Calling the love doctor

I met this girl in class and have hung out with her a few times. She is really attractive, smart, and is a good time to be around. The couple of times we have hung out, she flirts with me and we usually talk to each other a lot when we are out. I get this vibe she is interested in me, but I think she might still be hung up on her ex-boyfriend whom she broke up with a while back. I feel that if I keep hanging out with her and don't test the waters, I am going to get stuck as a "friend" and it will be too late. I am not sure of her intentions, what's a good way to find out without being too obvious?

 

 

There is no good way to figure it out without being obvious. You have to be obvious. Otherwise you don't get a straight answer, or you get put on the friends list.

1) Ask her out tomorrow. If she says no, you can stop wasting your time with her knowing you won't get ass. If she says yes, you win

2) Don't talk with her about her ex anymore, never bring it up again. That'll only get you on the friends list.

Oh, and

 

 

1. I was going to try that....Going to see her tonight, will let you know how it goes.

2. I haven't asked her anything about her boyfriend, instead I get bits of information from her friends. I try and make it not obvious to them that I am interested.

I'll ask her if she is interested in a little anal creampie

 

sometimes girls talk about their exes even to guys they are interested in.. inadvertantly. sometimes we just need someone to talk to, so don't take it the wrong way. it helps us get it off our chest so we CAN move on... to you

if it does come up, ask general questions of what she wants relationship-wise, what qualities she is looking for in a guy, and then exert those qualities so she sees them.

one more thing... to avoid the friend-zone as much as possible, be flirtatious and charming. Touch her on the arm when she says something, put your arm around her if you guys are waiting in line somewhere, and most of all, lean in for the kiss (start on the cheek to see where it leads if you're not sure) at the end of the night. that will make it clear to her you want something without you acutally having to say anything.

but don't overdo it.. play it cool. make sure she's receptive before you seem "too pushy".

she won't get over her ex UNTIL she sees that there are BETTER guys out there. so go do your business

 

Excellent advice SuperMegaGlossy.

 

thanks

 

I'm guessing you've done this before

 

to another girl? i was under the impression that super didn't fall under the "rug munching" category


haha, although it wouldn't be such a bad thing if you did


great advice by the way, thats exactly what i was thinking This is another lesson for alot of guys too. Find a girl that is brutally honest and be friends with her because many times when you are having girl trouble this kind of girl will work wonders for you

 

haha, yeah, def. not into the pussy.

i just know what works when it comes to "wooing" girls, becuase DUH, i am one