to surf the internet for porn or women? I have mixed feelings about this one. Men since I know you will be in here too, why is it necessary foryou to surf porn when your woman is right at home with you???

 

Wifey aint freaky enough, wifey maybe has blown up to 250lbs and doesn't comb her hair anymore...just a couple of suggestions

 

so your saying these are the only reasons why a man would be surfing porn on the net?

 

I don't know I don't do it...maybe one of the perverts will give you a definate answer.

 

As a pervert I say its healthier then cheating
My girl gets on me about porn and I just tell her "Would you rather me beat off random harlots or go to a strip club/cheat on her."
We don't have sex as much as I am horny so hey gotta get it from somewhere.

 

hmmm interesting, so your telling me that if she gave it to you as much as you want it that you wouldn't be doing it???? are you looking more at the women or just the act itself? I mean can't you just have a wet dream or something...

 

Wet dreams are nasty, never had one never plan on having one.

Yes when we first started dating I never beat off because my dick hurt too much

As for looking at the women, meh I dunno its not like Porn chicks are my kind of hot. I like the grown and sexy with a good head on her shoulders...not a Harlot. But it is fun watching harlots. Once my penis calms down and doesnt want to have sex 3 times a day I will get rid of the porn.

 

If wet dreams would come as easily and someone would be there to clean up the mess before I wake up, that'd be pretty sweet

I agree with Jesus Juice though. Some couples just lose the sexual intensity and lack of sex can really make guys go crazy...well it does for me. But I wouldn't go cheating on my gf just to get some so I would lock the door and do my business in private. I believe this is so for most guys.

 

heh, wetdreams are quite infrequent. And jesusjuice is right, when a guy gets horny, a guy gets horny, better to jerk off to some porno, then do something stupid when your out at a club with your boys.

 

just an add on
Heres something girls dont know....
Lets say I got without beating off for 3 days (I dunno porn burns down and my hands are wounded trying to save it) Ugly girls start getting sexy and sex starts driving your mind. I dont know how many times I have done shit/think of the nastiest shit then once I bust its like....WTF was I thinking?! Seaman fucks your brain up so I get rid of it or I will start fucking fat chicks.

 

ok i can understand you guys point of view but what if you are getting some at home then what the hell is the point i mean do you watch it for fun then? i think in a way its disrespectful because its like "what the fuck am i here for" since you can handle your business without me.

 

so then you would cheat with a fat ugly chick

 

Welllllll it matters, shit do some nasty shit to keep ya man happy. I mean I still get some (once a day) but I need MOOORE I SAY!!!!!!!! Plus chicks are lazy these days, porn chicks are happy all the time "Whats that you want to cum in my mouth then have me swallow it and smile!!! OK! WHY NOT!" Real life chicks its more like get the fuck outta here with that nasty shit. Edit: When you first meet a chick she is like that then she turns cold and evil!

 

oh how nice, you guys aren't a bed of roses after the first meet either. don't be double standard now. first you want to eat the twat all the time then it becomes a treat. its not all on us you know. and tell me why do we have to be that nasty just to keep your attention on us. when's the last time you let her cum in your mouth

 

Sunday...

Anywho, your talking to the wrong person, I live off pizza and pussy and I am fat off of it . But I am young I will soon only eat pizza.

Then whats the problem? What do you want? If your man dont eat your puss then finger yourself and fall asleep, shit I tell my girl to do that shit if I am not around. I would much rather date a girl who masturbates then the type that "needs the real thing" Better be happy we beat off and stop fucking complaining. If you aint gonna be nasty then shut the fuck up and pass me a tissue....yall women complain too much yall want us to be miserable dont you? "Why does that make you happy?! NO ONLY I MUST BRING YOU HAPPINESS!"

 

ummm first of all i am very satisfied thanks. i was making a statement in general. however you guys see all this porn and get all this nasty shit in your heads that you want us to perform and then when we don't want to do it you get all upset. no one told you to go fill up your head with all those fantasies. we don't want you to be miserable i think its the other way around anyways.....whatever!!! oh and i am talking to you because you decided to give me your opinion which is greatly appreciated. Thanks!

 

 

care to share or just watch?

 

Man, women are so dumb.

 

that wasn't cool, no one was calling any names just giving a point of view.

 

Both of you have valid points, if you aren't getting none, then you gotta do your thing, its unhealthy if you don't.
On the other hand, the women will feel as if they aren't satisfying you and there is something wrong with them.

It all depends on the two people that are in a releationship. Every human has his or her needs, and they need to be fulfilled. The best thing is to talk it out with the other, and come to an agreement both can benefit from.

