Dating & Relationships Love sucks. Now you can cry about it…
View Poll Results: lights on or off?
lights on.. i like to watch
12.70%
lights off.. i'm f-ing an ugly girl/guy
6.35%
lights off.. for whatever other reason
3.17%
lights dimmed.. sets the mood/can still see
63.49%
don't care
14.29%
Voters: 63. You may not vote on this poll

lights on or off??

Thread Tools
 
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 01:07 PM
  #1  
supermegaglossy's Avatar
Thread Starter
Go Noles!
 
Joined: Jun 2004
Posts: 980
Likes: 0
From: Estero/Tallahassee, FL
lights on or off??

when you're in the bedroom, do you like the lights on or off for foreplay/sex?

personally, i like to be able to see what's going on, but some people like pitch blackness?? weird...

post!
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 01:11 PM
  #2  
phipark's Avatar
Not Asian
 
Joined: Jul 2003
Posts: 13,409
Likes: 1
From: St. Louis
I like the lights on, but I've been with a few girls that like the lights dimmed, not off, just low.
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 01:16 PM
  #3  
mesmerize's Avatar
*~ i am a girl ~*
 
Joined: Aug 2003
Posts: 694
Likes: 0
From: Columbia, SC
definitely lights dimmed... or candles or somethin like that. makes it more cozy & stuff, but i can still see what/who i'm doin. *sigh* i'm such a girl. :P
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 01:23 PM
  #4  
Minch00's Avatar
Pit Stop?
 
Joined: May 2003
Posts: 13,526
Likes: 1
From: Orlando FL
I'm an ugly bastard, so if I ever get into that situation (cough) then it'll be lights out, most definetly.
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 01:30 PM
  #5  
stockcl's Avatar
10th Gear
 
Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 11
Likes: 0
From: earth
whoever likes it off is b/c they are insecure about themselves
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 01:31 PM
  #6  
sasha's Avatar
Suzuka Master
 
Joined: Jun 2004
Posts: 6,251
Likes: 71
From: D.istrict of C.orruption
Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
when you're in the bedroom, do you like the lights on or off for foreplay/sex?

personally, i like to be able to see what's going on, but some people like pitch blackness?? weird...

post!
No preference. Depends on my mood, I guess.
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 01:32 PM
  #7  
1killercls's Avatar
GEEZER
 
Joined: Jan 2003
Posts: 44,444
Likes: 2,227
From: Dunedin, Fla.
Dimmed...but I like to see...
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 02:02 PM
  #8  
phipark's Avatar
Not Asian
 
Joined: Jul 2003
Posts: 13,409
Likes: 1
From: St. Louis
Originally Posted by Minch00
I'm an ugly bastard, so if I ever get into that situation (cough) then it'll be lights out, most definetly.
I guess she should've added the choice of "lights off...i'm fucking ugly"
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 02:06 PM
  #9  
klepto's Avatar
Senior Moderator
 
Joined: Jul 2002
Posts: 12,005
Likes: 10
From: Bay Area, CA
dimmed
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 02:23 PM
  #10  
UNCTYPE-S's Avatar
Above n Beyond
 
Joined: Sep 2003
Posts: 6,520
Likes: 132
From: CHICAGO
i'll do it under the sun or moon, doesnt matter for me. the sex will be good eitherway
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 02:53 PM
  #11  
Waddy's Avatar
Who's the masta?!...I AM!
 
Joined: Oct 2003
Posts: 1,673
Likes: 0
From: Houston, TX
Dimmed because its a good halfway point for me and the chick. Most chciks like pitch black because they are too self-concious about their bodies. I like lights on because I want to see everything, so dimmed usually works.

Unless I'm banging a vampire-slut, then it's lights off, fortunately I ahven't had too much of those.

vampire-slut = ugly bitch that needs to be banged in the dark and you need to be away from her ugly-ass before the sun comes up.
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 03:11 PM
  #12  
Miss iVTEC's Avatar
Wanna See My 'Cuda?!
 
Joined: Sep 2003
Posts: 463
Likes: 0
From: Jacksonville FL
It depends on the mood I guess. If it's this wild do-it-like-animals thing then the lights will probably be on cuz we were in too much of a hurry to turn them off. If it's supposed to be a romantic thing then I would go with some dimmed lighting of some sort.
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 03:46 PM
  #13  
ding069's Avatar
acura-cl.com OG
 
Joined: Oct 2002
Posts: 5,348
Likes: 1
From: Rhode Is Land?
Depends on the mood. Mostly dimmed lights so you can see whats up, but in the dark with teasing can be kinky sometimes.
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 03:54 PM
  #14  
JLai's Avatar
Cause stock sux.
 
