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Old Jul 14, 2009 | 09:40 PM
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i'm asian and have only dated white girls. i'd like to find me a nice asian but something about a white girl's spunk and wit that always gets me.
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Old Jul 14, 2009 | 10:06 PM
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i'm asian and have only dated white girls. i'd like to find me a nice asian but something about a white girl's spunk and wit that always gets me.
they are not all that way.
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Old Jul 14, 2009 | 11:02 PM
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im pretty much open to anything
although id love to date a white chick.


but i think if i were to date a black chick my family wouldn't approve.
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Old Jul 14, 2009 | 11:47 PM
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Originally Posted by evilone
they are not all that way.
wait, not all women make food and pop out babies for you
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:40 AM
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I'll date anyone but I"ll only have a serious relationship with other slavic orthodox people. It's important to me that my children carry on my heritage.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 11:52 AM
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Originally Posted by evilone
they are not all that way.
The couple differenet white girls I've had dates with where loony! Even ones I didn't end up going out with (but had considered) ended up being nuts! The last girl I did anything with was from Columbia..and she was sane go figure
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 12:30 PM
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Dated all white girls then met my fiancee (Chinese like me).
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 12:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Mizouse
im pretty much open to anything
although id love to date a white chick.


but i think if i were to date a black chick my family wouldn't approve.
Its all pink inside...
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 12:42 PM
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lol thanks asshole.. I thought it ment Quite Fucking True. lol
It's Quite fucking true if you ask me what it means.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 01:43 PM
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I've grown up around probably 99% white girls, so I've only ever dated a white girl. I don't know, I'm sure if someone came along the color of their skin wouldn't matter.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 03:59 PM
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with regards to white girls.

Bang the hot ones
Date the alright ones

seems to work out for the best that way.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 04:50 PM
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So, yes!
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 04:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Mizouse
but i think if i were to date a black chick my family wouldn't approve.


I know it sounds awful but I'm not sure who my dad would kill first if I were to bring a black girl home. Probably me.

Anyways...I like the white girls anyway although I'm open to the idea of Asian chicks.

< Is white.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 05:16 PM
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i've dated black, white, asian, hispanic. its all about the attitude that matters.......oh yeah and they have to be pretty

Last edited by AznX TL; Jul 15, 2009 at 05:19 PM.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 06:44 PM
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Originally Posted by Lister00169
Me: East Indian
Wife: Portuguese

So, yes!
Kewl, bet you got some good looking kids or eventually will one day when you decide to have kids.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 06:45 PM
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Originally Posted by AznX TL
i've dated black, white, asian, hispanic. its all about the attitude that matters.......oh yeah and they have to be pretty
Haha, like how you put attitude first. Most of us would have it the other way around but at the end of the day attitude trumps beauty IMO.
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Old Jul 15, 2009 | 07:00 PM
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Yes, I dated outside my ethnic group (I'm Filipino and my husband is Caucasian). I don't think my parents really cared about the race. My mom was more concerned about religion. So although my husband was raised as a Protestant, the fact that he was a baptized Catholic was enough to pacify my mom. Go figure...
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Old Jul 16, 2009 | 12:21 AM
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im italian, and almost every girl i dated was italian, except 1 girl was irish and german or something
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Old Jul 17, 2009 | 11:27 AM
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Let's see... my mom is Filipino and my father is German/Russian. I was raised Jewish. I don't think I've ever dated my exact mix/religion so I went with yes.

I've been with all colors under the sun. People are people, I don't judge a race. I judge an individual. My girlfriend now (yes if you know my past I went through a lot of experiences since my break up thread so I finally settled down again) is Japanese and white. That mix has been the one that tends to stick for me (my ex was Jap/white as well) so we all have our preferences.
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Old Jul 17, 2009 | 03:33 PM
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i've never dated my own kind...
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Old Jul 17, 2009 | 03:50 PM
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Originally Posted by tool001
i've never dated my own kind...
So you stick to dogs, cats, what exactly?
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Old Jul 17, 2009 | 04:10 PM
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Originally Posted by surfer rick
Kewl, bet you got some good looking kids or eventually will one day when you decide to have kids.
That's what everyone says .

I hope they get my skin, my height and everything else from my wife .
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Old Jul 17, 2009 | 05:28 PM
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I've only dated 1 person; 50/50 b&w

(Unless you count month long high school relationships but I don't)
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Old Jul 17, 2009 | 07:08 PM
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I NEVER dated someone that was the same race as me.

