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Old 07-04-2010, 11:14 AM
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Good job on creating that attraction by not giving into her every move.

I agree with 03bl AC what are your intentions?? bang her silly? or to make her into a potential gf?
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Old 07-08-2010, 01:46 AM
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she isn't into you.... sorry.

If she continues to texts you then please do not respond back right away.... wait at least 10 min and make it short as possible. do NOT write a essay through text.

I know how you feel, but she isn't into you then you just gotta move on.
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Old 07-08-2010, 09:41 AM
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I don't even care anymore.
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make her pick you up for a date.

Tell her that her furniture looks good from her front yard.
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You can't always connect on the 1st date. I would try for a second. Maybe go to a few wineries. You are getting to drink wine and have to stand next to the person aka: getting close to someone while partaking in getting boozed up.

You don't need to get whacked at the winery, just taste a few and go to another. It's a lot of fun and you will learn about each other.

The person serving will suggest foods that can be served with wine and this could lead to going to her house to make dinner or yours.

i would try for a second date and see where that goes. If you want something bad enough, you'll put in a little more effort and decide after a few experiences not just one.
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Originally Posted by dallison
You can't always connect on the 1st date. I would try for a second. Maybe go to a few wineries. You are getting to drink wine and have to stand next to the person aka: getting close to someone while partaking in getting boozed up.

You don't need to get whacked at the winery, just taste a few and go to another. It's a lot of fun and you will learn about each other.

The person serving will suggest foods that can be served with wine and this could lead to going to her house to make dinner or yours.

i would try for a second date and see where that goes. If you want something bad enough, you'll put in a little more effort and decide after a few experiences not just one.
^^^this>*

i hate the whole b/s with midgames and drama... if you are interested in her, just ask her out again, but don't overdo it... leave it in her court if she has a crazy schedule to give you a shout when she wants to chill since your schedule is more flexible...

if she texts you... reply but keep it simple... save the complicated discussions for the date... if she is interested in hearing more from you, she will call you...

if she asks if you are not speaking to her... say of course not, i just was off on my lunch break... but i am still waiting to take you out to dinner the next time you are free... or something like that...
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Mind games played during dating =

Unfortunately, part of it and all too often. When you do find someone who does not put up that sort of thing, hang on for dear life.



G'luck, Miz...but, try not to get too emotionally involved. It's dating...and just that.
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Old 07-08-2010, 05:33 PM
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you failed.
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Miz, Dallison hit the nail on the head. Go to a rather unconventional date like a winery, and she'll remember you. The idea is to make her feel special and wanted, and booze will create that impression.

Besides, who has ever had a bad experience at a winery?
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How old is she?
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Old 07-09-2010, 09:56 AM
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What is she's not old enough for you to take to the winery?
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Old 07-09-2010, 10:07 AM
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Hahah I'm jk, she's only 6 months younger than me.

But she doesn't drink.
So :meh:
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Old 07-09-2010, 10:30 AM
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no even caring anymore.
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Good, you shouldn't.
if you hold this attitude, the women will pick up on it.
kinda like when you do have a girlfriend, more chicks hit on you.
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Old 07-09-2010, 12:32 PM
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Originally Posted by justnspace
Good, you shouldn't.
if you hold this attitude, the women will pick up on it.
kinda like when you do have a girlfriend, more chicks hit on you.
Or when you have a cute kid.
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^does mrs. gatrhumpy know that?
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Any place I can rent a kid?
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Old 07-09-2010, 12:58 PM
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Also, man, when I was at the amusement park. I went on this water ride. Happened to be 2 13-14 yr old girls on the ride.

Geebus what are they feeding kids these days. She had some had some big ass titties


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Scotty probably has some young goats you could borrow.
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Old 07-09-2010, 03:50 PM
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just text her and ask when you can hit that
It will get the point across
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Originally Posted by gatrhumpy
Miz, Dallison hit the nail on the head. Go to a rather unconventional date like a winery, and she'll remember you. The idea is to make her feel special and wanted, and booze will create that impression.

Besides, who has ever had a bad experience at a winery?
never any bad experiences but quite a few of my crew have been kicked out or not served from being whacked
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Meh I always thought that when girls keep being dismissive and kind of evasive, it's because they want you to keep pursuing them, see how badly you want them specifically.

Case in point you keep calling her up, she kept turning you down, then when you move on you get a "So you're not talking to me now?" text. If she made up her mind about you, she wouldn't give two shits if you didn't notice her anymore.
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so when she got off work today, she sent me a text saying she was sad, because she hasn't seen me for 2 days.



don't know what to think of this, if its even legit.
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No need to get all crazy. Just ignore it.
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Old 07-12-2010, 01:12 AM
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well not really crazy, just dont understand it

maybe she is still into me, maybe she isnt.

we'll see
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I think she in obviously intrigued by the Miz, but she seems to be complicated. Sounds like that text was to gauge your in her. How did you answer?

with that said
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no, shes playing with you.
She loves the attention, kinda like what rapture was saying. she loves being chased.
there are 2 ways to do this, just depending on your intentions.
A. bang the shit out of her.
B. dismiss her, and run away as far as possible.

Honestly, she sounds flaky, and if you don't see yourself with her as a boyfriend, stop talking to her.
on the other hand, she sounds like she wants sex.
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Originally Posted by Rapture
Meh I always thought that when girls keep being dismissive and kind of evasive, it's because they want you to keep pursuing them, see how badly you want them specifically.

Case in point you keep calling her up, she kept turning you down, then when you move on you get a "So you're not talking to me now?" text. If she made up her mind about you, she wouldn't give two shits if you didn't notice her anymore.

Women are jealous creatures. so if you did stop noticing her, it would get under her skin. also, one of the best ways to get a girl is to talk with other girls.
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She is looking for attention, nothing more

if she misses you so much, she will ask you to hang out, if not, forget about her
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well not really crazy, just dont understand it

maybe she is still into me, maybe she isnt.

we'll see
Send her a reply with a picture of your dong...
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^ it might work.
really.
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