Well, I gotta do it. Intellectually, this girl is not going to cut it, we just don't have anything in common enough to make something work on another level. We've been on 3 "dates" fooled around twice (no intercourse) and chatted on the phone a bit. I'm attracted to her, but that is as far as it goes, and I get the feeling that she wants more than that. I see her again Sunday night, should I say somthing then? I don't want to just blow her off, that sucks...but I could pull the "busy" card...

Any suggestions on an easy let down...she now knows where I hang out on Sundays and I can't end it badly, cause I don't want to have to deal with her there if it does.

Plus, she left me hanging one night, after I took care of her...that hurt, and I'm not talking about the ego either...

 

ouch, she didn't reciprocate brain - that's pretty evil

well, just tell her you met someone else

 

Dude do her like they do us, just stop calling and don't answer her calls so she has to figure out all on her own that you're no longer interested.

 

thats what I do. works great.

 

I am going to need to see a pic of her before offering counseling.

 

Just avoid her & skip the Sunday hang-out for a few weeks...

She'll get over it.

Not like you were dating long-term, etc.

 

I hope she will. I'll go this Sunday and next (I told her I'd meet her there this Sunday) and then bag it if she just shows next Sunday. With no calls and what not, I think she'll get the picture. I told her I'd call her for this sunday, but I won't, although I think she is being brough by a friend of hers...who happens to be a meddling bitch that should be put in her place.

Which is the whole reason I have to aviod the plcae on Sunday now possibly...

 

 

if this is your only source of getting ass, then i'd maintain it until you found someone else and dont do anything to her until she returns the favor! unless she becomes really attached.... you dont want to lead her on


....too much

 

 

That will either break it off real qick...

Or

Make a big fan outta her...

 

Why not try to be honest and just ask for sex with no strings!!!!

 

Shit.... Whats so hard about telling her its not working out.

 

Just sleep with her mom and video tape it and send it to her, she won't want to see you again.

 

gdubb...

I guess that I have no other prospects currently?

I'd just feel like a bastard if I dropped her when one better came along.

 

bro, no offense to you, but if the situation was turned around, i bet she wouldnt waste 2 secs to kick you to the curb for someone else.

girls are like that these days. you cant get in trouble for telling the truth. then sometime down the road keep her number so if plan A doesnt work, u can use her as plan B for a quick hookup.

 

 

i would give her a cleveland steamer first. then i would call her the next day and say its just not gonna work out after all

 

Gilg, I'm surprised with you. Speeches don't work and make you look like a jerk. What are you gonna say? You and I have no chemistry? No matter what you say, speeches are a bad idea. Do what the rest of us do, don't call or return her calls. She'll get the message sooner or later.

 

or tell her to just read the goddamn board.



HI MICHELLE!

 

best line today.....

 

*hangs head in shame*

I guess so, one last date tonight to see if things flow. But Jesus...her name.,...man...it just had to be what it is...that is one MAJOR stumbling block. Hopefully the ignore thing would work, but we have mutual friends, maybe I would need to aviod the Sunday routine, for a few weeks. (this is a different one than I have mentioned there before)

 

UPDATE: No need, just went on the date, from body language and unskpon cues and awkward sliences, I think she knows this is not going anywhere, booty call is all it could ever be, if that. I'm pretty sure this is what she sees as well, so I'm gonna tell her that I like her yadda yadda, but don;t see it going anywhere, yadda, and then if we are friends and hang out and she uses me for sex, then that's cool too.

But at least we both know there is no R word in our future.

 

haha...weirdness..haha..the girl I'm seeing now calls me everyday...I had to work this last weekend and I left my phone at work...I dont remember numbers...thats what speed dial is for...so I couldnt call her...turns out when I actually went to the office on Sunday, I had 40+ missed calls from Friday afternoon up to Sunday morning. also about 20+ voicemails. They slowly progressed to..."blah blah...I'd like to know whats going on"...like WTF??? First she knew I was working and second..what the hell do you mean 'whats going on" Then her sis calls and leaves voicemail (i know her sis) and says she has been leaving several voicemails for you...can you call her and let her know if you are still interested or not........again WTF?!

needless to say that when i called her back i was pissed...told her that 40+ calls within that span of time should be illegal.

 

She bombed your voicemail after one weekend of you not calling?

 

yeap...i couldnt believe it. I could understand if the voicemails were vm's about worrying if I was OK (At least on some of them) but they were all.."whats going on" "I'm heading out of town and wondering if you coming over" (how could I come over if I'm working. 40+ calls 20+ voicemails...i think i need to call guiness books or something...
whats funny is that at voicemail number 10 or something..i get the "ok, call me when you get the message, i dont want to keep calling and bugging".....ahhhh yeah oooooh k.

 

Damn thats super psycho, I thought this one chick was psycho for calling me five times in one night, by my scale that makes your chick 8 times more psycho .

 

[/QUOTE=Waddy]Damn thats super psycho, I thought this one chick was psycho for calling me five times in one night, by my scale that makes your chick 8 times more psycho .[/QUOTE]


oh wait, why I'm I laughing.....

 

I just remember listening to the voicemails on www.psychoexgirlfriend.com

 

Do you have life insurance?....beware a woman's scorn...like the plague...

 

Good call, there are just too many females in this world to settle, IMHO...just my

 

is that right???

 

 

 

So Raptor you still seeing her?

 

Dear God...why me?

She texted me today (seriously she fucking texted me :ghey: )

She wnats to hang out, like two weeks after the date from hell, Jesus...time to go into evasion mode.

 

You guys are wrong 4 this...

 

U 2...

 

get a bj and then never talk to her again! do it! DO IT!

 

Someone just saw Starsky & Hutch