So I went with my wife, siblings and parents to a family friends house on LI this past sunday. They have a nice house on the water, with an in ground pool, jacuzzi, wave runners and a speed boat....This friend has a son that's 16 and 2 daughters, one that's 19 and one that's 21. The 21 y/o is , and the 19 y.o is . Don't ask for pics, that would be impossible for me to do w/o people getting curious as to what I was up to. Anyways, they asked me if I wanted to play beer pong with them. I didn't really know what it was (I must really be getting old), but they explained it to me, and I agreed to play. I ended up on the 19 y/o's team. Considering the hottie status and the attention I was getting, it made the wife a bit jealous. The sisters also had some of their friends over, so it was like 5 girls, and me. She was upset that I didn't ask her to play, but she doesn't drink beer, that's why I didn't ask. Did I do something wrong?
Ed

 

You didn't take pics.

 

You didn't do anything wrong. I think she just left out of place and wanted some attention from you. Give her more hot loving to compensate.

 

Invite me next time

 

I just saw a story last week that beer pong has been banned in Belmar.

Too many drunk kids hanging out in the frontyards.

I think they can still play in the backyard.

 

Next time lock wife in closet and have sex with the hotties....

 

I have a question. How did you know your wife was jealous, did she come out and say something or did you just sense it?

 

She was upset that I was playing with the "cute girls in teeny bikinis"....Those were her words....jealous ya think?

 

Meh, women are so sensitive.

 

You didn't do anything wrong. Hopefully you guys can talk it out.

Not jealous. Just insecure.

 

It's all good now, I koshered it after she complained on sunday....She's as happy as a hog in mud..

 

Depends, I guess you had to be there and since you've started thsi thread I'm sure she was jealous.

You didn't mention anything about bikini's earlier. I guess I can see how she would become jealous by you playing drinking games with barely dressed hot teens

Still can't believe you didn't take pics

 

Take pictures next time or prepare for the AZ flogging you will receive. I'm sure you can work in a camera somehow. That's why they made camera phones.

 

Yup you did something wrong. Hanging around hot chicks who pay you attention is always your fault sir.

Have run into this a number of times. Luckily my wife still hasn't realized that her younger sisters are smoking hot so there is no problem in my hanging out with them and oggling them (hey they aren't related by blood).

 

Seriously, take the situation and reverse it. She is there playing beer pong drinking beer w/ 5 in shape guys w/ no shirts on. They are laughing and having a good time. Think you'd be jealous?

I fuckin would be

 

Easily fixable by a good 30 or 40 minutes of you and her time

 

we really do need pictures to make sure they were hot though i guess,

 

she was probably more upset at being left out...

 

that pisses me off big time when i feel ignored by my bf...
i don't consider myself "needy" but when we are with "his" friends..i get mad when he doesn't make an effort to include me in the conversation...

 

just dont call her the wrong name in bed

 

I can't really consider it ignoring tho...Put this into perspective: Facilities on hand: Pool, Jacuzzi, Wave Runners, Speed Boat

She didn't bring a bathing suit because she doesn't like to swim (or to be in the water), so that counts out the pool and jacuzzi. She'll do a jacuzzi if she had the suit on, but she didn't. She definately won't go on a wave runner, she's got a fear of falling off, also because she's so close to the water. No matter how hard I tried to get her on one, I was never successful. I went on a canoe with her once, in 4 feet of water, she was shitting bricks. She prepared herself by bringing a book and basking in the hot summer sun. We did end off the day with a nice run in the speed boat, which she was with me (the other girls weren't with us, just my parents, their friend, who was the father, and my brother). She was quite happy at this point.
Ed

 

your wife sounds like a nightmare

 

Do you need a hug?

 

I hate to agree but I do.

 

I can understand why she felt left out, which is why I always offer to drink their beers if they wanted to play Plus it gets you drunk faster

 

Word..I hate to agree with Scott but your wifey sounds difficult. I would of left her home, and deal with the consequences later, but atleast have a good time.

 

yah, you have point...probably just a random bite of the green-eyed monster...nothing to get worked up over if you did just say to her "I didn't ask you to play cause you don't drink beer and thought you wanted to read. It would be cool if you did want to play "
maybe she was just having a bad day or felt cranky....

 

maybe....maybe i just wanna pout...
LOL

 

Wow...You must be a good looking guy if your wife is getting jealous. Meh...I wouldnt worry to much about it...its not like you were banging em.

 

Yeah, my ex was like this...it led to me not bringing her out with my friends anymore cause she always had a piss poor attitude and it ruined my night. Do you ever try to make an effort to include yourself in the conversation?

 

of COURSE you coulda taken pix. you've never heard of a family photo? "Hey you guys, get together for a sec so I can get a picture." Even if it was the whole family! Tsk, tsk. Use your imagination!

OK, you have your assignment.

 

Well, I did actually tell her that I didn't ask her to play because I knew she hates beer, her response was "So you could have drank my cups when I had to"...This is coming from someone who hates when I drink beer because of the breath...Oh well..But she really isn't difficult, she just isn't as actively spontaneous as I am. She will go in a pool as long as it's not deep, she just didn't want to go in around other people. When we are on vacation, she lets loose a little more, I guess she doesn't want to give anyone she knows any impressions of her..

 

Jewish women = teh impossible

 

liquor her up a bit...and she will be the one in a bikini playing beer pong.

 

Thats why I married a goyum.

 

Sounds like you've got a phobia in a jar of a wife. Let her know that if she doesn't want to do stuff that you want to, it's not your fault. You can't always be the one asking her if she wants to do something. She has to just join in and invite herself to activities.

Of course with the exception of when you are hanging out with the guys or watching sports.

There's nothing worse than a girl who:
1) Doesn't know anything asking questions about the sport (esp. football) while I'm watching.
2) Thinks she knows everything about the sport (but doesn't) (esp. football) while I'm watching.

 

This kind of situation frustrates me
and brings back bad memories

 

I'd just let your wife know that you are deeply touched that she thinks your a hottie that could turn on a 19-year old cutie.......

 

So she doesn't want to participate in any of the activities, she doesn't want anyone to "get impressions" of her (which I assume means that she doesn't want her family to think she's anything other than a perfect angel, which is understandable in light of family pressures and the orthodox lifestyle your family lives), so she actively excludes herself from the crowd, only to be upset at you when you don't, as well? That's not very fair.

But then again, I agree with Ric... blush a little, tell her you're flattered, give her a big hug and tell her that you're not interested in children when you have a woman at home, and leave it at that.

 

Yah actually SOME of his friends were capable of making polite conversation...

BUT

the others were just dicks....like i'm sitting there, never met them before, say hi, ask them about school work blah blah...get one word answers..then the whole group starts talking about way back in the day when they were 12 or 16 or whatever....everybody's exes...things i know nothing about..so when that would happen i would would just invite someone to play pool and get up from the table for awhile..I didn't sit there with a scowl on my face all nite..

And for your information i never wanted to go out with his friends...he would throw a hissy fit when i would want to do something on my own or with my friends..