Today, my awesome cousin drops by to see how I'am doing and to tell me that a machine needs to be repaired and Goldcoin is going to fix it, so I have to go to Queens to supervise. He sees that Im somewhat still not back to normal, and hes like "I know what will cheer you up". The man gives me the keys to his car...a 2004 SL500 with AMG sport package and says "keep it for the weekend" I was quite happy, in fact my face was like this most of the day. So...anyways, after a week and not a damn word. My source calls to say that Kenz will be going on a date with one of my acquaintances...an SJU Law School Asswipe, Wannabe Poser named Justin. and they're gonna go to MY favorite restaurant...Asia De Cuba. Im actually not even worried about this because I know this guy has no game what so ever. However, I still got my crew on recon for tomarrow, but I was thinking about showing up there like I didnt know and freaking this dude out But I also have the thought in the back of my mind that this is a setup to prove that "Im jealous" or to see "how it feels" to be cheated on. I dont know What do you guys think?

 

Definitely sounds like a revenge date to me. I say drive up to the restaurant in the SL.

 

Oh Im seriously thinking about it, but I think Im gonna need a female escort to piss her off.

 

Depends on what you want to accomplish mang.

I wouldn't take a female escort if you want to work stuff out.

If you don't give a rat's ass, then take one. Jealousy can be a powerful tool. I'm going to also mention that it's an evil, evil game to play though. Sometimes it backfires.

I guess, bottom line is, let her do her thing. Keep things cool. Maybe ask her out for grub or something after her "date" and be coy about it. Play it smart and you'll be ok.

It may be a revenge date or it just may be that she wants some time to sort shit out and hang out with some dude. If you ain't worried about the game he is going to try and kick, no point in showing up.

 

Dude, based on the reasons she broke it off with you....definately a revenge date. Just let her be for now. If you show up or drive by, she's just going to think you're pethetic.

 

yea u don't wanna look like a stalker

 

Be Cool, the guys are right, she is not going to come back if you even show up, give her some space.

 

Recon...


yeahmmmk

 

Yeah give her time to think and see if it's worth keeping you around. Women don't get attached to a new guy to quick anyway. Quick to fall in love, slow to fall out of love.

 

Don't play stupid games. If you want her back, that is definitely not the way to accomplish it. A better and more mature way would probably be to simply talk to her about the situation between the two of you and speak of it honestly. If the both of you want to get back together, it will only happen by working things out. If you really don't want anything to do with her anymore or don't want to get back together, then leave her alone, let her live her life, and worry about your own too....not hers.

 

I agree. You already pissed her off by cheating on her. You don't need to do it again because she's going out on a date.

Just let her be, and once she realizes what a tool the other guy is, she'll know what she's missing. If you show up there with a date, she'll know that you were jealous, or she might even think that you're not sorry for cheating on her.

I say stay away from her, especially with other females. If you bring that girl with you, she might think that that's the one that you cheated on her with and that you're still seeing her. I doubt she'll want to get back together then.

Oh and playing those "if you do this then I'll do that" games is so high school.

 

I still think she was other guys when you were other girls. When you are busy trying to sneak around its easier for the other to do it.

Oh and isn't it amazing how fast a girl can get a new guy? I dumped a girl after a year of dating and next week she had a new bf. So I'm sure she was him long before I ended it.

 

you may be able to get all the hoe's you want... but damn you're retarded.

 

You cheat on her and now you are worried about who she is seeing

 

asia de cuba, i was there last year pretty cool place

 

I thought your ex-gf's dont exist to you

 

big fuckin and something I and others have been saying for some time

 

Stay away from the restaurant, just go out and party. Don't drunk dial or text, just be cool. Things will work out. I would send her a text to start communication. Something along the lines like how are you, hope all is well, wouldn't mind seeing you. But on saturday afternoon, no Friday night.

 

Wow what a :ghey: thread.

 

Xena =

 

And that avatar has got to go, used the blond chik.

 

As OT as this is...Does anyone else crave pics of the SL500?

I think talking about that is more important!

 

It's fucking plain and simple guys. No matter how good look a guy is, a girl who's decent looking (needless to say Xenogen's girl is HOT) can get a date anywhere if she chooses to. Her going out on a date this soon can be only 2 reasons. Like mentioned above "revenge date" or "been cheating on you since". Now I wouldn't go up to her and confront about it, if I were you.. I'd give her space and let her be.
If you truly love her, you wouldn't have fucked another girl in the first place (that's a different topic though), now I suggest you get over her, give her some time to think about it (date other guys, maybe they'll be assholes and she'll come back running to you; maybe not)
There are so many hot chicks out there, if you think you're "the shit", you can go out there and find another hot chick like her or better than her.

