Need to get this stripper out of my head
06-26-2009, 10:49 PM
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I don't want to pull this more off topic - but isn't that being a little hyper sensitive and evidence of a complete lack of trust? That seems like a relationship that is bound to end soon - I would feel horribly suffocated.
He's right.. You'll learn..
06-26-2009, 11:14 PM
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OK, so....
A. Some strip clubs have good food. Foxy Lady in RI has a breakfast thing called "Legs and Eggs" which is fun and tasty. I mean, bacon and nekkid girls all at once? Come on. Also, TD's East in Tucson has pretty damn good burgers. I used to eat lunch there every Friday with a few friends because we all had the day off.
B. WTFBBQ we still don't have a picture of this stripper? OP, if you are still so obsessed with this girl, GO BACK and this time get a damn picture. Shouldn't cost you more than about $150 in dances.
A. Some strip clubs have good food. Foxy Lady in RI has a breakfast thing called "Legs and Eggs" which is fun and tasty. I mean, bacon and nekkid girls all at once? Come on. Also, TD's East in Tucson has pretty damn good burgers. I used to eat lunch there every Friday with a few friends because we all had the day off.
B. WTFBBQ we still don't have a picture of this stripper? OP, if you are still so obsessed with this girl, GO BACK and this time get a damn picture. Shouldn't cost you more than about $150 in dances.
06-27-2009, 12:00 AM
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How is that any different if it is in an establishment that doesn't frown upon that sort of thing? (To your significant other at least.)
06-27-2009, 12:13 AM
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I have to disagree. The way I see it: How would your significant other react if she walked into your bedroom and saw a woman rubbing her naked ass or tits on your face? Would she not get seriously offended or hurt?
How is that any different if it is in an establishment that doesn't frown upon that sort of thing? (To your significant other at least.)
How is that any different if it is in an establishment that doesn't frown upon that sort of thing? (To your significant other at least.)
As to why people go? If it isn't for the cheap beer then I don't know, but I wouldn't be bothered in the slightest if my g/f wanted to go to a strip club with her friends.
06-27-2009, 12:19 AM
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I agree with you on the whole intent thing. Either way what I'm saying doesn't particularly matter anyway, nobody is wrong here in my opinion.
I just personally think strip clubs are gross and reek of shattered dreams; they just aren't for me.
I just personally think strip clubs are gross and reek of shattered dreams; they just aren't for me.
06-28-2009, 08:45 PM
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Strip clubs are for sexual excitement, so unless you're all single or in 'open' relationships, sexual excitement should be between two committed people. Strange people grinding all over you is for the single and the desperate, not for people who have committed friendships involving trust.
Why the hell would you pay a stranger to lose their dignity and just frustrate you? I'll never understand it.
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06-28-2009, 11:14 PM
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No she's not.
Strip clubs are for sexual excitement, so unless you're all single or in 'open' relationships, sexual excitement should be between two committed people. Strange people grinding all over you is for the single and the desperate, not for people who have committed friendships involving trust.
Why the hell would you pay a stranger to lose their dignity and just frustrate you? I'll never understand it.
Strip clubs are for sexual excitement, so unless you're all single or in 'open' relationships, sexual excitement should be between two committed people. Strange people grinding all over you is for the single and the desperate, not for people who have committed friendships involving trust.
Why the hell would you pay a stranger to lose their dignity and just frustrate you? I'll never understand it.
06-29-2009, 12:02 AM
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06-29-2009, 12:30 AM
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Stop acting like 'Wackura' or any of the other morons in R+P, you know damn well what is being discussed and I don't need to define it.
People go to a strip club for one reason only.
If you or your s/o don't see it as cheating, great. However, it is VERY much within cultural norms to think that it is.
06-29-2009, 01:59 AM
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Well, I guess I have questions for those of you who define cheating as going to strip clubs.
If you are at the beach and you happen to stare for a few minutes at a beautiful girl in a bikini, is that cheating?
If you watch a movie with nudity in it and find it arousing, is that cheating?
If you find it arousing when the new female intern in the office gets hard nipples when the AC turns on, so you rig the thermostat to always keep the temp around 68, is that cheating?
Is reading Maxim magazine cheating?
Yes I realize none of these people are actually touching your wiener, but the idea is the same. Also, if any of these people HAVE touched your wiener, please start a thread and go into explicit details.
If you are at the beach and you happen to stare for a few minutes at a beautiful girl in a bikini, is that cheating?
If you watch a movie with nudity in it and find it arousing, is that cheating?
