Need Advice On 3yr Relationship!!!
10-30-2003 | 02:32 PM
#41
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dude, ur getting sex once every 1-2 months? that's not a healty relationship. Either ur girl is prude and needs some one to turn her out or she getting it else where. u need to have a serious talk with ur chick, that shit ain't normal. shite , i think the omish do it mor often than once every 2 moths. Ur need to lite up a fire on this girl assuming some else hasn't already.
10-30-2003 | 02:55 PM
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1-2 months is MESSED up man...
if i were you, i would send her the link to this thread...
a) she will realize how dumb she is for doing this to you
b)
once she finds out your posting on a Dating/Relationship forum, she will probably want sex 24/7 cuz that turns girls on. :sarcasm:
if i were you, i would send her the link to this thread...
a) she will realize how dumb she is for doing this to you
b)
once she finds out your posting on a Dating/Relationship forum, she will probably want sex 24/7 cuz that turns girls on. :sarcasm:
10-30-2003 | 05:07 PM
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Originally posted by Pull_T
She's cheating on you.
She's cheating on you.
wake up and smell the damn coffee man!!!! we're men just like you and no one likes admitting shit like this, sometimes you just have to realize blind trust = HORRIBLE
10-30-2003 | 06:01 PM
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dude... some girls just arent into sex as much as we are... most girls reach their sex drive peak at age 30 in the first place....
pressuring her to have sex may just very well be a huge turn off for her.... especially when she's had enough of u to last her a good while....
pressuring her to have sex may just very well be a huge turn off for her.... especially when she's had enough of u to last her a good while....
10-30-2003 | 06:09 PM
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Originally posted by YuppieCL
especially when she's had enough of u to last her a good while....
especially when she's had enough of u to last her a good while....
i mean, dont quit a job till you have another contract, but you can still look
especially cause your in H/S and, face it, this relationship isn't gonna lead to marrage anyway
just a thought
10-30-2003 | 06:11 PM
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Originally posted by Python2121
dude i know its easy to get attached, but have you thought about going out and exploring some other options?
i mean, dont quit a job till you have another contract, but you can still look
especially cause your in H/S and, face it, this relationship isn't gonna lead to marrage anyway
just a thought
dude i know its easy to get attached, but have you thought about going out and exploring some other options?
i mean, dont quit a job till you have another contract, but you can still look
especially cause your in H/S and, face it, this relationship isn't gonna lead to marrage anyway
just a thought
10-30-2003 | 06:18 PM
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Originally posted by YuppieCL
hope ur not refering that to me, but to him....
hope ur not refering that to me, but to him....
to him: change is good, dont be afraid of it
10-30-2003 | 06:21 PM
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Re: Re: Need Advice On 3yr Relationship!!!
Originally posted by eclipse23
Quoted for truth.
Quoted for truth.
10-30-2003 | 06:27 PM
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Originally posted by YuppieCL
dude... some girls just arent into sex as much as we are... most girls reach their sex drive peak at age 30 in the first place....
pressuring her to have sex may just very well be a huge turn off for her.... especially when she's had enough of u to last her a good while....
dude... some girls just arent into sex as much as we are... most girls reach their sex drive peak at age 30 in the first place....
pressuring her to have sex may just very well be a huge turn off for her.... especially when she's had enough of u to last her a good while....
Acura3.0CL, i just figured out whos banging your girl
10-30-2003 | 07:09 PM
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Originally posted by Acura3.0CL
and i really dont think shes cheating on me...we're always together on the weekends so theres no chance for her to be cheatin...i think this is just the way she is... i donno...
and i really dont think shes cheating on me...we're always together on the weekends so theres no chance for her to be cheatin...i think this is just the way she is... i donno...
face it bro... she is cheating on you. absolutely no question at all.
you are being played for a fool.
and if you dont see it... ya are a fool!
10-31-2003 | 05:59 AM
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Re: Need Advice On 3yr Relationship!!!
Originally posted by Acura3.0CL
Ok, to get you cought up...My girlfriend and i have been dating for over 3yrs now...(we bouth just turned 18) Everythings great and we love eachother and all...well she always complains that im "ALWAYS" too horny...(all this bullshit) So yea, and "She wants more cute lovey cuddley time" (i mean WTF!?) And i was like soo why cant we atleast "do something" once a week...(like on the weekend) and she was like "WHAT!! try every 2 week if your lucky!!" So umm yea...3yr relationship or no play (including seeing,touching anything and even making out) but once every 2 weeks. I think im gonna start an experiment where i dont menchon anything about "play" and not start the fist move and see how long things last....
