alright to make a long story short i just parted ways a month ago with my ex we were together for 13 months BUT ANYWANY i was at a barbeque with some friendson labor day and this girl that i have known for about a year was overthere my friends told me she liked me well i had one to many she didnt drink at all so i go to lay in the bed and she follows me in there and we start kissing fooling around i didnt sleep with her but we have been talking since sunday she is really cool down to earth BUT SHE IS 17 I AM 20 WHAT WOULD U GUYS DO

 

Find out first when she turns 18 man!!! Then take it from there.

 

17 is legal here though

 

I'll be 20 in a few weeks myself, and I wish California was like that . What state are you in? That might help you out a lil more as to waht can/can't be done w/ her. All I can say is, dont fuck till you know ALL your shit, then have fun

 

wait..... for your own sake. maybe you'll be wearing some jewlery soon if you know what i mean

 

go for it, 3 years isnt that much-

 

3 years isn't too bad

17 is legal here, i would tap it

 

this is what you do:

Just pretend she is a college girl that never told you how old she is.

 

There ain't a problem w/ gettin a chick that old at your age.....................as long as she is "legal". I was with a 16 year old, and dam was that a mistake. Luckily I didn't fuck her, or she woulda owned my ass.

 

i live in louisiana i found out tonight that she doesnt turn 18 until june and i turn 21 in may I WANT OUT BUT I DONT WANT TO GET IN TROUBLE

 

Just be friends with her, be respectful, dont try to lead her on. If you treat her like shit, then she'll have more reason to do bad things, if not, she'll most likely let you go, unless she turns out like them psycho path crazy women.

 

im going to tell her when she calls me that everything is going to fast for me because if i dont I WILL END UP HITTING IT HOW SHOULD I I JUST DONT WANT TO GET IN TROUBLE BUT I ALSO DONT WANT A GIRLFRIEND

 

allright man, take it easy, dont trip, you didn't fuck her right? If you didn't, take a breather. Shit man, you think you were trippin pretty bad, how you think I was when I was w/ the 16 year old?

Dont lead her on, whatever you do. Take it slow, if she tries to pull a move, tell her u dont feel comfortable, and if she tries to put that shit on you that you didn't have a problem that first nite when u macked w/ her, then tell her that you had a few beers and you get careless when you tend to drink alot.

 

well she wanted me to come swimming with her tonight and i told her that i would call her back and i didnt its now 2:00 am and i havent heard from her so i guess she dont care either I HOPE I JUST DONT WANT A RELATIONSHIP AND THAT SEEMS WHAT I ALWAYS GET I FALL IN TO DEEP AND IM STUCK PERSAY

 

you shoulda declined it instead of callin her back, but hopefully she'll get the message. You dont want to end the friendship like that, but from what you say, this might be better. GE, you should learn how to control what you want to do, and what you want with a gurl.

 

I DIDNT CALL HER BACK the only reason why i didnt blow her off was because of the age diff i thought i could get in trouble THANKS FOR THE ADVICE