Joined: Oct 2001
Posts: 3,968
Likes: 0
From: FL
Lights off...Lave lamp on. I guess that counts as lights dimmed.
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 05:23 PM
  #15  
klepto's Avatar
Senior Moderator
 
Joined: Jul 2002
Posts: 12,005
Likes: 10
From: Bay Area, CA
Originally Posted by ding069
Depends on the mood. Mostly dimmed lights so you can see whats up, but in the dark with teasing can be kinky sometimes.
until you realize thats not her touching you anymore
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 05:34 PM
  #16  
ch1276's Avatar
Three Wheelin'
 
Joined: Jan 2002
Posts: 1,994
Likes: 0
From: New Jersey
dimmed...i like to see what's going on
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 05:34 PM
  #17  
ding069's Avatar
acura-cl.com OG
 
Joined: Oct 2002
Posts: 5,348
Likes: 1
From: Rhode Is Land?
Originally Posted by KLepTo
until you realize thats not her touching you anymore
Yeah, its her girlfriend whos down got teh threesome
I wish.....
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 06:00 PM
  #18  
Red-CL's Avatar
Doin' da crack shuffle
 
Joined: Dec 2002
Posts: 10,847
Likes: 0
From: Philly and Bowie
Lights on.

I wanna see it all.
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 06:46 PM
  #19  
anothercls's Avatar
Suzuka Master
 
Joined: Dec 2003
Posts: 7,103
Likes: 1
My lights are on, but she is usually passed out, so I don't know how to respond...
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 08:32 PM
  #20  
Nicky Pass's Avatar
Fuct in the hed!
 
Joined: Sep 2001
Posts: 14,057
Likes: 4
From: Chicagoland-ish
ON....I like to watch it go in and out!!!
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 08:34 PM
  #21  
dallison's Avatar
registered pw
20 Year Member
Liked
Loved
Community Favorite
 
Joined: Aug 2003
Posts: 38,859
Likes: 366
From: south central pa
dimmed, or on
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 08:37 PM
  #22  
sasha's Avatar
Suzuka Master
 
Joined: Jun 2004
Posts: 6,251
Likes: 71
From: D.istrict of C.orruption
Originally Posted by anothercls
My lights are on, but she is usually passed out, so I don't know how to respond...
She is usually passed out? Why???
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 11:15 PM
  #23  
rise's Avatar
Suzuka Master
 
Joined: Jul 2001
Posts: 6,010
Likes: 1
night-vision goggles anyone?
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 11:28 PM
  #24  
anothercls's Avatar
Suzuka Master
 
Joined: Dec 2003
Posts: 7,103
Likes: 1
Originally Posted by sasha
She is usually passed out? Why???

It was a joke...

Normally it depends on everything, especially who it is....

Earlier tonight I was talking about how in Alaska for a few months a year you'd walk out of the bar and realize how ugly the person you left was. Then during another part of the year you'd be able to leave the bar whenever and not know what they looked like....
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 11:38 PM
  #25  
sasha's Avatar
Suzuka Master
 
Joined: Jun 2004
Posts: 6,251
Likes: 71
From: D.istrict of C.orruption
Originally Posted by anothercls

Then during another part of the year you'd be able to leave the bar whenever and not know what they looked like....
As my guy friends would say: "Uh, how did the girl I met at the bar last night look like again? I had my beer goggles on...'

<in the bar>

<a few hours later...>
<in the morning when u wake up> --->

Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 11:58 PM
  #26  
Minch00's Avatar
Pit Stop?
 
Joined: May 2003
Posts: 13,526
Likes: 1
From: Orlando FL
Originally Posted by Got Rice?
Lights off...Lave lamp on. I guess that counts as lights dimmed.
Man I gotta find my lava lamp.......I wonder where it is.....
Reply
Old Jul 10, 2004 | 11:59 PM
  #27  
Minch00's Avatar
Pit Stop?
 
Joined: May 2003
Posts: 13,526
Likes: 1
From: Orlando FL
Originally Posted by phipark
I guess she should've added the choice of "lights off...i'm fucking ugly"
Damn, I thought the choice was on there, I picked the wrong one
Reply
Old Jul 11, 2004 | 12:22 AM
  #28  
anothercls's Avatar
Suzuka Master
 
Joined: Dec 2003
Posts: 7,103
Likes: 1
Originally Posted by sasha
As my guy friends would say: "Uh, how did the girl I met at the bar last night look like again? I had my beer goggles on...'

<in the bar>

<a few hours later...>
<in the morning when u wake up> --->


My friend had that happen in Wyoming.
Reply
Old Jul 11, 2004 | 02:12 AM
  #29  
sasha's Avatar
Suzuka Master
 
Joined: Jun 2004
Posts: 6,251
Likes: 71
From: D.istrict of C.orruption
Originally Posted by anothercls
My friend had that happen in Wyoming.
Funny shit, isn't it? That's why never get too intoxicated when out in a bar (or at least have one friend who can "double check" things for you)...

