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Old Mar 24, 2004 | 03:13 PM
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To be or not to be a ho?

What makes a girl a ho/whore/skank/slut? Casual sex with a guy she meets at a bar or club? Flashing? Stripping to her bra and panties? Fully stripping? Flirting when she has boyfriend? Phone/cyber sex with a guy other than her boyfriend? Making out with 2 or more guys in one night? And what are the things that make guys hoes? Please enlighten me to what "ho tendencies" are.
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Old Mar 24, 2004 | 03:14 PM
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Old Mar 24, 2004 | 03:34 PM
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Re: To be or not to be a ho?

Originally posted by AznGrrl789
What makes a girl a ho/whore/skank/slut? Casual sex with a guy she meets at a bar or club? Flashing? Stripping to her bra and panties? Fully stripping? Flirting when she has boyfriend? Phone/cyber sex with a guy other than her boyfriend? Making out with 2 or more guys in one night? And what are the things that make guys hoes? Please enlighten me to what "ho tendencies" are.


you just named all of them. exactly those types of things. believe me, there are good girls out there too.


whats funny is that the hoes/slut/whores/skanks/sluts that i know all say they date trashy guys and they don't get any good ones.

Well, thats why.


if you dont have respect for yourself, then noone is going to for you. simple as that.
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Old Mar 24, 2004 | 03:43 PM
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Old Mar 24, 2004 | 03:54 PM
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what dets said

oh ya, and guys can't be hoes
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Old Mar 24, 2004 | 04:16 PM
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Its so funny, girls are whores, but if guys do those exact same things, then they are hero's.


Anyways, I think a girl that sleeps around OFTEN, as in multiple one night stands, letting more than one guy hit it at a time, (Gangbang), and lying and whatnot to a current bf for sex with other guys are all ho tendencies.
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Old Mar 24, 2004 | 04:25 PM
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I agree with TypeSKid.

If a girl is single and dating and she makes out with multiple guys on her dates with them on different days of the week I wouldn't consider her a ho. But if she is letting all the guys hit it she is a ho. No more than 2 guys hitting it at the same time (but not together in a 3some) if you're a single chick.

Also the length of time it takes for her to give it up, if she is fucking and sucking dick on the first night, or the next weekend after I meet her she's a ho. Unless it's one of romantic those deals where you meet the person and you instantly click and you are ready to make her your girlfriend the next day.
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Old Mar 24, 2004 | 06:00 PM
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Re: Re: To be or not to be a ho?

Originally posted by dets
you just named all of them. exactly those types of things. believe me, there are good girls out there too.


whats funny is that the hoes/slut/whores/skanks/sluts that i know all say they date trashy guys and they don't get any good ones.

Well, thats why.


if you dont have respect for yourself, then noone is going to for you. simple as that.
plus her "track record" which is how many guys she's been with.
you add that in with what dets said to determine if she's a slut.
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Old Mar 25, 2004 | 01:09 AM
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Originally posted by TypeSKid
Its so funny, girls are whores, but if guys do those exact same things, then they are hero's.

Nothing really funny about it. There is a double standard. One of the blessings of being male.
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Old Mar 25, 2004 | 02:17 AM
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Originally posted by GOOSE
Nothing really funny about it. There is a double standard. One of the blessings of being male.
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Old Mar 25, 2004 | 06:27 AM
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Well i think the premise here is it's a LOT harder for a guy to get laid or oral or whatever than it is for a girl to. Say what you want, and yes i've turned girls down before but all things considered all a girl has to do is spread em for the most part and they're gettin some....guys have to work a little harder usually.

BTW azngrrl do you do all this stuff?
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Old Mar 25, 2004 | 06:51 AM
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Originally posted by GOOSE
Nothing really funny about it. There is a double standard. One of the blessings of being male.
You know what it is? It's the pure mechanics of it...a guy can wash his tool off...but the girl is on the receiving end of the squirts...

