Today me and my girl are sittin outside at a Sonic eating lunch, a really nice looking (younger) girl comes up and asks me my name and if my gf is my wife. I tell the girl my name and she tells me hers. She tells me that she sees me at the gym all the time and that i seem like a nice guy compared to all the a-holes she meets around town. She says nice to mee u both (me and my gf) and walks off.. On the way back to work my gf cops a serious attitude and is mad at me... WTF!! I didnt do anything!! What the hell is wrong with her? What should i do?

 

Sounds like she's just jealous that another girl noticed you. Give her some extra attention for a few days and tell her there's nothing to worry about.

 

hahaah pimpmeister in training!

 

switch gyms.....






just kidding. She copped an attitude cuz well, she now believes youre gonna start talking to this grl and such, and that may lead to further things. She's probably feeling slightly insecure, jealous. Buy her some roses, candy, and give her a little bow chicka wow wow...

 

No sex for you tonight...

 

If you don't know, I'm not gonna tell you

 

How old is your gf? Sounds like she felt a little threatened.

Did you introduce your gf by name or did you kind of ignore her during the conversation? I'm sure your gf's recollection/perspective of the conversation is a bit different than yours.

Regardless, after your next visit to the gym, go tell the gf that the other girl said you had a very pretty gf, whether she did, or not. Then just be sure your gf never runs into that other girl again.

 

Not unless he goes to the gym.

 

She sounds a bit jealous. Nothing serious.

 

so who looks better your gf or this girl?

 

she is jealous, girls are protective like that

 

damn good question!

anywho..yep sounds like your girl is a tad bit jealous. tell her its nothing to worry about. theh girls that approched you seems to be respectful of the fact that you have a girl..so let your girl know that. if she had no respect she wudnt have asked it that was your girl or not. my

 

baller!

 

Go back to gym. Find girl. Hit it. Change gyms.

 

amen to that!

 

My girl is 30 and very nice looking. I would give her a 8.99999 on a 1-10 scale (not gonna post pictures so dont ask )
The other girl is prolly in her mid to early 20's and prolly a solid 9 (Nicer rack and a little taller than my girl).

I did intro my girl after i gave her my name and they both said Hi. I didnt catch the attitude until we were leaving.

I just think its a case of her being jelous and still not over turning the big 30!

I will do a little smoozing tonight and tell her all the crap girls like to hear to make her feel all warm and fuzzy inside.

 

how about if you see this girl again? then what? well if you don't want to post pics describe both of these girls to us, blonde/brunette?

 

Trust me his girl is very good looking... I am good friends with the poster and he has very good taste in women.

That and I think if you just go see her and give her a single rose that she will get over it maybe by tomorrow. LOL

 

That sounds like a good idea. She's just jealous, that's all. No prob. I am sure she is wonderful otherwise. Like you said, just make her feel special and that's all that needs to be done by you.

I like the way that girl walked up though. Baller my dude, sheer baller!

 

haha sounds like a good fix and you got a good plan, my man

she has nothing to worry about, is beautiful, you love her, etc.

 

My girl is mixed 1/2 Puerto Rican and 1/2 cuban, she's about 5-4 with a slim/athletic build, greenish brown eyes and medium length hair (cut like Bechams wife). She says shes a small C cup or full B (doesnt matter.. becuase they work for me!). She weighs about 120 and has the nicest 30 yr old @$$ u will ever wanna see!!

I dont know what the other girl was -- she looked like she might have been mixed also, or maybe just very light skinned black. Pretty face kinda looked like Aaliyah but a little fuller. I was sitting down so she was prolly 5-6 or 5-7. Nice rack! Had to be D cups and she smelled really good. I didnt dare turn around and watch her walk away so i dont know what she had out back but she had some hips so i would guess she had somehting going on.

 

Your girl probably read your mind so she got insanely jealous

I bet she'll start worrying every time you hit the gym, knowing that the other girl will probably talk to you again.

 

Whats weird is that i dont remember ever seeing this girl at the gym... There are some fine women at the gym and i "ocasionally" say "Hi" to a few but never strike up conversation or anything.. My girl and her younger sister have started going with me so im sure i will get popped upside the head if this girl walks past me and i do anything other than look straight ahead and continue what i was doing.

I better invest in some chap stick because i have a feeling that i am gonna be kissing some booty after the gym tonight..

 

 

we will have none of that here! lol

 

All quoted info above should tell you that your lady is a little jealous and insecure. Yes, I think everyone else is right- a bit of extra attention should fix your lady right up, and might even be of great benefit to you.

 

Wow. D Cups, nice body, HOT? I'd tap that.

 

Another woman walks right up to while you are sitting next to your girl and starts a conversation? wow.

 

Ooooo, thats good. I'm filing that one away for future use.

 

The question isn't what's wrong with her its whats wrong with you! You gotta tap that double D's man! nah but in all seriousness she's just super jealous and threatened by the younger feline.

 

hahahha

 

OK.. I finally found out why my gf went a little psycho on me yesterday. She said she saw the girl looking at me "like i was something good to eat". My girl said she saw me look at the girl and smile at her. I dont even remember looking in the girls direction!!.. Well anyway -- my girl tells me she "thought" she saw me make eye contact and smile (again) at the girl right before she came over. She thought that we might have already met or the girl was just coming over to "check out the compitition". Im 36 yrs old and still dont have a clue how womens minds work

After the gym (the other girl wasnt there) I took my girl out for smoothies (Jamba Juice), we just chilled and walked and talked. I think she is cool now. (hopefully).

I think I need to invest in some good sunglasses so that she cant see where my eyes are looking. That would have saved me a HUGE headache!

 

If you are 36 and going through this kind of drama you need to:
A Stay Single
B Kill the GF and see A
C End yourself.

 

And you didn't lick your lips while you looked...

 

My girl has the traditional Puerto Rican temper! If i would have looked the slightest bit interested she would have had me walking back to work. Its too damn hot to be walking down a blacktop highway.

 

Way to go man! Thats the best when you don't have to do anything and they come to you!

 

It feels good to have younger women checking u out and try to spark up conversation from time to time. Its weird what a gym membership and the loss of a beer belly can get you

 

 

get her some flowers and

 

My thoughts exactly!


Mother F'in Not that age really matters but, at 36, I would hope I wouldnt be asking a message board what to do in a situation like this.