Anybody starting up a new relationship in here? I just met this girl and I just broke up with my ex of like 3 years. It's weird. I'm really nervous. Not sure if I'm taking it to fast or slow. Any ladies in here wanna give advice? Or guys in the same situatino

 

Nice first post

I'm around 4 months into my new relationship. But before I got into it I was with my X for 1 and a half years. Not as long as your 3, but it was one of my two long term relationships. I got into this new relationship 2 months after my X and I broke up. I thought it was a rebounder, but turns out that its much better than the previous one. It takes a little while getting used to a new person and their ways, but if you give someone a try you may find that they are worth the effort.

I can't really tell you if you are going too fast because I don't know what you have done or how long you have been broken up. Give us some details

 

Well, she's a great girl. She has a little girl (which is a little weird for me). My ex was great but she was still immature and into the party scene too much. We just went our seperate ways. Just still does the drinking/club thing a ton and I'm too concerned with work and night classes.

I'm sure it will be an adjustment like you said, GeishGirl, to get adjusted to new ways. I think the daughter thing is freaking me out a little. She on such a different level than my ex - as far as maturity goes. I've never had to be concerned with who'g going to watch her (the daughter) when we go out or take into account what happens when/if we get serious.

Thanks for the replies though. Just feels good to get it out I guess.

 

in a relationship for almost 4 years now, cant really help with the noob situation.

 

based on experience, i'd try to get over her as quick as possible....if you don't start dating you'll stay held up on your old girl, which is pointless if you know you're not gonna get back together. but make sure that your new relationship isn't too serious at the beginning, which may be tempting cause you still may be in long term relationship mode