drive), then spend 8 hours on the road to and from Chicago.

Is it worth it? I don't know. She's so unpredictable, though, and she might end up doing her studies in Japan or some shit by May when I'll be in Iowa. So this might just be the last time to see her for a long time.

Son of a bitch.

teg_to_bike

I'm fucking sick of doing shit and going out of my way for girls who never show interest in me and just wanna be friends...

but I still do it anyway.
teg, who unfortunently won't stop, cause he can't stop.

ps, where in cali?

Pure Adrenaline

iTrader: (2)

Eh, I don't know. I guess I'll decide after my econ class in the morning.

The thing is, I know it's not gonna go anywhere. We'll probably go to a bar or something, have a few, talk, then say good bye, and I'll drive 6 hours home, then switch cars and drive another hour and a half back to school.

Still yet, I want to see her so bad.

teg_to_bike

haha dude

I know how you feel... but just make sure she feels just as strongly as you do. My only concern is that you aren't getting by this girl. I've seen it too often... in fact I'm getting totally by a girl right now


I wouldn't drive 6 hrs+ for a 'friend', but thats just me. Now if this 'friendship' is going somewhere, then maybe its worth the investment in time.

ric

so where's her boyfriend in all this mix......... she sounds a little manipulative to me.....

phipark

Don't do it. All you are doing is teasing yourself. It's your time to be selfish. Who cares what she wants.

95gt

hit her with a sandwich

CGTSX2004

iTrader: (1)

It's not worth it. Since she's just a friend, apologize for not being able to make it and just say that you'll catch up with her when you're out in the area.

Either that or :troutslap her...

TSX 'R' US

Save your time...


You say she's in Chicago? Where?

Pure Adrenaline

iTrader: (2)

18anatak

Dont even bother. From the sounds of it, she ll be sucking your dick on the 7th of never, so whats the point?

dabuda

phipark

just read that thread, or should I say both of them?

DEI99662

its not worth it.

DEI99662

That was great.

RMATIC09

Personally, i woudlent, but thats cuase theres so much involved to see her. I guess it really depends on how much the friendship means to you. (sorry if im making you go on a guilt trip)

turbobumblbee

what about her boyfriend? are they still together? does she have any feelings for you?? why not go down there, go out for a few drinks, end back up at her place and see how things go??? you might get lucky...

sasha

She has a boyfriend so obviously, you can only be friends. In the end, it's up to you if you think a few hours of hanging out with her is worth your time and effort (and missed classes).

fdl

Use your head man.

teg_to_bike

$10 says Pure Adrenaline went to meet her anyway.

spidey07

So that you can avoid this situation in the future read up on "cuddle bitch"

http://www.intellectualwhores.com/manifestations.html

sasha

What's wrong with cuddle bitches?!?

spidey07

They are being used and don't even know it.

teg_to_bike

The cuddle bitch :ownes: the guy shes cuddling with. For the guy, its the worst possible situation to be in. The guy ends up doing a lot for the girl. He's basically whipped...

His future is to be left in the dust when the CB becomes interested in someone else.
Basically its friends with negetive benefits.

teg, who is that guy sometimes....

BC2G

dont be a loser, say you're goodbyes over the phone, and stop making things more difficult for yourself

amisconception

iTimmy

Does this girl work for Samsonite? She seems to have a lot of baggage and you don't mind carrying all of it. If it were a guy friend you knew the way you know her, would you do it? HELL NO. Just let it go, say good bye and sleep with her best friend

this is me

so did you do it?

CrockPot

$10 bucks says he will own himself by reposting this thread.