I think that's where we get the 'dirty ho' mentality from...thinking of some girl with 3 different guys loads up in her honey pot. :pewk:
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Old Mar 25, 2004 | 06:54 AM
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Originally posted by chris3240929
You know what it is? It's the pure mechanics of it...a guy can wash his tool off...but the girl is on the receiving end of the squirts...

I think that's where we get the 'dirty ho' mentality from...thinking of some girl with 3 different guys loads up in her honey pot. :pewk:
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Old Mar 25, 2004 | 09:25 AM
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Diseases = Whore
Sneaking around/lying = Whore
More than 1 guy at the same time = Whore
Sex for money = Whore
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Re: To be or not to be a ho?

Originally posted by AznGrrl789
What makes a girl a ho/whore/skank/slut? Casual sex with a guy she meets at a bar or club? Flashing? Stripping to her bra and panties? Fully stripping? Flirting when she has boyfriend? Phone/cyber sex with a guy other than her boyfriend? Making out with 2 or more guys in one night? And what are the things that make guys hoes? Please enlighten me to what "ho tendencies" are.
1. Casual sex with a guy she meets at a bar or club = Easy if it's every now and then. If it happens more then twice in one month = Ho/Slut
2. Flashing = Tease
3. Stripping to her bra and panties = Tease
4. Fully stripping = Slutty Ho
5. Flirting when she has boyfriend = Teasing Bitch
6. Phone/cyber sex with a guy other than her boyfriend = Bitch/cyber slut
7. Making out with 2 or more guys in one night? = Skank whore
8. what are the things that make guys hoes = Having more then one partner the same day/night and not using protection.
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Old Mar 25, 2004 | 01:14 PM
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Originally posted by Nicky Pass

Sneaking around/lying = Whore
More than 1 guy at the same time = Whore
but its natural for a guy to cheat on his gf as long as he doesnt get caught,

and its totally sweet to have two girls at the same time huh?

fuck your double standards.
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Old Mar 25, 2004 | 01:38 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
but its natural for a guy to cheat on his gf as long as he doesnt get caught,

and its totally sweet to have two girls at the same time huh?

fuck your double standards.



Amen Sista!
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Old Mar 25, 2004 | 01:44 PM
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50% of the time I bang you

50% of the time I bang your best friend


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Old Mar 25, 2004 | 02:45 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
and its totally sweet to have two girls at the same time huh?

fuck your double standards.
It's because when a girl gets double teamed, she's being dominated in every sense of the word, almost to the point of being a slave. When a guy is with 2 girls, he's still pretty much in control of the situation he tells the girls what to do.
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Old Mar 25, 2004 | 02:56 PM
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Old Mar 25, 2004 | 03:03 PM
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be a ho!

hoes serve a purpose in this world, just like everyone else.
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Old Mar 25, 2004 | 04:56 PM
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Re: Re: Re: To be or not to be a ho?

Originally posted by Water-S
plus her "track record" which is how many guys she's been with.
you add that in with what dets said to determine if she's a slut.
i dont think it has anything to do with her track record... its HOW she does it....

i had a g/f that had maybe 5 or 6 boyfriends before me and 2 boyfriends after me.... i know of 2 flings she had, so that means her track record is at least 9 assuming she more than likely slept with all of em....

thats not being a ho if u sleep with your boyfriend....

think about it man.... if u meet a girl when you're 30.... u think she only slept with 2 guys?! i say at least 10...

please.... being a ho is being a ho... my female friends have double digit numbers as high as me, sometimes even higher.... no big deal there..... if u have a best female friend that bangs u on a fling one night, does that make her a ho... no....

yes its a double standard, yes there's a fine line....

just dont be a dirty ho.....
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Old Mar 25, 2004 | 05:15 PM
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how i spot a whore

whores are usually stupid. most whores i've dated/hooked up with have been very very lacking in the intelligence dept... which isn't all bad as long as you don't make them your girlfriend.

girls that are really horny are usually whores too...if you meet a chick that says she masturbates several times a day, hit it and kick her to the curb. she will cheat on you eventually. after all, being overly horny is what makes guys cheat.

girls that smoke too for some reason. stay away from them. whores all of them.

