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I'm going to propose - UPDATE: He did it! (Pg. 5)

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Old 01-31-2010, 12:09 AM
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Originally Posted by StreetKA
i'm afraid that im going to propose this year... i just rear whole thread but still dont know what to look for she a small brunnete she is sensitive and all i want to make her happy im sure that she doesnt want something big... small but beautiful as she is... idk what shape of diamond what seating i know that i will go with quality... and top cost 5k. and i know she wont refuse :P lol
Ask her what she wants. My gf and I have discussed the whole engagement ring thing. Just because you talk about it doesn't mean the "secret" is out. In fact, I have bookmarked rings my gf said she likes on bluenile.com

Otherwise...what some do is buy a plain band and present this with the added benefit of taking her to the jewelry store to pick out what she wants afterwards.

Old 01-31-2010, 01:02 AM
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id like to keep it in secret and take her for trip, may be montreal and then do it. ot has to be extra romantic lol
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Try dropping hints to find out what kind of ring she likes?
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I did it tonight..

and she said























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fuck



I'm engaged
Old 02-07-2010, 12:23 AM
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fuck



I'm engaged
It could be worse-- you could already be married!



Congrats!
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You're right
Old 02-07-2010, 01:49 AM
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Originally Posted by Will Y.
It could be worse-- you could already be married!



Congrats!
Very true, there's still time to run!!

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lol... congrats bro! welcome to the club..
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congratz man! but you still can run
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Awwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!! That is sooo cool! Tell! Tell! Tell! How'd you ask?

I'm so happy for you!
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Thanks!

I decided to do it last sec. I wanted to go downtown Chicago next weekend but we have to go to a bday party now so that won't work. I decided to do it in a old Russian tradition where the grooms parents come to the brides parents and ask for her hand.

Well not quite in the tradition. Her mom and she just returned from Belarus on Tuesday so my parents and I were going to her parents house for dinner. We all got there, sat down to eat (with a bottle of vodka of course) and it was time for the first shot. I said I want to say the first toast, walked out to my car, grabbed 100 roses and came in with the ring. Got down on one knee and asked her, she had the most surprised look on her face, as did everyone else. I knew it would be hard to surprise her so this was going to probably work out for the best, plus it was somewhat of a tradition and we did it with the people who are closest to us.

Shortly after she accepted, 20 people showed up - mostly our aunts/uncles/cousins/grandparents to kind of celebrate.

I'm glad it's done Now I want to plan a getaway weekend for sometime next month.
Old 02-07-2010, 11:18 AM
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Here is the ring
Old 02-07-2010, 11:22 AM
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Wow! What a beautiful memory. You're quite the romantic! Well done! It's so cool that you did it with family.

It's been an honor that you've let us peek into this part of your growth as a couple. Thank you.
Old 02-07-2010, 01:23 PM
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Thanks GG! Now the hard part begins...



Where to find $
Old 02-08-2010, 08:53 AM
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That's very sweet! I'm sure your respective parents are glad that you included them in witnessing and celebrating such an important event. Congratulations to you and your fiance!

P.S.
So how did you manage to bring in 100 roses?
Old 02-08-2010, 09:28 AM
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Originally Posted by sasha
That's very sweet! I'm sure your respective parents are glad that you included them in witnessing and celebrating such an important event. Congratulations to you and your fiance!

P.S.
So how did you manage to bring in 100 roses?
As we were starting to sit down for dinner, I ran out to the car and got them. It was tough to get them all on 1 bouquet.
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I just gave my girl this:



I got a great price at fortuneoff right before they went out of buessness... the main stone is 1.2 carets and it has .9 around it so total more then 2 carets for $6500 regular price was over $13,000 and appraised for $11.. its christopher designs..
Old 02-09-2010, 02:10 PM
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I'm very happy for you.
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Congrats!!
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Congrats to both of you!!!
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Originally Posted by PortlandRL
Congrats to both of you!!!
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lol... congrats bro! welcome to the club..
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awesome dude congrats
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Originally Posted by vas25tl
fuck



I'm engaged
Yeah, but you were smart and didn't do it on a holiday, birthday or anniversary... so that means if it doesn't work out you can legally get the ring back!!

Just messin.... congrats!!
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Congrats Vas!
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Congrats to the multitude of people who got engaged in this thread. The jewelery, bridal/wedding and legal industries really appreciate your present and future business.

BTW - can we get a title change to know he actually popped the question?
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Congrats vas! When's the big date?
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Congrats, Vas.






Originally Posted by StonedCL
I just gave my girl this:



I got a great price at fortuneoff right before they went out of buessness... the main stone is 1.2 carets and it has .9 around it so total more then 2 carets for $6500 regular price was over $13,000 and appraised for $11.. its christopher designs..

Nice thread jack.
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I'm going to propose - UPDATE: He did it! and SHE SAID YESSS!!! - FIXED :P
Old 02-16-2010, 08:31 AM
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This has been such fun to peek in on. I love it when we get to hear you guys so sincere and nervous about proposing. So much love.... It's nice.
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Originally Posted by StonedCL
I just gave my girl this:



I got a great price at fortuneoff right before they went out of buessness... the main stone is 1.2 carets and it has .9 around it so total more then 2 carets for $6500 regular price was over $13,000 and appraised for $11.. its christopher designs..
Go start your own thread

To The OP Congrats man cool how you proposed to
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Thanks for the title change

Thank you all for your congrats and words of wisdom - JB, never thought of that!

We have not set a date yet and are not sure how to go about the wedding. Doing it here with 200-300 people or doing it somewhat more intimate at a resort somewhere with only closest people and saving $XX,XXX.

We have been weighing both options and basically just need to get some more info, prices, etc..

I think we both want to do it late summer/early fall.
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Originally Posted by vas25tl
Thanks for the title change

Thank you all for your congrats and words of wisdom - JB, never thought of that!

We have not set a date yet and are not sure how to go about the wedding. Doing it here with 200-300 people or doing it somewhat more intimate at a resort somewhere with only closest people and saving $XX,XXX.

We have been weighing both options and basically just need to get some more info, prices, etc..

I think we both want to do it late summer/early fall.
This year or next? If this year, you guys better start making decisions quickly. Good luck!
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We'd like to do it this year....

Yeah, kind of last minute but we'd like to have a quick engagement, get married and start paying off debt
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congrats and best of luck w/ the marriage
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CONGRATZ!!!!!!!!! wow.. i feel old somehow but im only 21
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We set a date! And most likely found a place to do it at. 10/01/10
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How fun! I am madly planning right now, as we rather suddenly decided to do it next month. Crazy.

What kind of setting did you choose?
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We will be doing it at a Russian restaurant in Chicago (we're both from Belarus). Very traditional, family style dinner, 150 or so people, live band, big hall with dance floor.

Lots of vodka.


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