My wife is white. My kid is mixed. A good mix.
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Old Jul 17, 2009 | 07:48 PM
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My parents aren't opposed to anything, but they stress to me that I should marry someone of the same ethnical background.
Different race? Never tried. SO is Viet and I'm Korean.

Would I do it? Sure. Doesn't bother me at all.
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Old Jul 17, 2009 | 08:59 PM
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I'm white. I dated a black girl in high school, dated a Koren girl in college and dated a Middle Eastern girl in my mid-20's.

My parents were not happy at all when I told them I was dating a black girl in high school. I was told not to bring her by the house and all the sudden they tried to impose a curfew on me after never having one before. I always expressed how much I hated racism even as young as 10 years old when my mom made a comment about all the black kids at the local lake, so needless to say I didn't stop dating her because of their views. Her parents were bi-racial (black mother and white step-father) so of course they were fine with things. Actually one of the funniest things that ever happened to me was when I went over her house for the first time. I knock on the door and her step-father answers. She didn't tell me he was white. He looks at me and I say is Nicole here? He says oh you have the wrong house, the black family lives next door. In shock I just stare and say sorry. He busts out laughing and then invites me in. Kind of like the scene from "Something About Mary".

The Korean girl I dated was half-Korean, half-white, so obviously her family was cool with us dating. Unfortunately we were just different personality-wise, but the physical connection was definitely there. Oh boy, was it ever there lol.

The Middle-Eastern girl I dated in my 20's was the complete opposite. My family was surprising okay with it, but her family was not having it. They basically told her what I was told in high school (she was 24 and still living at home, so they could tell her what to do I guess lol). I was not allowed to come to their house or call their house. We basically dated undercover and in one instance had to run out of a mall because her mom happened to be at the same store we were at. It was crazy. It wasn't just about race either, we were different religions, so you can imagine the conversations we'd have about our "future" together. It always ended in a fight or us just saying whatever, we'll deal with it when the time comes. It never came. I broke up with her after 2 years together because she never matured and I was ready for the next step in my life.

The funniest thing out of all the different races and personalities of the girls I dated is that I ended up marrying a white girl from Kentucky lol! Granted we have very different backgrounds (she was raised in the country, me from the city), it's funny that I always imagined myself marrying someone so different than myself, looks-wise and personality-wise, but I end up with someone that looks like me and we have similar personalities. I guess you just never know who you'll end up with.
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Old Jul 17, 2009 | 09:04 PM
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I never have dated someone outside my race, but I wouldn't necessarily be opposed to it either. Just never have.
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Old Jul 18, 2009 | 12:16 AM
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Ive never dated out of my race either, only because it just never happened. I did give a black girl the once though




Im gonna vote Mizouse
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Old Jul 18, 2009 | 12:42 AM
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I dated an asian once. It was okay, fun to see a different culture.
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Old Jul 18, 2009 | 01:58 PM
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I've never "dated" a girl outside of my race; but, certainly had my fair share of run-ins with them
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Old Jul 20, 2009 | 11:47 AM
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I'm white/Italian and I've only dated white girls because that's all I go to school with. We have very few other races at the school I attend. I am certainly not opposed to dating a girl outside my race and I don't think my parents would care one way or another.
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Old Aug 4, 2009 | 12:46 PM
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i see no problem dating someone from a different race. it's fun to learn about other cultures and just the difference in everything from mannerisms to food. i've dated mostly outside my own race.
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Old Aug 12, 2009 | 08:50 PM
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i haven't dated outside the asian race.

i don't have issues with inter-racial dating.
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Old Aug 14, 2009 | 09:22 AM
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My kids are hapa haole so that would be a BIG yes. :o)
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Old Aug 14, 2009 | 09:13 PM
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I'm black, I've dated white girls before but some of there parents forbid them to see me. Anyway, I married a Filipino
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Old Sep 1, 2009 | 07:44 PM
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i think there is absolutely no problem with dating someone of a different race.
i am white and have dated mostly mexicans and 2 white guys. as long as i am attracted to them and we get along well then i could care less what race they are. plus mixed kids are usually the cutest
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Old Sep 1, 2009 | 08:42 PM
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Ever thought about dating an Asian?
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Old Sep 1, 2009 | 10:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Mizouse
Ever thought about dating an Asian?
if ur talking to me...then yes I have, I would have no problem dating an Asian
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Old Sep 1, 2009 | 11:58 PM
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hey wait a minute, didnt i meet you in person?

i think at a meet in socal, were you the girl that had intake installed in a TL?
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Old Sep 2, 2009 | 12:06 AM
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haha yea that was me. are you the guy that borrowed one of my tools for ur battery..or maybe that was someone else lol
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