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Old 05-10-2011, 12:21 PM
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its over. GG
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Predicting a whipped cream bikini




Bet she says something about it.
Old 05-10-2011, 12:30 PM
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Old 05-10-2011, 12:57 PM
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Originally Posted by UA7_ChicK
LOL Some of you guys are such little piglets! He did the right thing by leaving well enough alone. Office relationships and personal relationships should never mix. It's got disaster written all over it 99% of the time. "Be friendly, but not friends".
I dunno, seems like she was being friendly
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I'm very much against messing around with someone at work.

Last winter I broke my rule and ended up hooking up with a girl from work. I was kicking myself in the ass for it afterwards and the next day.

Then she shoots me an IM the next day and says "we're cool right?" I say, yeah, she responds "ok, good."

That was that!
Old 05-10-2011, 03:40 PM
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wait.. does she have excess white matter due to MS or HIV?

I would tread lightly. If you really think a sexcapade with this cougar is going to threaten your job safety.. don't. Otherwise, if you're both unattached..


Originally Posted by 97BlackAckCL
definitely props for doing the right thing, most of us wouldn't have
I'm more inclined to think the majority of us would have gotten the eff out of there....... and fapped.
Old 05-10-2011, 05:09 PM
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After reading the story again, I had a vision of that scene from "Joe and the Volcano" where Joe's so close to getting laid and he says something about his "brain cloud" and she freaks out and leaves.
Old 05-11-2011, 10:19 AM
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if you ask me i think maybe with all the health stuff she was prob just looking something to take her mind off of things for a while. from my experiance women who make sexual advances are not looking for a relationship and are looking just for sex.

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Old 05-11-2011, 10:30 AM
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So Fuzzy, what happened with the monitors?
Old 05-11-2011, 10:33 AM
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Originally Posted by 97BlackAckCL
So Fuzzy, what happened with the cougar?


Question: Does Fuzzy drive a cherry Z51 convert 6MT?
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Guess she got what she wanted elsewhere. She had someone over & was totally uninterested in anything I did while I was there. Took me 35 minutes to setup what I needed & that was it.
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Originally Posted by fuzzy02CLS
Guess she got what she wanted elsewhere. She had someone over & was totally uninterested in anything I did while I was there. Took me 35 minutes to setup what I needed & that was it.
dont beat yourself up in hindsight if you REALLY wanted to you would have when the oppertunity was there
Old 05-12-2011, 06:08 AM
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Look at it as a test...and you passed.
Old 05-12-2011, 06:23 AM
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I would have sued for sexual harassment and get paid money cash!

Seriously though...you are stronger than most people...not sure if I would have passed on something like that if I were single.
Old 05-12-2011, 06:40 AM
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It would have ended up just being problematic. You did the right thing.
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Had someone over? I'm assuming a female friend? Or some guy??
Old 05-12-2011, 11:07 AM
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Probably a Thai Delivery boy delivering cream of Som Young Khai.
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Well done, Move on.
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Or some guy
Yeah a guy. I didn't pay attention either. Did what I needed & left.
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Originally Posted by fuzzy02CLS
Yeah a guy. I didn't pay attention either. Did what I needed & left.
thats what she WANTED you to do the FIRST time

















J/K
Old 05-12-2011, 11:28 PM
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I guess Big Head beat out Little Head this time.
Old 05-12-2011, 11:45 PM
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big head has a brain... glad you used it man...

... now, how would you have felt if you had done the deed and then when you came over to set up the monitors....there was someone else there? ... I have been there and done that... makes you feel used up...
Old 05-13-2011, 12:05 AM
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i wish i would be used like that
Old 05-13-2011, 12:15 AM
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Originally Posted by Mizouse
i wish i would be used like that
zoink...
Old 05-14-2011, 02:25 PM
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Don't stress over it man...just remember if it comes close to affecting your money it's not worth it. Very serious now in these economic times.
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Originally Posted by D'sNBP
Don't stress over it man...just remember if it comes close to affecting your money it's not worth it. Very serious now in these economic times.

well she sounds rich... so why not have a sugar momma?

this could turn out to be a good thing..

what if it goes north? you wont need to work for along time.. your job is to just please her.. haha
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You did the right thing. I think everyone has had a similar" well what if" . I know I had many in the past. Random sex is sometimes best with a stranger.
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Red face I didn't take the bait...

So, I had to meet an independent contractor for one of my clients today at her place. The contractor is an attractive female. She told me she had work done a few months ago on her face, neck and breasts.
We were talking about this and that, when she mentioned plans to go to a topless resort now. I said, "Really? You couldn't do that before?" She says she feels better now, and displays what she wants to show off.
The D's looked good.

She then commented on some guys getting plastic surgery for their private parts; I continued babbling and working on paperwork we were reviewing rather than showing her that I did not need any surgery.

We finished working without further incident and I drove straight home.

My wife will not be hearing this story.
Old 08-07-2011, 12:51 PM
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Nice story William. Obligatory pics or it didn't happen.
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Originally Posted by Majofo
Nice story William. Obligatory pics or it didn't happen.
Old 08-10-2011, 01:57 PM
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could be that she didnt want to push the subject to avoid sexual harassment charges. ill put 10 dollars in your paypal if you make an advance and she declines. she still wants it bro....


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that was for fuzzy
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This reminds me of a guy I know. He's sexually active and always wears condoms. But one night, he forgot it and he was about to score a really hot chick. He said wth, just one time. Well, he ended up with genital herpes.

All I'm saying is, one sex, one time is not worth the long term negative effects. You probably did the right thing OP and dodged the work drama.
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Yeah I did. I have a gf now so its no big deal.
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The mature thing to do, for sure. Well done.
That said, 2 consenting adults with a desire and nobody to hurt. I don't see anything wrong. Mrs. Robinson can show you new tricks...and is old enough to know to keep her mouth shut about it at work. I know as fact.

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so far this is a massive FAIL thread. No pics from either contributor.
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bunch of pervs.....
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Originally Posted by fuzzy02CLS
bunch of pervs.....
and your point???


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