If you find it arousing when the new female intern in the office gets hard nipples when the AC turns on, so you rig the thermostat to always keep the temp around 68, is that cheating?
Is reading Maxim magazine cheating?
Yes I realize none of these people are actually touching your wiener, but the idea is the same. Also, if any of these people HAVE touched your wiener, please start a thread and go into explicit details.
06-29-2009, 02:22 AM
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The difference is if I happen to enjoy something like that, I go do something about it with my fiancee. I don't pay a complete stranger to put her tits in my face.
There is a huge gap between seeing someone attractive at the beach or in a film and making a conscious decision to let another human being get all over you.
There is a huge gap between seeing someone attractive at the beach or in a film and making a conscious decision to let another human being get all over you.
06-29-2009, 02:32 AM
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what about dancing in a night club?
06-29-2009, 02:47 AM
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Ok I'll be honest. I've dated a bunch of girls but they were all the decent/ok types but I've been wanting to date a Gorgeous model looking girl but I don't think I will ever date one knowing myself. I've met a few but I just don't have that confidence to ask them out or maintain a long conversation with them since I always think they are too good for me which causes me to shyness.
06-29-2009, 03:58 AM
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06-29-2009, 09:10 AM
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Ok I'll be honest. I've dated a bunch of girls but they were all the decent/ok types but I've been wanting to date a Gorgeous model looking girl but I don't think I will ever date one knowing myself. I've met a few but I just don't have that confidence to ask them out or maintain a long conversation with them since I always think they are too good for me which causes me to shyness.
i asked him how he scored teh garlz and he said "well im ugly, fat and lazy; i ask hot girls out because i got nothing to lose"
"they think im funny and they usually say yes because all the hot guys are fucking labias and are too afraid to ask them out"
06-29-2009, 09:31 AM
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I don't see going to a strip club as an act of cheating. However, if you are going there solo or spending large sums of money in the back with one then I think you do have issues, single or not. I have gone plenty of times for bachelor parties, and don't mind spending a few bucks just giving out $1's when the girls walk around, dance in front of you for a minute and then move on, but there is no way in hell I am dropping hundreds of dollars on their asses.
OP-If you want to date a stripper, that is fine, but don't try date one that you meet AT the strip club! Just my .02.
OP-If you want to date a stripper, that is fine, but don't try date one that you meet AT the strip club! Just my .02.
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06-29-2009, 10:17 AM
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Well, I guess I have questions for those of you who define cheating as going to strip clubs.
If you are at the beach and you happen to stare for a few minutes at a beautiful girl in a bikini, is that cheating?
If you watch a movie with nudity in it and find it arousing, is that cheating?
If you find it arousing when the new female intern in the office gets hard nipples when the AC turns on, so you rig the thermostat to always keep the temp around 68, is that cheating?
Is reading Maxim magazine cheating?
Yes I realize none of these people are actually touching your wiener, but the idea is the same. Also, if any of these people HAVE touched your wiener, please start a thread and go into explicit details.
If you are at the beach and you happen to stare for a few minutes at a beautiful girl in a bikini, is that cheating?
If you watch a movie with nudity in it and find it arousing, is that cheating?
If you find it arousing when the new female intern in the office gets hard nipples when the AC turns on, so you rig the thermostat to always keep the temp around 68, is that cheating?
Is reading Maxim magazine cheating?
Yes I realize none of these people are actually touching your wiener, but the idea is the same. Also, if any of these people HAVE touched your wiener, please start a thread and go into explicit details.
no, none of the above mentioned are applicable lol. strip clubs were made for a purpose, and everyone knows that purpose, even if they go there to eat... i understand that magazine covers are also made for the fact that they need to draw a buyer with sex appeal but still , its printed on paper unlike a stripper that is right in front of your face .. same with porn, its not cheating but if ones a porn feign, its not pleasant...
06-29-2009, 11:47 AM
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I don't see going to a strip club as an act of cheating. However, if you are going there solo or spending large sums of money in the back with one then I think you do have issues, single or not. I have gone plenty of times for bachelor parties, and don't mind spending a few bucks just giving out $1's when the girls walk around, dance in front of you for a minute and then move on, but there is no way in hell I am dropping hundreds of dollars on their asses.
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06-29-2009, 12:22 PM
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Well gee, you're going to see an actual live person take off their clothes..
Stop acting like 'Wackura' or any of the other morons in R+P, you know damn well what is being discussed and I don't need to define it.
People go to a strip club for one reason only.
If you or your s/o don't see it as cheating, great. However, it is VERY much within cultural norms to think that it is.