Guys, Im killin myself here!! i mean jeeze!! 3 year relationship (where we never had this once every 2 week problem) until now....what do i do!?!?!
Ok, to get you cought up...My girlfriend and i have been dating for over 3yrs now...(we bouth just turned 18) Everythings great and we love eachother and all...well she always complains that im "ALWAYS" too horny...(all this bullshit) So yea, and "She wants more cute lovey cuddley time" (i mean WTF!?) And i was like soo why cant we atleast "do something" once a week...(like on the weekend) and she was like "WHAT!! try every 2 week if your lucky!!" So umm yea...3yr relationship or no play (including seeing,touching anything and even making out) but once every 2 weeks. I think im gonna start an experiment where i dont menchon anything about "play" and not start the fist move and see how long things last....
Guys, Im killin myself here!! i mean jeeze!! 3 year relationship (where we never had this once every 2 week problem) until now....what do i do!?!?!
here are some suggestions!
www.gloryholegirlz.com
www.angelsofporn.net
www.banbgus.com
www.monstersofcock.com
www.chicktrick.com
Just some suggestions
10-31-2003 | 06:19 AM
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Originally posted by Acura3.0CL
yea..my girls like "we've been together for 3 yrs! we've got better morals and values! she said shes beggining to think that all i want from her is play...(i only want it like atleast once a week!!)
so i donno..i know shes not cheatin on me...i guess she just dosnt liek doin that stuff soo often...
i mean my bestfriend and het bestfriend are both goin out and they do stuff like everyday! and i tell my girl, "why cant we kinda be like them" and then she gets all mad cuz again she thinks all i wanty is "play" and im not happy until i get it...
i donno what to do...i dont understand what shes thinking and why only once every 2 weeks!?! ahhh!!!
(PS: and then she gets pissed when i threaten to go to buy some porn or like a playboy or somethin...lol
yea..my girls like "we've been together for 3 yrs! we've got better morals and values! she said shes beggining to think that all i want from her is play...(i only want it like atleast once a week!!)
so i donno..i know shes not cheatin on me...i guess she just dosnt liek doin that stuff soo often...
i mean my bestfriend and het bestfriend are both goin out and they do stuff like everyday! and i tell my girl, "why cant we kinda be like them" and then she gets all mad cuz again she thinks all i wanty is "play" and im not happy until i get it...
i donno what to do...i dont understand what shes thinking and why only once every 2 weeks!?! ahhh!!!
(PS: and then she gets pissed when i threaten to go to buy some porn or like a playboy or somethin...lol
Why do you let her make the demands? why are you letting her tell you when and where. I wouldnt even touch her. No normal girl is going to go that long without sex in a relationship unless 1, shes trying to get you to dump her because shes too girly to do it herself, or two shes getting it elsewhere.
has she acted like this since the beginning of the relationship or just recently.
just because you spend the weekend together doesnt mean shit.
there are 24 hours in a day. unless you are with her ALL 24 hours, there is no way you can say "shes not cheating on me"
10-31-2003 | 06:22 AM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
so answer me this, do you think its NORMAL or even healthy for a relationship where the couple has sex maybe once every month or two, and she doesnt even want you to touch her except for every 2 weeks?
Why do you let her make the demands? why are you letting her tell you when and where. I wouldnt even touch her. No normal girl is going to go that long without sex in a relationship unless 1, shes trying to get you to dump her because shes too girly to do it herself, or two shes getting it elsewhere.
has she acted like this since the beginning of the relationship or just recently.
just because you spend the weekend together doesnt mean shit.
there are 24 hours in a day. unless you are with her ALL 24 hours, there is no way you can say "shes not cheating on me"
so answer me this, do you think its NORMAL or even healthy for a relationship where the couple has sex maybe once every month or two, and she doesnt even want you to touch her except for every 2 weeks?
Why do you let her make the demands? why are you letting her tell you when and where. I wouldnt even touch her. No normal girl is going to go that long without sex in a relationship unless 1, shes trying to get you to dump her because shes too girly to do it herself, or two shes getting it elsewhere.
has she acted like this since the beginning of the relationship or just recently.
just because you spend the weekend together doesnt mean shit.
there are 24 hours in a day. unless you are with her ALL 24 hours, there is no way you can say "shes not cheating on me"
FOR THE LOVE OF GOD....GET IT THRU YOUR HEAD!!