Reply
Old Jul 11, 2004 | 02:22 AM
  #30  
GeishaGirl's Avatar
Diamonds are forever...
 
Joined: Dec 2001
Posts: 6,851
Likes: 0
Depends on the mood, the lights down low usually works for me. I don't like to do it in the night with bright lights on though, for some reason it ruins the mood for me.
Reply
Old Jul 11, 2004 | 08:48 AM
  #31  
Bulldog01's Avatar
Masshole
 
Joined: Oct 2002
Posts: 15,151
Likes: 1
From: #1 in all the land!!
Reply
Old Jul 11, 2004 | 09:40 AM
  #32  
anothercls's Avatar
Suzuka Master
 
Joined: Dec 2003
Posts: 7,103
Likes: 1
Originally Posted by sasha
Funny shit, isn't it? That's why never get too intoxicated when out in a bar (or at least have one friend who can "double check" things for you)...


We let this guy do whatever, the best part is getting pictures of him with these women and showing his latest women these, they get to laugh, and they still go home with him.
Reply
Old Jul 11, 2004 | 12:13 PM
  #33  
stockcl's Avatar
10th Gear
 
Joined: Jul 2004
Posts: 11
Likes: 0
From: earth
Originally Posted by GeishaGirl
Depends on the mood, the lights down low usually works for me. I don't like to do it in the night with bright lights on though, for some reason it ruins the mood for me.
true, very true
Reply
Old Jul 11, 2004 | 03:47 PM
  #34  
supermegaglossy's Avatar
Thread Starter
Go Noles!
 
Joined: Jun 2004
Posts: 980
Likes: 0
From: Estero/Tallahassee, FL
see, i consider myself moderately attractive, and i hope that when a guy shuts the lights off, it's not because of me
Reply
Old Jul 11, 2004 | 04:33 PM
  #35  
Waddy's Avatar
Who's the masta?!...I AM!
 
Joined: Oct 2003
Posts: 1,673
Likes: 0
From: Houston, TX
Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
see, i consider myself moderately attractive, and i hope that when a guy shuts the lights off, it's not because of me
Most guys like the lights on I would guess because it feels like you watching a porno but you're actually in in it, plus it also gives us better images for our mental rolodex for future jack-off sessions.

So sorry to say but if a guy you're with is the one to suggest turning the lights off he either (1) probably thinks you're a Vampire-Slut............or (2) he could just be self concious about his ding-a-ling size and doesn't want you to get a visual on it.

I'd keep the lights on with you though, because neither one of the reasons I gave above are true in your case or mine.
Reply
Old Jul 11, 2004 | 05:23 PM
  #36  
anothercls's Avatar
Suzuka Master
 
Joined: Dec 2003
Posts: 7,103
Likes: 1
Originally Posted by Waddy
Most guys like the lights on I would guess because it feels like you watching a porno but you're actually in in it, plus it also gives us better images for our mental rolodex for future jack-off sessions.

So sorry to say but if a guy you're with is the one to suggest turning the lights off he either (1) probably thinks you're a Vampire-Slut............or (2) he could just be self concious about his ding-a-ling size and doesn't want you to get a visual on it.

I'd keep the lights on with you though, because neither one of the reasons I gave above are true in your case or mine.

Or he could be hiding open sores....
Reply
Old Jul 11, 2004 | 06:02 PM
  #37  
Miss iVTEC's Avatar
Wanna See My 'Cuda?!
 
Joined: Sep 2003
Posts: 463
Likes: 0
From: Jacksonville FL
Originally Posted by Waddy
(2) he could just be self concious about his ding-a-ling size and doesn't want you to get a visual on it.
Hehehe.....he'll need more than the lights turned out to hide his little wee-wee.
Reply
Old Jul 12, 2004 | 12:53 AM
  #38  
98CLChick's Avatar
Safety Car
 
Joined: Dec 2003
Posts: 4,120
Likes: 0
Lights dimmed...I don't need the lights off, I am proud of my body and don't need to hide it
Reply
Old Jul 12, 2004 | 01:06 AM
  #39  
anothercls's Avatar
Suzuka Master
 
Joined: Dec 2003
Posts: 7,103
Likes: 1
Originally Posted by 98CLChick
Lights dimmed...I don't need the lights off, I am proud of my body and don't need to hide it

<---Just cause someone else will do it first. Plenty of them floating around here anyway.
Reply
Old Jul 12, 2004 | 09:12 AM
  #40  
Chief F1 Fan's Avatar
Team Owner
25 Year Member
Photogenic
Liked
Loved
 
Joined: Jan 2001
Posts: 26,224
Likes: 8,064
From: Haudenosaunee Land
Originally Posted by Waddy
vam from her ugly-ass before the sun comes up.


That's funny, I gotta remember that one.
Reply



All times are GMT -5. The time now is 03:12 AM.