i'm in love with you... oops sorry, just kidding
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i'm in love with you... oops sorry, just kidding
so i was having myself a lil pity party today & this is what i realized... the only 2 guys who have ever said they were in love with me later took it back & said they didn't mean it.
ex-bf #1 says he was drunk when he said it (um, no he wasn't, i was there)
ex-bf #2 says that he *thought* he loved me at the time, but later realized that he was still in love with his ex & had been "subconsciously" replacing her with me (mmmkay...)
i mean seriously... this is not cool. i'm starting to have a complex here
okay i'm going back to my pity party now
~sara~
ex-bf #1 says he was drunk when he said it (um, no he wasn't, i was there)
ex-bf #2 says that he *thought* he loved me at the time, but later realized that he was still in love with his ex & had been "subconsciously" replacing her with me (mmmkay...)
i mean seriously... this is not cool. i'm starting to have a complex here
okay i'm going back to my pity party now
~sara~
10-16-2003, 08:22 PM
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Eh, don't feel bad, like Joe said, you're dating the wrong guys.
At least you didn't have two guys tell you they were straight, then later tell you they were actually gay, and they were with you hoping people wouldn't find out they were gay, lol. Remember, it could always be worse! You'll find someone who's a good fit for you.
At least you didn't have two guys tell you they were straight, then later tell you they were actually gay, and they were with you hoping people wouldn't find out they were gay, lol. Remember, it could always be worse! You'll find someone who's a good fit for you.
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10-17-2003, 04:50 AM
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SOme people should really learn how to just be straight up and honest!
That has happened to me too...doesn't do much for your self-esteem, but then you realize that its their loss. I'm sure you'll find someone girl!
Hope I do too damn it!
That has happened to me too...doesn't do much for your self-esteem, but then you realize that its their loss. I'm sure you'll find someone girl! Hope I do too damn it!
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Originally posted by GeishaGirl
SOme people should really learn how to just be straight up and honest! That has happened to me too...doesn't do much for your self-esteem, but then you realize that its their loss. I'm sure you'll find someone girl! Hope I do too damn it!
SOme people should really learn how to just be straight up and honest!
That has happened to me too...doesn't do much for your self-esteem, but then you realize that its their loss. I'm sure you'll find someone girl! Hope I do too damn it!
10-17-2003, 04:54 AM
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sure does....man I'm getting depressed I hope that saying is true that when you reach the bottom the only way left to go is up lol...but then again there is that saying that things will always get worse...ahh!
I hope that saying is true that when you reach the bottom the only way left to go is up lol...but then again there is that saying that things will always get worse...ahh!
10-17-2003, 06:24 AM
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thanx for all the encouragement guys... yea i know it'll get better & all that, but it's just hard when every time you 'think' it's getting better, it turns out someone's just screwing around with u again! *sigh*
oh well, i guess i'm done with my pity party for now...
~sara~
yea i know it'll get better & all that, but it's just hard when every time you 'think' it's getting better, it turns out someone's just screwing around with u again! *sigh*oh well, i guess i'm done with my pity party for now...
~sara~
10-17-2003, 06:33 AM
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Originally posted by Got Rice?
You're dating the wrong guys...
Edit: just saw your "www" ...I wouldn't worry about it. You'll find someone REAL soon.
You're dating the wrong guys...
Edit: just saw your "www" ...I wouldn't worry about it. You'll find someone REAL soon.
Your just dating the wrong guys, guys have the same problems.
10-17-2003, 07:06 AM
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Originally posted by 2001CL
Your just dating the wrong guys, guys have the same problems.
Your just dating the wrong guys, guys have the same problems.
10-17-2003, 07:10 AM
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Originally posted by Pull_T
More than likely they are just trying to hurt you now that you aren;t together.
More than likely they are just trying to hurt you now that you aren;t together.
10-17-2003, 07:36 AM
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Originally posted by mesmerize
yea that's probably true... it's still really mean though
yea that's probably true... it's still really mean though
Anyone who would say something that mean is not someone who's love you even want. If they didn;t truly love you when you were together still no big deal...all the more special when you do find a man who loves you.
10-17-2003, 07:47 AM
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oookay so if i'm dating 'the wrong guys'... that would mean that somewhere out there are 'the right guys'? where the heck are they?! are they hiding or something?
oookay so if i'm dating 'the wrong guys'... that would mean that somewhere out there are 'the right guys'? where the heck are they?! are they hiding or something?
come to jersey baby...
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Originally posted by mesmerize
oookay so if i'm dating 'the wrong guys'... that would mean that somewhere out there are 'the right guys'? where the heck are they?! are they hiding or something?
oookay so if i'm dating 'the wrong guys'... that would mean that somewhere out there are 'the right guys'? where the heck are they?! are they hiding or something?
