So i ended up taking an accounting class, and today sat next to a pritty cute girl. After a few minutes of minding our own business and not saying anything because we are both complete stranger to each other, i pull out some notes for the next class midterm that i have and start reviewing. She turns towards me and notices that we happen to be in the same class and that she is also reviewing for. So to cutt to the chase we end up talking a bit about school and how shitty and boring the accounting class was and end up leaving the class early to head to the liabrary to study and review together. We get to the liabrary and start reviewing and she slowly starts to get off topic asking me things about school and little conversations that lead nowhere. We ended up talking it up for like an hour and a half not really reviewing anything really just getting to know eachother she gave me some info on her and what she was doing and i did the same. We end up leaving the liabrary to head to the midterm and that was that. The midterm ended and after it was over she walked up to me outside while i was talking to a friend and begins to chat it up with us. I feel kind of stupid talking so much to a person i'v only known for a few hours. I ask her to exchange numbers since we both have a few class's together, but now im not really sure what to do. Should i just take it as it is and wait to see if shes interested? should i just say somthing? i dont want to come at her, only to get shut down because we barely know eachother. What would some of you do in a situation like this? If i treat her like a friend i might end up on the friends ladder, but if i pursue and get shot down it would be kinda awkward to see her all the time in the same class for the rest of the sem?

 

looks like she's interested. Ask her out.

 

So....

- She goes to the library with you
- She's more interested in chatting / getting to know you than reviewing for the test
- She approached you after the mid term
- She gives you her phone number

I know I haven't dated in like 21 years (since I met my wife), but I would say that any girl that does the above is definitely interested. Definitely call.

 

How do you think you're supposed to get to know each other?

Give her a call.

 

If I see one more thread where the girl all but slaps the shit out of the guy and practically yells into his ear to call me, go out with me, and fuck me...I am going to go crazy!! What the fuck???? Why do all of you young guys need a GPS to find the pussy??? Damn!

"Hey AZ, she grabbed my dick, stuck her tongue down my throat, and took me out to dinner. I'm in the bathroom of the restaurant now, on my Blackberry. Do you think she wants me to fuck her after we leave here? Please hurry and respond, I think she is almost finished with desert and is asking for the check while rubbing between her legs and licking her lips at me! What do I do? What do I do????"

 

^ - This came to mind

http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sea/561877622.html

 

i worded my initial post a little funny. I guess what i ment to ask was

Do i try to talk to her now or wait to get to know her better ?

the problem isnt really me asking her out its more of a when i suppose.

 

beer and a slice of pizza after class on a Friday is never too fast

 

^

 

After all that, you let more than a minute pass before asking her out??!

In the morning, ask her to go to lunch on Thursday. As Darksom and subinf may suggest, you might be getting a slice by Friday or Saturday night. Get to know her before getting married!

 

If you want to get to know her (on any level): Call her. If you don't want to pursue her in any way: Don't.

Was that so hard to figure out?

 

Darksom1, its the age of the Myspace and Facebook...Kids these days just wait days and days to see if the girl posted anything about them.....Jacking off is at an all time high...

 

and Whiskers is the know all about

 

Yes, but I am in the married with children jacking category...

 

What everyone said... I think this girl may be out of your league if you're so concerned with being rejected. In general a guy will not hesitate to ask a girl he knows is within his realm of dating. Once he steps out of those boundaries we get very conscious about rejection. Not saying for sure, but an observation.

 

Don't be a moron. If you aren't hitting it no later than 2 weeks from now it's your lose.

 

Like others have said, it's painfully obvious she's interested in you, or at least curious. Set up another "study session" and talk about some other school related stuff. Then she if she wants to move it to the local watering hole for a drink or 2 once you're done studying.

From what I've seen and experienced, it's pretty hard to fuck up and do/say the wrong thing if she's already interested in you. Chances are she'll just go along with whatever you say. Girls are verrrry forgiving when deep-down they've already decided they want your D. Just like if she's 100% not interested in you, you're game could be perfect and you still get no play.

 

I say you are a complete idiot if you don't go for it.

 

he said it perfectly...

call her and ask her out. damn man.

actually wait - i think she really hates you and doesn't like you at all from the way she was talking to you... you should avoid her at all costs.

 

swoop or get swooped on... (sp)

 

Close your browser now and call. Right now.

 

and if you ever grow a pair and go out with her.....

 

yeah I know this catagory you speak of

 

About the awkwardness in class then if she totally rejects you...

No one really cares about you dude. Don't worry about that. You won't see most of those people after that class anyway. Even if you do, at least you had the balls to pursue a girl and get shot down. Don't let your ego get the best of you.

 

Aight well look son.... I say, since you dont know her much but ended up GETTING to know her when yall were at the library, that you should chill for bit since you have class(es) together and IF you fuck something up OR you get together and THEN fuck something up you're gonna be stuck in the same class(es)..... Then that would be awkward.

Jus be a flirty ass dude and give as many hints as humanly possible that you're intrested and possibly tryina bone WITHOUT actually comin up front and saying that. THEN some time before the semester is over you can go ahead and holla, giving that over the time you have been expressing intrest you can determine whether she is expressing the same thing or not.

BOO YA KA!!!

Oh... and if she brings it up first then do whachu want, on how you feel at that time. Kinda unlikely but very possible.. jus hope for that while you expressin your intrest LOL...

 

Is that why you ask me to make up stories about you on my Facebook?

 

Some of these responses are hilarious. The last time I was in a study session I studied for maybe 5 minutes and at the end of the night I was butt naked getting head. Look, don't over analyze the situation...just GO HARD.

 

Lmao at some of the remarks people are saying. Key thing be confident, don't feel like you can't get her. Any guy can get any girl it is all about how he procedes with it. The best thing you can do is talk to alittle more everyday, get to know her, see what she likes, what she enjoys, what she likes to do when shes not studying. start by having some study group with her. Just take it one day at a time and don't try to rush anything. And above all don't expect anything to happen. When you expect things you only set yourself up for disappointment. So take a deep breath, relax and just take it a day at a time.

 

They post their "she likes me!" stories for attention, not advice. But your rants make every one of these self-indulgent threads worth visiting. Please don't stop.

 

Rush her.

 

I always every time I read a darksom post in D&R

Ask her out the next time you guys meet. Don't worry about anything, just let it ride and you'll find out if she's interested or not, and more importantly, if you're interested.

 

damn i need to start studying more... who the hell knew you could pick up girls by picking up a text book.

 

For the last time...Im not gay.

 

 

Can we get an update on the story? I agree w/ everyone...call her. CALL HER!!!

 

98% chance that update will be that some other dude beat him to it.

 

15% chance that it was me....

 

at these responses.

young padawan, here's what you do:

1. learn to use paragraphs. it's easier for us jedi masters to read your posts and help you out.

2. if you're going to post something long like that again, make cliffs notes for us.

3. take a picture of this broad and post it here and/or in the pretty girls thread.

4. ask her out. what harm will it do? at worse, she rejects you. if so, who cares? not like you guys were friends to start off with.

5. definitely seems like she's interested.

6. and i think darksom should be a mod for D&R.

i miss college...

 

Can we get an update?

 

OoO,, she's a ESSJ girl or what? lol and what school do you happen to go to? And what car u drive?

It sounds like to me that she is def. interested... If a girl came up to you, u pimpin bud...