ok heres the deal --
I have been dating this girl since nov1 and at first we would just hang out and be best friends , but as i have gotten to knwo her i feel as though we are just too different to be together anymore, she never picks up her place i so i do:angry: and she has different ideas and goals than i do.. , and she loves to party and get fu*ked up really fu*ked up, and it is just not attractive, she is no longer the glowing indaviduall that i once saw!
so those are the reasons to end it. But i cant because i think she cares so much for me, and does alot for me and allways shows the she cares for me... but I think that if i were to end it with her she might go a little bit Postal, :swear2: dont get me wrong the :bananahump: is great but i feel soo traped and stuck!!! she has to have some sort of an idea that i am feeling kinda withdrawn.. i dont know what to do ??? but last night i stayed with her and passed on the chance to get close to my roomates girls friend ,, she is a model and she was rolling last night so i know that i could have with the model friend!!!
so i dont know what to do?? she is in an internship at UT and might be moving in may and she wants me to go with her, but that is my only light at the end of the tunnel!! i will not move with her! I want to be free !! And i am not an asshole guy I will not cheet on her / well maybe with a model ...... no i would call her first and just say that is it there is no more you and I we are done!! but i can not, am i a whimp?

 

Ohhhh.... I've dated guys who were apt to go a bit "postal" when the breakup occurred. You just have to kind of go for it. She will get over it. If she gives you the "I can't live without you" crap, just at her and tell her clearly you aren't supposed to be together if you're already ready to bail after three months, so she should find someone else who can't live without her either.

Also, tell her to clean up her act. Who knows, maybe she'll have an epiphany and become a normal member of society?

 

If you aren't feeling her anymore let her know right away. My X bf probably felt the same way about me (well, I don't go postal or party til the break of dawn or anything but that he wanted to let it go) and he dragged me along for almost a year and a half before he let me know that he had to end it. Seriously...do it sooner rather than later before she becomes even more attached. If there is no chance you still want to be with her, suck it up, cut her loose, and the model.

 

pitch it.

 

you want to be single

stop putting her before yourself

if she goes postal, deal with it

 

a relationship is to make you happy, if you aren't happy you shouldn't be in the relationship.

 

thanks for all of your input , but it is harder than you think to end a realtionship that i have held on to for to long? i have gone this far ....-- and you are all right , it is not fair to her or myself.... why is it that when you really mean something it is sooo hard to say / or not to?? i will give it a shot and try to tell her. any ideas on how?? wish me luck!

 

um "I don't want to be w/ you anymore"



long time? Dude you have been w/ this girl for less then 3 months


are you in high school or something?

 

no i am not in high school, but i ave not had to do this since then and it sux, i feel like a whimpthis should be so easy right ... wrong i hate to hurt her she does not need me to do this to her.....

 

um, next time you see her, ask her for your balls back.

 

they're in her purse

 

ouch that hurts... but yes you are all right thank yall for helping me relize how stupid & draged 0ut the situation is ..... and i am going to get my Balls Back Tonight,

 

 

I did it !!!! and it wasnot the sene that i had invisioned
thankyou for your support everyone!!and we are still friends