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Old Mar 25, 2004 | 05:36 PM
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Re: Re: To be or not to be a ho?

Originally posted by Gixxster
1. Casual sex with a guy she meets at a bar or club = Easy if it's every now and then. If it happens more then twice in one month = Ho/Slut
2. Flashing = Tease
3. Stripping to her bra and panties = Tease
4. Fully stripping = Slutty Ho
5. Flirting when she has boyfriend = Teasing Bitch
6. Phone/cyber sex with a guy other than her boyfriend = Bitch/cyber slut
7. Making out with 2 or more guys in one night? = Skank whore
8. what are the things that make guys hoes = Having more then one partner the same day/night and not using protection.
Originally by nicky pass.....
Diseases = Whore
Sneaking around/lying = Whore
More than 1 guy at the same time = Whore
Sex for money = Whore

also...........
Cheating in a relationship, unprotected sex, lack of morals & self respect, .........personally I would even say one night stands after a certain age. Everybody has that rush of whoremones

when they are young, which is fine, but if one night stands are still commonplace when you are 24, 25, in this day and age then those are whore tendencies too. Watch out for smokers, as someone mentioned. :P Smoking is a sign of low self esteem, and is disgusting. To me smokers look like crackheads.
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Old Mar 25, 2004 | 05:36 PM
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Re: how i spot a whore

Originally posted by zeroday

girls that smoke too for some reason. stay away from them. whores all of them.

thats funny u say that because most of the girls i know that are whores all smoke...
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Re: Re: how i spot a whore

Originally posted by YuppieCL
thats funny u say that because most of the girls i know that are whores all smoke...


jersey whores rock.
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Old Mar 25, 2004 | 07:50 PM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
but its natural for a guy to cheat on his gf as long as he doesnt get caught,

and its totally sweet to have two girls at the same time huh?

fuck your double standards.
Why do some girls talk as if the double standard is a new concept? Not talking particularly about you SilviaGTO, but still.

The double standard exists. Live with it.
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Old Mar 25, 2004 | 08:35 PM
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Funny thing is guys don't really call the girls whore. The girls do. The girls that ain't putting out hate the fact that a girl that is gets more attention then they do. SO they call em names.

Guys, you know us, we have no problem is your screwing. It's when your NOT screwing, "HOUSTON WE HAVE A PROBLEM".
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Old Mar 26, 2004 | 01:38 AM
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UMM i call girls whores/skanks/sluts all the time
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Old Mar 26, 2004 | 08:22 AM
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BTW azngrrl do you do all this stuff?
Haha I've done one of the things listed. That's all I'm going to say. In my book, guys can be labeled whores/hoes, etc. by doing the same things that girls do that name them as hoes. Guys can be easy too. If they're so horny all the time why say no. And guys that cheat, especially more than once, are major whores. Just like girls. Ho tendencies should be applied to men and women.
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Old Mar 26, 2004 | 11:57 AM
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Re: Re: how i spot a whore

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thats funny u say that because most of the girls i know that are whores all smoke...
From thise we can conclude that oral fixations=whore

Tube steak, cigarette, no difference to a ho right...

And this is funny all of the bitchy hoes I know have smoked at one time, quit, then went back, or still do smoke
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Old Mar 26, 2004 | 12:04 PM
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Originally posted by AznGrrl789
Haha I've done one of the things listed. That's all I'm going to say. In my book, guys can be labeled whores/hoes, etc. by doing the same things that girls do that name them as hoes. Guys can be easy too. If they're so horny all the time why say no. And guys that cheat, especially more than once, are major whores. Just like girls. Ho tendencies should be applied to men and women.


lets be honest here for a moment.