Stop acting like 'Wackura' or any of the other morons in R+P, you know damn well what is being discussed and I don't need to define it.
People go to a strip club for one reason only.
If you or your s/o don't see it as cheating, great. However, it is VERY much within cultural norms to think that it is.
It's intent that makes the big difference..
06-29-2009, 03:03 PM
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06-29-2009, 05:08 PM
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I think cheating (and the fine lines with strip clubs, porn, etc) is all about what the two people in the relationship are comfortable with.
Call me insecure, call me immature, call me selfish, whatever... if I live with my boyfriend, I want to be essentially his only source of sexual gratification. I'm willing to give a BJ on command, fuck any time, any day. It doesn't matter if I'm dead asleep at 3am, if my boyfriend comes to bed with a boner and wants some, we're getting it on. If I'm willing to offer all of that, you bet your sweet ass I'm going to be pissed if he's going to strip clubs on the side.
Now, bachelor's parties, I'm okay with strip clubs for that. But for just the fuck of going to a strip club? Helllllll no.
Call me insecure, call me immature, call me selfish, whatever... if I live with my boyfriend, I want to be essentially his only source of sexual gratification. I'm willing to give a BJ on command, fuck any time, any day. It doesn't matter if I'm dead asleep at 3am, if my boyfriend comes to bed with a boner and wants some, we're getting it on. If I'm willing to offer all of that, you bet your sweet ass I'm going to be pissed if he's going to strip clubs on the side.
Now, bachelor's parties, I'm okay with strip clubs for that. But for just the fuck of going to a strip club? Helllllll no.
06-29-2009, 05:18 PM
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Well, I guess I have questions for those of you who define cheating as going to strip clubs.
If you are at the beach and you happen to stare for a few minutes at a beautiful girl in a bikini, is that cheating?
If you watch a movie with nudity in it and find it arousing, is that cheating?
If you find it arousing when the new female intern in the office gets hard nipples when the AC turns on, so you rig the thermostat to always keep the temp around 68, is that cheating?
Is reading Maxim magazine cheating?
Yes I realize none of these people are actually touching your wiener, but the idea is the same. Also, if any of these people HAVE touched your wiener, please start a thread and go into explicit details.
If you are at the beach and you happen to stare for a few minutes at a beautiful girl in a bikini, is that cheating?
If you watch a movie with nudity in it and find it arousing, is that cheating?
If you find it arousing when the new female intern in the office gets hard nipples when the AC turns on, so you rig the thermostat to always keep the temp around 68, is that cheating?
Is reading Maxim magazine cheating?
Yes I realize none of these people are actually touching your wiener, but the idea is the same. Also, if any of these people HAVE touched your wiener, please start a thread and go into explicit details.
I think cheating (and the fine lines with strip clubs, porn, etc) is all about what the two people in the relationship are comfortable with.
Call me insecure, call me immature, call me selfish, whatever... if I live with my boyfriend, I want to be essentially his only source of sexual gratification. I'm willing to give a BJ on command, fuck any time, any day. It doesn't matter if I'm dead asleep at 3am, if my boyfriend comes to bed with a boner and wants some, we're getting it on. If I'm willing to offer all of that, you bet your sweet ass I'm going to be pissed if he's going to strip clubs on the side.
Now, bachelor's parties, I'm okay with strip clubs for that. But for just the fuck of going to a strip club? Helllllll no.
Call me insecure, call me immature, call me selfish, whatever... if I live with my boyfriend, I want to be essentially his only source of sexual gratification. I'm willing to give a BJ on command, fuck any time, any day. It doesn't matter if I'm dead asleep at 3am, if my boyfriend comes to bed with a boner and wants some, we're getting it on. If I'm willing to offer all of that, you bet your sweet ass I'm going to be pissed if he's going to strip clubs on the side.
Now, bachelor's parties, I'm okay with strip clubs for that. But for just the fuck of going to a strip club? Helllllll no.
06-29-2009, 09:00 PM
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06-29-2009, 09:09 PM
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Well gee, you're going to see an actual live person take off their clothes..
Stop acting like 'Wackura' or any of the other morons in R+P, you know damn well what is being discussed and I don't need to define it.
People go to a strip club for one reason only.
If you or your s/o don't see it as cheating, great. However, it is VERY much within cultural norms to think that it is.
Stop acting like 'Wackura' or any of the other morons in R+P, you know damn well what is being discussed and I don't need to define it.
People go to a strip club for one reason only.
If you or your s/o don't see it as cheating, great. However, it is VERY much within cultural norms to think that it is.