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Old Dec 11, 2005 | 12:53 AM
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Is this messed up?

I'll keep this short since I'll be cutting out alot of the details.

This girl sees me on an online site and decides to email me... Cool, she's cute and young (20yr) and she invites me to her company party, I decline... And when its my company party I decided to invite her as a nice gesture... Keep in mind I never met this girl in person. So, we agree to meet up.

When I did meet up with her, my jaws drop. Not that she was hot but standing next to her was her male friend who was 26yrs old... I was like WTF! Ok so I didnt want to ruin the day for anyone, so all 3 of us went to see a movie before the company party...

In the movie I did nothing but think up of a way to escape this disaster of a date nicely... and luckiy I did, I told them I had only reserved 2 seats for me and her so her friend was out of luck, and to make it look real I made a bogus phone call to a co-worker, (I called him up earlier to warn him that I will call him later and to help me out)... and when all 3 of us were in the car I call my co-worker up and he said no I cannot bring more than I had reserve, which was 2... they both heard my co-worker said this since it was in the car and it was on speaker phone.

Unlucky date, but lucky escape from a potential horrible date!

Some people just piss me off, are they that dumb? Who brings a guy friend on a date?
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Old Dec 11, 2005 | 01:31 AM
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She brought her boyfriend on your date? hahahahhaha

Slick move with the fake phone call though.
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Old Dec 11, 2005 | 01:37 AM
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its not her boyfriend, she said its her friend... she also said that the reason was that she didnt know if I was a "nice" guy and that I might do something so she brought him along, WTF? Dont meet me if you dont feel safe!

Another thing that ticked me off was that she had the nerve to say "you got me covered right?" at the movie theater... Stupid hoe!
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Old Dec 11, 2005 | 01:40 AM
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There have been lots of cases where people meet up and things dont go so well....She was just being safe. Would you call her again? I guess thats all the matters....right
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Old Dec 11, 2005 | 04:19 AM
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lol
and i wonder what she had to do to convine him to come with her, what a dumb ass for going with her hahahahaha
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Old Dec 11, 2005 | 09:45 AM
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Maybe she doesn't have much experience with dating. She probably wanted to feel safe meeting someone for the 1st time. She should just have brought a female friend instead though.
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Old Dec 11, 2005 | 12:04 PM
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hahaha omg , what a dumb ass girl....

sporting did you end up paying for her at the movie's ??

Lord I hope not
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Old Dec 11, 2005 | 12:26 PM
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Originally Posted by amisconception
lol
and i wonder what she had to do to convine him to come with her, what a dumb ass for going with her hahahahaha
That's not a tough one to figure out, he wants to her she doesn't want to, but he remains hopeful. Like any girl in her shoes she uses him every chance she can, I bet he may have even bought her a purse. I do think girls do this unintentionally, they just can't be mean to some people, in particular those who care about them.

As its been said before girls=, woman=
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Old Dec 11, 2005 | 02:41 PM
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Originally Posted by abp02type s
hahaha omg , what a dumb ass girl....

sporting did you end up paying for her at the movie's ??

Lord I hope not
Unforunately, I did! She caught me off guard when she said, "you got me covered right?"

But it was only 7.50.
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Old Dec 11, 2005 | 05:37 PM
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Originally Posted by sasha
Maybe she doesn't have much experience with dating. She probably wanted to feel safe meeting someone for the 1st time. She should just have brought a female friend instead though.


The "you got me covered right?" thing is BS.
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Old Dec 11, 2005 | 05:55 PM
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That's pretty crazy. Good backup plan though.
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Old Dec 11, 2005 | 06:13 PM
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Menage a trois?
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Old Dec 11, 2005 | 06:16 PM
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Originally Posted by sporting
Another thing that ticked me off was that she had the nerve to say "you got me covered right?" at the movie theater... Stupid hoe!
Tickled, not ticked off, you meant.
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Old Dec 11, 2005 | 06:50 PM
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Originally Posted by M TYPE X
Tickled, not ticked off, you meant.
ticked=pissed off
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Old Dec 11, 2005 | 06:52 PM
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You inviting someone from the internet you've never met to your company party is dumber than anything else I read in that story.
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Old Dec 11, 2005 | 07:15 PM
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Originally Posted by Always Dirty
You inviting someone from the internet you've never met to your company party is dumber than anything else I read in that story.
I dont see anything wrong?
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Old Dec 11, 2005 | 07:25 PM
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Originally Posted by sporting
I dont see anything wrong?
You've never met her before and you're going to parade her around in front of your coworkers? You've got a fucked up perspective, dude.
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Old Dec 11, 2005 | 07:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Always Dirty
You've never met her before and you're going to parade her around in front of your coworkers? You've got a fucked up perspective, dude.
I guess that is your perspective...
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Old Dec 11, 2005 | 07:46 PM
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Originally Posted by sporting
I guess that is your perspective...
It's a common sense perspective - you type some shit to a girl online, invite her to come hang out with you early enough to see a movie and later go to your company party, and you think it's strange that she brought a dude along in case you were some sort of nutjob? Here's some advice - if you want things to go smoothly, bring a girl you know or go solo. Company christmas parties aren't the place to be meeting a date for the first time. The fact that you're shocked by how it turned out is what I find mind boggling.
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Old Dec 11, 2005 | 07:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Always Dirty
You inviting someone from the internet you've never met to your company party is dumber than anything else I read in that story.
thats a good point...she could have been some huge fat fucking slob white trash and you want your coworkers and boss to see this?? Doesn't really make a good impression on you, no matter what you think.
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Old Dec 11, 2005 | 07:47 PM
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I was in a similar situation like this a few months ago. I was talking to a girl online for a few weeks, we would talk to each other for hours continuously, and I really thought I might have something there. She invited me out to a club for her friend's birthday, and since I was going to be out in Manhattan that night with my friends, I decided to go meet her. She invited me, gave me her phone number, I thought that things were good and I was set.

