My relationship just ended. I don't think we were ever on the same page. After being rejected twice, I told myself there is no point to continue. When someone tells you, not once but twice, they have no feelings for you, it's time to move on. I am heartbroken because he is a great person and I honestly thought we made a great couple but being with someone who does not reciprocate your feelings is pointless. Now, there is only pain and disappointment.

I will miss him...

 

Damn, sorry to hear that girl. I totally hear you on being with someone who doesn't reciprocate Keep your head up! This kind of reminds me of a line from the Joy Luck Club: Losing him does not matter, for it is you who will be found and cherished

 

Sorry to hear eve Hopefully you'll come outta this a better person Never settle for LESS!

 

Not to be harsh, but the sooner you realize you lost your own illusion of a relationship (an illusion the other person obviously did not share) and not a real relationship the quicker you will move on.

Next time, move on after the first time being told there are no feelings for you.

Mike

 

But Im sure some of the guys here will be happy that you are back on the market....

 

Sorry to hear. Hope the next one is better.

 

 

hey gotta let 'em go, some guys just don't appreciate what they have. you'll find someone better, it's just a matter of time. just focus on yourself for now, don't worry about having to "look for a guy".

 

Sorry to hear it, I think we've all "been there" at one point or another, so we feel for you- good luck!


Good advice!

 

Chin up. Now's the time to do all the things that you wanted to do without a bf.

 

Sorry to hear

But don't give your hopes up... You'll meet someone when you least expect it. So bury this behind you and just go out and have fun

 

Yeah, some girls don't appreciate it either

 

Good advice but in general both Men and Women don't realize what they have till its gone. I hope she does fine someone that will love her as much as she loves them.

 

"Pain is only valuable once you know that you've learned from it."

Im sure you will bounce back up

 

The truth can be painful sometimes but it's better to embrace it than to lead a life of delusion.

The next few months will be tough but take this as an opportunity to grow and know yourself better.

 

What he said.

 

life is a bit bitch, it's his loss. You'll be ok soon enough

 

Nothing will get you over the last like getting under the next!

 

a lot of us have gone through that and it sucks for the short term, but in the end you'll be alright; you'll find someone who reciprocates the feelings.

 

I know it hurts. I know you feel like your world is crumbling. Always remember to look for support in your friends. Keep your eyes open, the right guy could be closer than you think.

 

so much more guys out there. you have nothing to worry about...

ideas of "soulmates", i think, don't exist. i find it very hard to believe that, given the current world population, that one can find his/her "soulmate."

true, you're hurting right now b/c you miss his traits/characteristics/looks. but there's always something better out there. always...

 

I call them celebrities

 

Oh, you mean those people whose marriages are measured in months or weeks (or sometimes days!) instead of years, and when you wash away the makeup, there's nothing left but a fickle, spoiled brat.

And Eve, you made the right decision. It takes guts to take the initiative.

 

Excuse me....Kiera Knightly = My perfect woman

 

Who's that girl who played "Winnie" on The Wonder Years? I hear she has a degree in math.


2000 posts!

 

danica

 

hey sorry, just went thru it to. It still hurts when I think about him or see him. But he never had the feelings I had for him. It will get better as time goes on. I am just now really getting over it and it has been almost six months now. gl and give yourself a chance to heal. one day someone will walk in to your life that will make this all seem unimportant.