I need some advice, a friend of a friend just found out she is pregnant. The only problem is she slept with 3 guys in 3 days, all with no condom. She says she knows its one of the guys baby but how the hell do you know 4 sure. She already told him it was his of course leaving off the other two guys she had unprotected sex with. Do I A tell the guy ( I don't know him but I'm cool with one of his good friends). B keep my mouth shut. I wouldn't want it to happen to me but then again I'm all about getting the test done no matter how much I trust the girl. It happend to one of my boys he found out when the kid was 3

 

I pick A. that girl is just another hoe. and it probably end up on the next Maury.

 

If what you say about her is true, tell him. I would want to know stuff like that.

 

I would call maury.

 

First, a blood test may narrow it down. If that's not enough to establish who's the father, a DNA test should prove it pretty much for sure.

 

You should tell him. It's potentially his life at risk from STDs, and his future at risk if the kid isn't his.

 

tell the guy. if this happened to you im sure you'd want to know asap

 

yeah i would def tell the guy... like the others said, i wouldn't want to be that guy getting screwed if im not really the dad.

 

i agree with all of the above posts with telling the guy. you wouldn't want that to happen to you so do the right thing and tell the guy.

 

tell the guy, that is karma getting back to her

 

, tell him.

 

Another vote for A: You have to tell him something like this.

When is it going to be aired on Maury?

 

tell, but get a blood test.

 

 

what if none of the 3 guys are the daddy? i see that on maury a lot...cheaters are bad!

 

she might say that he's the daddy.

 

A

 

tell that guy to get tested and warn him about the baby

 

What about the guys she fucked the week before?

What a ho.

 

You'd really be a bad friend for not telling. On top of that, it could lead to problems down the line and just end up fucking with the child even more.

 

Wow.

 

She's a hoe.

If you're concerned about "ratting," why not just drop the guy an annonymous note saying that his chick is a whore that slept with 2 other guys at the same time and he needs to get tested. And also include the little part about him possibly not being the father. It seems to me that you are not sure if you would like to blab.

If it were me, I would tell him. No need to increase the number of people with STD's out there.

 

 

Yep. What about it? Next time I'll say she is promiscuous, or monogamously challanged.

 

Just pointing out that "Hoe" and "Ho" are 2 different things

 

any man who is told he is the daddy and does not do a paternity test is a big idiot......

IMHO!

 

they run around $400 or so right? worth every cent.

Is this girl actually "dating" one of these guys? Or are the 3 of them just equal FBs?

Either way, it's your duty and obligation as a male to tell the dude (and maybe the other 2) that it may or may not be his kid.

 

And then Jerry!

 

He def deserves to know if he's the father and get paternity test, and he def should get himself checked for disease, she sounds like a super hoe

 

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I don't think "ho" is actually a word. I think it's just short for whore, so it doens't matter how you spell it.

I vote for A also, fuck that hoe. I wouldn't want to pay child support for a kid that's not mine. tell the dude.

 

Actually, it does.

 

ho: n. pls, hos
Slang, a prostitute.

[African American Vernacular English, alteration of whore.]

www.dictionary.com

 

I don't want to get to far into detail because I'm really not supposed to know. I will tell the friend I'm cool with and I'm sure he will help his boy out. I don't really feel obligated to tell him because the guy involved really isn't my friend or an acquantance (spell check). I guess she had a whore week and now she is paying for it I guess....She is blaming him because he was the last guy she slept with Paternity test are getting done on any future children, regardless...

 

Best $700 I ever spent, and I *was* the daddy.....still didn't trust her farther than I could throw her. You talk about sitting on pins and needles waiting for the results....geez.

Let that be a lesson...thou shalt not cheat on thy wife with a hellaciously fine, yet emotionally unstable, coworker.

 

I think that you should tell the guy, it is nothing worst then a man stepping up to the plate and then finding out that the kid is not even his. Your friend will be mad in the beginning but you are doing what she is afraid to do, so do it.

 

I'd tell him! It's better he knows the truth. Regardless of the outcome, he will at least know what a slut she is. She has no idea who the daddy is. It real funny how they always try to pin it on one guy and conveniently don't mention the other guys they've fucked.

 

Now that will be a hell of a thread.

 

LOL! Ouch! Yup! If one is not married, you definitely want to know for sure. Cause if you find out 3+ years after the fact, you will still have to pay child support even if the child ain't yours.

 

Yeah... THey do go up from there there though..