SHE IS CHEATING ON YOU!!!!!!!!!!!
10-31-2003 | 06:40 AM
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im sorry if my bf said no kissing or anything except for once twice a week, id be pissed off as hell and i would think something was up.
and sex only once or twice a month?! shit if he wasnt already getting it elsewhere id go elsewhere to fill in that time gap
and sex only once or twice a month?! shit if he wasnt already getting it elsewhere id go elsewhere to fill in that time gap
10-31-2003 | 06:59 AM
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Originally posted by Pull_T
She's cheated on you since this thread started.
x100
She's cheated on you since this thread started.
x100
of his girl cheating on him!
10-31-2003 | 07:57 PM
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Originally posted by agui
not 2 times a week, but once every 2 months.
not 2 times a week, but once every 2 months.
11-01-2003 | 11:26 AM
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Damn, man, you have my sympathy. Twice a MONTH, thats just insane. If I was in a three year relationship (hell, a relationship in general), I'd be wanting it twice a DAY. There is something very odd going on with her, and it can't be good, especially not for you.
And her getting pissy if you want a porn or a magazine or something to fill the void, thats fucking ridiculous. Her comment about having good morals and values...
Is this a new development or has she always been into this "morals" bs?
I dunno what to tell you, man. I know you cant just go out and find someone else because three years is a long time to be with someone. But she for real is not treating you right, you don't deserve this torture!!!
And her getting pissy if you want a porn or a magazine or something to fill the void, thats fucking ridiculous. Her comment about having good morals and values...
Is this a new development or has she always been into this "morals" bs? I dunno what to tell you, man. I know you cant just go out and find someone else because three years is a long time to be with someone. But she for real is not treating you right, you don't deserve this torture!!!
11-01-2003 | 10:13 PM
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heh pull_t's thread got modded
well, i think everyone has pipped in a common suggestion, and i'd at least talk with her if nothing else...nothing is more a killer of relationships than miscommunication
well, i think everyone has pipped in a common suggestion, and i'd at least talk with her if nothing else...nothing is more a killer of relationships than miscommunication
11-02-2003 | 08:08 PM
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Since I'm sure he's heard "She's cheating" enough to understand that she probably is, I'll offer a different perspective.
Let's say she's not cheating. Then it sounds like she's decided that she feels guilty about messing around with you, even though you're in a 3 year relationship. Face it, some girls have been brought up with the idea that being physically involved with someone should be saved for marriage. Maybe she's worried that you'll only keep dating her as long as she "gives it up", and she'll regret being so physically intimate with a guy who doesn't end up marrying her.
I know all these ideas and thoughts seem pretty out-dated, but just because she was willing before doesn't mean her guilt now isn't one of the consequences for her previous actions. Just thought I'd share an idea that hasn't been re-hashed 30 times already in this thread
flame away!
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Let's say she's not cheating. Then it sounds like she's decided that she feels guilty about messing around with you, even though you're in a 3 year relationship. Face it, some girls have been brought up with the idea that being physically involved with someone should be saved for marriage. Maybe she's worried that you'll only keep dating her as long as she "gives it up", and she'll regret being so physically intimate with a guy who doesn't end up marrying her.
I know all these ideas and thoughts seem pretty out-dated, but just because she was willing before doesn't mean her guilt now isn't one of the consequences for her previous actions. Just thought I'd share an idea that hasn't been re-hashed 30 times already in this thread
flame away!edit: my 1000th post!
11-03-2003 | 05:29 AM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
you forgot that she doesnt even want to make out except once every two weeks..
you forgot that she doesnt even want to make out except once every two weeks..
11-03-2003 | 05:32 AM
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well thats why i asked him if shes done this the whole time, or if she was very sexually active for the past 3 years and then all of a sudden changed.
If she just changed, then theres a problem.
I dont understand it thought. ive been with my fiance for 3 years and i still cant keep my hands off of him..
I would think if i said shit like that he would be like WTF
If she just changed, then theres a problem.
I dont understand it thought. ive been with my fiance for 3 years and i still cant keep my hands off of him..
I would think if i said shit like that he would be like WTF