 

What's wrong with trying new things??? Give it a try before you blow it off..

 

nothing is wrong with trying new things i believe you should always give something a try well certain things that is. there are just some things i will pass on kind of like men, how many of you will be okay with trying to let your girl stick her finger up your ass......not many.

 

agreed. thanks for your opinions some of the ladies were discussing this at work and i thought it might be interesting to see what ya'll thought.

 

you must have a really relaxed working environment, the moment I mention anything about this topic to a fellow coworker, I am out of here.

 

please you haven't heard anything yet. some of the topics they come up with, i can't even roll with...... you name it, it has probably come up.

 

She probably works in the same office I do.

I can't comment as I've been single way too long.

 

i can guarantee you i don't. don't worry there is someone for everyone.

 

Ok i will give you that but you know what happens when I ask my girl to do crazy shit and she says no...I go beat off, or just get some quick missionary.
I understand you not wanting to do it but then why would you car if he looks at porn afterwards? Now if he says "No I dont want any sex" and stays looking at porn then hell theres a problem there. Otherwise let the bastard be nasty and beat off.

 

I don't have a problem with that as long as it's done with moderation. Also, I don't have a problem watching x-rated movies with my B/F.

I understand that men have different needs than women and sometimes just have to "take care of business". And I would rather have him look at pictures than go to strip clubs and pay for lap dances.

 

Awsome... just awsome answers... These two "points"... One Male... One Female *Assuming***... are just what this thread is all about... those two are your answers...

Like JesusJuice... I also go to porn sights... look at other girls pictures etc... but it is better to do that on the net... from a VHS/DVD... or magazine then actually going out and doing it with random woman... I wouldn't think of cheating on my wife... ever...

Looking for woman on the net though... thats a whole different subject... Chatting and going to the personals etc... now that is basicly cheating IMHO... Kind of like... If you have a gun in the car and your are driving in a neighborhood that you aren't suppose to and what not and a cop stops you with the gun... ATEMPTED MURDER... you still go to prison etc... Just a comparison...

NOW!!! here's the catch to that... if you are single and doing this... :trout: You need to get out and do those things... The Quotes above should only apply to people in relationships...

 

Agreed! Great points of view. I don't mind watching porn with my husband too, i just would feel bad if he had to go behind my back to do it. I also would rather him watch it then to go get it from someone else as well. Your right the problem is when they don't want it from you and they just want to watch porn. now that's a bummer and i feel sorry for the broad
i am just happy to not be in a situation like this where he feels the need to get his excitement elsewhere. i handles my business

 

*cough pictures are alot cheaper than divorce cough*

 

I don't see why many women (not all, I know a few who don't), have a problem with porn? Guys get horny a LOT. There's nothing wrong with him jerking off. Sometimes you just gotta. Women don't understand that when a guy doesn't get sexual relief, he will go CRAZY. Why don't you just watch porn with him and you two can masturbate together? Works for me!

 

Sorry... in my previous post i didn't answer the last question...

It is necessary for us/me to surf porn because it does give me ideas on how to pleasure our/my significant other in ways they never imagined...

Example of how Porn helped me: (sounds like an informercial... )

Before, when i first met my girl... i would of never thought of going down on her... i wouldn't know what to do... i looked around (surfed porn etc...) and found out the movements and where girls like it best and what girls don't like... so i tried this myself one night after i felt confertable with my new found "knowledge" and I found that i can make her come this way and want me even more afterwards...

Then Here on Acurazine... i remember a post about it... great tips IMHO... there are things i knew and things i didn't... I'm open in my sex life... willing to try new things... (except gay relationships or two guys ) but whatever my wife wants to do to me... its greatly welcomed at least once... just to say i tried it... and at least it was with her...

 

awesome response!!! Thanks

 

please elaborate. thanks

 

i'd much rather look at pictures of a woman that i will never meet, than to go down to the booty club lookin for some love.
with dancers/hookers/escorts anything that's face to face you're lookin for trouble. pics on the net are free for the most part, strippers...well you know how
expensive they can get.
then you run into getting attached to something that isn't real (like your favorite dancer) and you get so tied up in her, and seeing her, and paying her that your world around you takes a back seat to someone who in actuality doesn't give two 's about you. and eventually you'll end up infront of the judge.

 

Totally fine with me. I watch porn with my man.

Besides, watching porn together allows both of you to effectively show what you like and how you want to be touched.

 

You're one smart lady. Sue Johanson, move on over!