I get there, dressed all nice and stuff (she knew what I looked like already), I ask her if she wants to go hang out and dance, and she tells me she couldn't leave her friends. I got snubbed pretty badly. I ended up paying $25 admission just to get in, I spoke to the girl for two minutes, dragged three of my boys with me so there's $75 right there they had to pay, and I didn't even get to dance or hook up or even talk to the girl for more than a minute all because of her friends. I spoke to her a month after it happened, and she told me that when I met up with her she thought I was trying to take her away from her friends and that the only thing we could've done was hang out in one big group. No shit, sherlock. Stupid ass.

Forget this girl and move on. I love how some of these girls like to drag friends into the picture when they first meet you because they're afraid you're going to be a lunatic. I guess no one has ever heard of public places.
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Old Dec 11, 2005 | 08:35 PM
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Some of you guys really go the distance. Next time I need someone to invest in a startup company with no assets, I'll call you and promise "great profit" if you stick your necks out.

As usual, AD knows the fine etiquette of social meetings.
I'm sure he never drinks at company parties.
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Old Dec 11, 2005 | 08:37 PM
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As usual, AD knows the fine etiquette of social meetings.

Sit down in a "prime" seat near the bar with no pants on early in the night and you've got a seat for the duration.
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Old Dec 16, 2005 | 11:00 AM
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online site , ?
1st mistake,.........you should have at least checked out her company party, maybe it was payback,........most girls have no sense anyway, nevermind at 20 ............99.9% of online is garbage.
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Old Dec 16, 2005 | 01:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Always Dirty
You inviting someone from the internet you've never met to your company party is dumber than anything else I read in that story.


should have met her for coffee first.

some hot coffee
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Old Dec 16, 2005 | 02:13 PM
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This story starts off bad and just spirals to a death like I've never seen before.
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Old Dec 16, 2005 | 03:10 PM
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This story starts off bad and just spirals to a death like I've never seen before.
I can't believe that she brought a friend, but I can't believe that you invited her to your party. So did she leave with him instead of going to the party?
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Old Dec 16, 2005 | 06:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Tireguy
That's not a tough one to figure out, he wants to her she doesn't want to, but he remains hopeful. Like any girl in her shoes she uses him every chance she can, I bet he may have even bought her a purse. I do think girls do this unintentionally, they just can't be mean to some people, in particular those who care about them.

As its been said before girls=, woman=

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Old Dec 19, 2005 | 11:07 AM
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She probably brought her date from her company party...
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Old Dec 19, 2005 | 11:14 AM
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Did you pay for his movie ticket as well?
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Old Dec 19, 2005 | 11:15 AM
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Originally Posted by SpeedyV6
Menage a trois?
:dp: Just tell him not to touch you in any way.

I'm usually only cool with the FFM 3-way. I know it's a double-standard, but that's just my preference.
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Old Dec 19, 2005 | 02:06 PM
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Originally Posted by kurt_bradley
:dp: Just tell him not to touch you in any way.

I'm usually only cool with the FFM 3-way. I know it's a double-standard, but that's just my preference.
So its better when you leghump TME and Stiffy at the same time, rather than you and Jatt double-teaming Kawaii?
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Old Dec 19, 2005 | 02:10 PM
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Youre lucky that your friend played along....if it were one of my friends I would have been salivating at the chance to fuck with him on speakerphone and say it was fine to bring as many people as he wanted.
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Old Dec 19, 2005 | 03:49 PM
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Originally Posted by JimmyCarter
So its better when you leghump TME and Stiffy at the same time, rather than you and Jatt double-teaming Kawaii?
Now you're getting it. Though I do have a current GF that takes care of my needs. Stiffy knows about her already. Actually, Stiffy thought she was hot.
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Old Dec 20, 2005 | 02:53 AM
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im surprised no one has done it yet:

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Old Dec 21, 2005 | 09:17 AM
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Originally Posted by Always Dirty
You've never met her before and you're going to parade her around in front of your coworkers? You've got a fucked up perspective, dude.
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