(oh, her revenge date, she might give him a blow job )

 

Well-said.

 

Yeah stay away, rollin up in any kind of car with any dime-piece will only make you look like even more of a pathetic loser in her eyes. That's very high schoolish in my opinion. Obviously it's just a rebound for her, so I wouldnt worry about it too much.

 

Grow up, please.

 

I still can't believe that you broke up with her.

 

Xeno, please do NOT show up at the restaurant or show up at the restaurant with another chick. You're just going to make things worse. You're obviously pissed that she's going on a date with someone else, so I would recommend remembering this feeling. Let her be and later on let her know that you were upset that she went out with someone else, i.e. you learned your lesson.

 

Well said...

Hopefully she bangs the hell out this other guy.

 

And I wish to be the other guy

 

I would be willing to bet everything in my savings account that she does. (it's all Scott's money in my savings right now, so what do I have to lose???)

No, in all seriousness though, I can see her doing that on a revenge date... it's not quite as devious as sleeping with the dude, but it's damn close and it's liberating at the same time.

I don't think you've gotten much advice from a girl's perspective yet (although I know other females have posted in the other thread). If I were Kenz, I would be... beside myself. Especially had I been completely faithful to you for the entire course of our relationship. Just the mere THOUGHT of some other little bitch's grubby little hands on my man's junk is enough to make me want to leap out of my skin and hit the ceiling. The idea that you wouldn't be satisfied with me and would have to go to other women for fulfillment would be SUCH an ego blow... I would forever wonder why I wasn't good enough, sexy enough, skinny enough, nice enough, etc.

And if someone were to ask me out shortly after finding this out, I would DEFINITELY go out with him, if not for revenge, then at the very LEAST to prove to myself that I've "still got it." And honestly, talk is cheap, actions speak louder than words, and let's face it, gentlemen, a lady knows when the dynamic changes from "wow she's pretty cute" to "Oh. My. God. She. Is. A. Goddess." I would say that Kenz wants, no, NEEDS that self-affirmation. She will probably never, ever, ever be able to trust you again. Maybe if it were a one-time thing, but to learn that you'd been doing that for months, with multiple partners? No. Fucking. Way.

Not only did you leave her open to catching all sorts of diseases from the club sluts you were fucking, you betrayed her trust, shattered her self-esteem, and basically ruined her life. If she gets back together with you after this, she is desperate, stupid, and pathetic. I would suggest that you gently suggest the name of a therapist to her, and go find someone else to screw, because you've done enough to this girl.

Next time, next girl, decide at the beginning whether you intend to be faithful or not, and then stick to it. If you ever get the SERIOUS urge to cheat, then be a man, do the honorable thing, and break up with her first.

 

PS I know that sounds bitchy up there, but I meant it in the tone of voice I would use if I were talking to a brother or something... it's a harsh sentiment, but I don't mean to use harsh words.

 

On that note tho, the SL is not his. So, that's kinda in my books...But, hey, I think cheating isn't cool either...so, what do I know?

 

yea, I mean; it's not like she's gonna see him in this SL and go, wow he got a new car and shit.


No she's gonna laugh and point out to her date the pathetic loser that use to be her boyfriend

 

Well you have to use force sometimes to get your point across. I think it would be good if kenz received this letter in her mailbox, it would be a good read for her. i bet she's having trouble putting her feelings into words right now & needs some direction in her relationships at this point.

 

So, let's say Xeno shows up in the SL500 with a "date"...

Xeno: "Whoa...that's my Ex! Let's go say hi...Hey, [insert name of cheatee]...!"
Cheatee: "Hey @$$wipe. WTF are you doing here. Nice car. When did you get it?"
Xeno: "I got it yesterday...Miss me, yet?"
Cheatee: "How'd you get the car? Cuz, I know after being with you for so long, you can't afford it."
Xeno: "...Um...Er...Um...It's my cousin's."
Xeno's "Date": "You're driving your cousins car around?!?? *scoffs* Loser."
Cheatee: "Loser? Worse. He's a cheater."
Xeno: "Um. Yeah. I think I should...um...go...now."

 

eh, I doubt she's having any trouble using her legs, she'll need some good rest after tonight though

 

If only her date was a member here. We'd ask for pics or threaten with bannage!

 

I don't think I'm reading you Scotty....

 

ehh n/m, i think i got it