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10-17-2003, 09:30 AM
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Re: i'm in love with you... oops sorry, just kidding
Originally posted by mesmerize
so i was having myself a lil pity party today & this is what i realized... the only 2 guys who have ever said they were in love with me later took it back & said they didn't mean it.
ex-bf #1 says he was drunk when he said it (um, no he wasn't, i was there)
ex-bf #2 says that he *thought* he loved me at the time, but later realized that he was still in love with his ex & had been "subconsciously" replacing her with me (mmmkay...)
i mean seriously... this is not cool. i'm starting to have a complex here
okay i'm going back to my pity party now
~sara~
so i was having myself a lil pity party today & this is what i realized... the only 2 guys who have ever said they were in love with me later took it back & said they didn't mean it.
ex-bf #1 says he was drunk when he said it (um, no he wasn't, i was there)
ex-bf #2 says that he *thought* he loved me at the time, but later realized that he was still in love with his ex & had been "subconsciously" replacing her with me (mmmkay...)
i mean seriously... this is not cool. i'm starting to have a complex here
okay i'm going back to my pity party now
~sara~
10-18-2003, 06:40 PM
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Sara,
Hang in there!
My wife told me (6 months ago) that she stopped loving me about 2 years ago (I was "thrown out" about 6 months ago).
I think the people we're closest to, tend to hurt us the worst when thing go bad.
The way I look at it is, whatever hurtful things they say is probably a reflection of how badly they feel themselves. We tend to lash out in a manner that reflects how badly we're hurting inside.
If my wife felt the need to "rip me a new one", I can only imagine it's because she I hurt her similarly. I just wish I knew what it was!
Oh, well!
Don't worry, you'll find someone who will cherish you for who you are. It just might not be on "your timeline".
Just a thought from a PA native (Johnstown).
Hang in there!
My wife told me (6 months ago) that she stopped loving me about 2 years ago (I was "thrown out" about 6 months ago).
I think the people we're closest to, tend to hurt us the worst when thing go bad.
The way I look at it is, whatever hurtful things they say is probably a reflection of how badly they feel themselves. We tend to lash out in a manner that reflects how badly we're hurting inside.
If my wife felt the need to "rip me a new one", I can only imagine it's because she I hurt her similarly. I just wish I knew what it was!
Oh, well!
Don't worry, you'll find someone who will cherish you for who you are. It just might not be on "your timeline".
Just a thought from a PA native (Johnstown).
10-19-2003, 05:48 AM
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Sara,
Hang in there!
My wife told me (6 months ago) that she stopped loving me about 2 years ago (I was "thrown out" about 6 months ago).
I think the people we're closest to, tend to hurt us the worst when thing go bad.
The way I look at it is, whatever hurtful things they say is probably a reflection of how badly they feel themselves. We tend to lash out in a manner that reflects how badly we're hurting inside.
If my wife felt the need to "rip me a new one", I can only imagine it's because she I hurt her similarly. I just wish I knew what it was!
Oh, well!
Don't worry, you'll find someone who will cherish you for who you are. It just might not be on "your timeline".
Just a thought from a PA native (Johnstown).
Sara,
Hang in there!
My wife told me (6 months ago) that she stopped loving me about 2 years ago (I was "thrown out" about 6 months ago).
I think the people we're closest to, tend to hurt us the worst when thing go bad.
The way I look at it is, whatever hurtful things they say is probably a reflection of how badly they feel themselves. We tend to lash out in a manner that reflects how badly we're hurting inside.
If my wife felt the need to "rip me a new one", I can only imagine it's because she I hurt her similarly. I just wish I knew what it was!
Oh, well!
Don't worry, you'll find someone who will cherish you for who you are. It just might not be on "your timeline".
Just a thought from a PA native (Johnstown).
very well put
10-21-2003, 01:45 PM
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Originally posted by mesmerize
umm i'm still workin on that
umm i'm still workin on that
You should have no trouble finding a date...you just gotta get off the assholes and date a nice guy 
10-21-2003, 07:54 PM
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Originally posted by darrinb
some guys say i love u just to get some pussy...
some guys say i love u just to get some pussy...
lol, j/k with ya
10-22-2003, 07:35 AM
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Amen my brothas....."Love is suicide"..."Love is hell".."Love is like having your eyeballs gouged out with hot pokers...."
I think you get the idea. ::wink::
I think you get the idea. ::wink::
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Originally posted by Gilgamesh
What they all said You should have no trouble finding a date...you just gotta get off the assholes and date a nice guy
What they all said
You should have no trouble finding a date...you just gotta get off the assholes and date a nice guy
10-22-2003, 10:51 AM
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Originally posted by Knife
Are you my ex? Well, one of them. I said I loved her just to get laid a few times and leave it.
Are you my ex?
Well, one of them. I said I loved her just to get laid a few times and leave it.
*sigh*