I think you're giving men (in general) way to much credit. We aren't that smart.

We want to fuck. thats right, all the time if we can. If we can have pussy 24 hours a day, we'll do it, and be real happy about it.

Now, what happens if you give us what we want? we turn into lazy, probably fat, sexed out fiends. Thats no good.

Its your job as women to make sure that doesn't happen. Why?

Because dammit, You have more will power. Thats right, i said it. They do. You don't have to have sex all the time. It may bother you yes, but not the way we toss and turn in sleep when we don't get any.

Thats my point here. Women are the keepers of one of the most sacred havens for men. Don't let us be relaxed all the time, we'll take advantage of it. And then what happens if you do? Fat, Lazy, Bloated sexed out fiends.

whew. Its funny what dave chapelle said, " if pussy was in the stock market, it would be at rock bottom, because you women are flooding the market."
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Old Mar 26, 2004 | 12:28 PM
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Re: Re: Re: how i spot a whore

Originally posted by Gilgamesh
From thise we can conclude that oral fixations=whore

Tube steak, cigarette, no difference to a ho right...

And this is funny all of the bitchy hoes I know have smoked at one time, quit, then went back, or still do smoke

nail on the head.


The point you bring up is interesting though.

Is it safe to say that some hoes suffer from a low self esteem and make up for it by doing the things they do.

Also its safe to safe that having a low self esteem would increase the chances of trying to fit in during adolecense like smoking cigs, doing drugs, ect.

i don't know its just a shot in the dark.

anyone else see the correlation.
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Old Mar 26, 2004 | 02:49 PM
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Why do some girls talk as if the double standard is a new concept? Not talking particularly about you SilviaGTO, but still.

The double standard exists. Live with it.

doesn't make it right though. If we had turned a blind eye to a lot of other injustices in this country where would we be today? I think that women have made a lot of progress in the way of equality in recent years...not ENOUGH, but hell at least we are allowed careers and the vote now

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I think that a girl prone to promiscuity could be considered a ho. If she is casually fucking her entire block...sucking off every jim who walks by...and getting plugged in the ass by her all her bros...shes a ho. There is a fine line between having a good time living the single life...maybe having a few one night stands, making out with some dude @ the club, having an ftf....and being a complete whore. Just don't make a reputation for yourself.
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Old Mar 26, 2004 | 03:29 PM
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Originally posted by GeishaGirl
doesn't make it right though. If we had turned a blind eye to a lot of other injustices in this country where would we be today? I think that women have made a lot of progress in the way of equality in recent years...not ENOUGH, but hell at least we are allowed careers and the vote now

back to topic:

I think that a girl prone to promiscuity could be considered a ho. If she is casually fucking her entire block...sucking off every jim who walks by...and getting plugged in the ass by her all her bros...shes a ho. There is a fine line between having a good time living the single life...maybe having a few one night stands, making out with some dude @ the club, having an ftf....and being a complete whore. Just don't make a reputation for yourself.
yeah...if you have a first name reputation down the block...like Jenny from the block...(fuckin ho) that could be bad...
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Old Mar 26, 2004 | 07:07 PM
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Why do some girls talk as if the double standard is a new concept? Not talking particularly about you SilviaGTO, but still.

The double standard exists. Live with it.
well just cause it exists doesnt mean i have to live with it. and i know its not new.

I just like how, say for instance.. typeSkid cheated on his girlfriend and everyone was like oh its alright, you didnt get caught, theres no problem with it, keep hitting that shit.. saying that its ridiculous for him to feel guilty..


but if i were to cheat on my boyfriend with a one night stand with another guy, i would bet money on it that half you guys here would call me a whore, no?
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Old Mar 26, 2004 | 11:21 PM
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The girls are right.

I'm a one woman kinda guy. Never cheated. If I was feeling I should, I got out of the relationship. Wife's the same way. Gotta respect that. If I was with a girl that played like that (and it happened a time or two) she'd be history.
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